EXCLUSIVE: David of ‘90 Day Fiancé’ on life after marrying young Thai girlfriend on TV

By Laurel Tuohy

 

Photos: Chanoknat Suwan Toborowsky/Facebook

 

So, what exactly happened after we saw underfunded love birds David Toborowsky, 48, and Chanoknat “Annie” Suwan, 24, wed on the final episode of Season 6 of the American reality TV show 90 Day Fiancé?

 

If you’re like the staff of Coconuts, you’ve been wondering.

 

After seeing our viral story on the money drama between himself and Annie, Toborowsky reached out to us to offer an interview telling more about their dramatic love story, what it’s really like to be on the show, and what they plan to do now that they are married.

 

Full Story: https://coconuts.co/bangkok/lifestyle/exclusive-david-90-day-fiance-life-marrying-young-thai-girlfriend-tv/

 

-- © Copyright Coconuts Bangkok 2018-1-26

Oh my Buddha, from the look of the guy, he will be enjoying some doom and gloom sooner than later....???

She looks quite attractive with the  'snarl' expression.

Lucky guy.

It will all end up in tears ? 

 

 "He dreams of returning to Thailand to retire and maybe opening a beer marriage visa-themed beer bar to tie into their appearance on the popular show.

 

He sees the possible bar as as a meeting point for Thais that want to date foreigners, farangs that want to date Thais, and a place where people can learn and get advice about the K-1 visa process from himself and Annie."

 

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Just what Thailand needs a marriage visa themed  bar.. This guy is baa

 

if eyes are the windows to the soul he'd better watch out...

 

but good luck to him/them, we all need hopes and dreams

When her new 'un-tv exposure' reality hits home, she will be off with someone less bald, less fat and less double her age. (OK the fat thing is probably wrong as most yanks these days are tubby !)

7 minutes ago, RichardColeman said:

When her new 'un-tv exposure' reality hits home, she will be off with someone less bald, less fat and less double her age. (OK the fat thing is probably wrong as most yanks these days are tubby !)

Someone with more money IMHO, Thai girls don't care about a guys looks, just his money.

His bubble will burst in 6 months and he will be back where he started at: broke with more life headaches and tribulations of enormous proportions!, enjoy for now !

Doomed! ................ just like 99.99% of relationships here. It's the culture thing that ruins it all. Beautiful women with the wrong mindset about relationships with "farang's" as it's all about family survival & money. You will never realise you are being scammed until it's far too late .............. without a doubt you will not see it coming. Farang's put their trust into their partners too easily & do not expect to be lied to, cheated or robbed by them, so when it happens they are wide open without any defense ........ plus an empty bank account! How many times have I heard my friends say " she is not like that"! ........... difficult to make a comment at the time as out of respect for them you don't. I would love to find someone here that is completely honest & have a true loving relationship with someone. I'm not talking about "bimbo's" as that's asking for real trouble, but just a normal human being looking for the same as me ........ sad fact is that it's not possible here. I think the message is getting across to most farangs now that all relationships here are fraught with danger & law is definitely not on your side. 

11 minutes ago, Daveyh said:

Doomed! ................ just like 99.99% of relationships here. It's the culture thing that ruins it all. Beautiful women with the wrong mindset about relationships with "farang's" as it's all about family survival & money. You will never realise you are being scammed until it's far too late .............. without a doubt you will not see it coming. Farang's put their trust into their partners too easily & do not expect to be lied to, cheated or robbed by them, so when it happens they are wide open without any defense ........ plus an empty bank account! How many times have I heard my friends say " she is not like that"! ........... difficult to make a comment at the time as out of respect for them you don't. I would love to find someone here that is completely honest & have a true loving relationship with someone. I'm not talking about "bimbo's" as that's asking for real trouble, but just a normal human being looking for the same as me ........ sad fact is that it's not possible here. I think the message is getting across to most farangs now that all relationships here are fraught with danger & law is definitely not on your side. 

All doom here you think?Not really but (most)people who move here have to adjust to the way things are over here and it costs some people a lot of money(me also).Hang in there and it will get better.

"If you’re like the staff of Coconuts, you’ve been wondering."

No I am not, and no I haven't. 

regards worgeordie

Behold ! The Predator ..... and the Beast !

41 minutes ago, Daveyh said:

Doomed! ................ just like 99.99% of relationships here. It's the culture thing that ruins it all. Beautiful women with the wrong mindset about relationships with "farang's" as it's all about family survival & money. You will never realise you are being scammed until it's far too late .............. without a doubt you will not see it coming. Farang's put their trust into their partners too easily & do not expect to be lied to, cheated or robbed by them, so when it happens they are wide open without any defense ........ plus an empty bank account! How many times have I heard my friends say " she is not like that"! ........... difficult to make a comment at the time as out of respect for them you don't. I would love to find someone here that is completely honest & have a true loving relationship with someone. I'm not talking about "bimbo's" as that's asking for real trouble, but just a normal human being looking for the same as me ........ sad fact is that it's not possible here. I think the message is getting across to most farangs now that all relationships here are fraught with danger & law is definitely not on your side. 

Is that the loud voice of experience speaking or are you just pulling a percentage out of thin air?

I have a number of farang friends and most of them, including me,  have been in relationships/marriage with Thai women and still going after many years. There are always ups and downs in any relationship, but that is quite normal.

You paint the picture with too broad a brush I feel. Yes, there are many gold diggers and opportunist females out there, sometimes no more than anywhere else in the world. There are also many conniving and less than worthy men.

If a grown man often many years older than his partner acts foolishly with his finances, then that is his own fault.

But, as I say, in my experience many Thai/ farang partnerships seem to work. It's not always take on the Thai side.

However, I do concede too many western men enter relationships with eyes wide closed.

9 minutes ago, ratcatcher said:

Is that the loud voice of experience speaking or are you just pulling a percentage out of thin air?

I have a number of farang friends and most of them, including me,  have been in relationships/marriage with Thai women and still going after many years.

I think you missed the "Beautiful women" part of his post.

He  probably should have prefixed that with "much younger" to pin it down more exactly.

What a lucky girl 

1 hour ago, Daveyh said:

Doomed! ................ just like 99.99% of relationships here. It's the culture thing that ruins it all. Beautiful women with the wrong mindset about relationships with "farang's" as it's all about family survival & money. You will never realise you are being scammed until it's far too late .............. without a doubt you will not see it coming. Farang's put their trust into their partners too easily & do not expect to be lied to, cheated or robbed by them, so when it happens they are wide open without any defense ........ plus an empty bank account! How many times have I heard my friends say " she is not like that"! ........... difficult to make a comment at the time as out of respect for them you don't. I would love to find someone here that is completely honest & have a true loving relationship with someone. I'm not talking about "bimbo's" as that's asking for real trouble, but just a normal human being looking for the same as me ........ sad fact is that it's not possible here. I think the message is getting across to most farangs now that all relationships here are fraught with danger & law is definitely not on your side. 

My wife is different! Makes more money than me. Wouldnt dare let me take part in any thai nonsense. Embarassed of her country and makes her family listen to whats what. That said ive been down that road with untrusting gold digging thai women and sadly most of the time there is a mindset of "rich sugar daddy farang". Best find the educated black sheep women that don't reside in bars and such. Its the only way to avoid being pennyless. 

2 hours ago, crazykopite said:

It will all end up in tears ? 

his

Humm what could possibly go wrong  

Will end in tears but I'm sure he is up for a good cry 

1 hour ago, ratcatcher said:

Is that the loud voice of experience speaking or are you just pulling a percentage out of thin air?

I have a number of farang friends and most of them, including me,  have been in relationships/marriage with Thai women and still going after many years. There are always ups and downs in any relationship, but that is quite normal.

You paint the picture with too broad a brush I feel. Yes, there are many gold diggers and opportunist females out there, sometimes no more than anywhere else in the world. There are also many conniving and less than worthy men.

If a grown man often many years older than his partner acts foolishly with his finances, then that is his own fault.

But, as I say, in my experience many Thai/ farang partnerships seem to work. It's not always take on the Thai side.

However, I do concede too many western men enter relationships with eyes wide closed.

Add me to the list of successful marriages and relationships.  My wife actually pays for me as I am not on pension yet and have money invested instead of using so not all are the same

1 hour ago, Daveyh said:

Doomed! ................ just like 99.99% of relationships here. It's the culture thing that ruins it all. Beautiful women with the wrong mindset about relationships with "farang's" as it's all about family survival & money. You will never realise you are being scammed until it's far too late .............. without a doubt you will not see it coming. Farang's put their trust into their partners too easily & do not expect to be lied to, cheated or robbed by them, so when it happens they are wide open without any defense ........ plus an empty bank account! How many times have I heard my friends say " she is not like that"! ........... difficult to make a comment at the time as out of respect for them you don't. I would love to find someone here that is completely honest & have a true loving relationship with someone. I'm not talking about "bimbo's" as that's asking for real trouble, but just a normal human being looking for the same as me ........ sad fact is that it's not possible here. I think the message is getting across to most farangs now that all relationships here are fraught with danger & law is definitely not on your side. 

 

I must be the only 0.1% of Farang’s here who’ve successfully proven your statement is incorrect, unless you are confused & referring to your own failures with Thai women.

17 minutes ago, twizzian said:

I must be the only 0.1% of Farang’s here who’ve successfully proven your statement is incorrect, unless you are confused & referring to your own failures with Thai women.

So you are married to a beautiful and much younger Thai woman? 

Which is the whole point of this story.

 

I'd love to see a happy couple photo of those claiming "successful couple" status.

I'd also like to hear the wife tell us she wasn't hoping he dies soon, so she could move her Thai husband back in.

Edited January 27, 20188 yr by MaeJoMTB

2 hours ago, Daveyh said:

Doomed! ................ just like 99.99% of relationships here. It's the culture thing that ruins it all. Beautiful women with the wrong mindset about relationships with "farang's" as it's all about family survival & money. You will never realise you are being scammed until it's far too late .............. without a doubt you will not see it coming. Farang's put their trust into their partners too easily & do not expect to be lied to, cheated or robbed by them, so when it happens they are wide open without any defense ........ plus an empty bank account! How many times have I heard my friends say " she is not like that"! ........... difficult to make a comment at the time as out of respect for them you don't. I would love to find someone here that is completely honest & have a true loving relationship with someone. I'm not talking about "bimbo's" as that's asking for real trouble, but just a normal human being looking for the same as me ........ sad fact is that it's not possible here. I think the message is getting across to most farangs now that all relationships here are fraught with danger & law is definitely not on your side. 

Wow.  Could you be more negative??  

6 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said:

So you are married to a beautiful and much younger Thai woman? 

Which is the whole point of this story.

 

I'd love to see a happy couple photo of those claiming "successful couple" status.

I'm 45, my wife is 26.  Happily married 7 years.  2 great kids.  Why are folks so negative on Thaivisa about Western/Thai marriages??!

What’s the percentage of cynical farang guys who’ve lost their wives and therefore spend their time on TV compared to those who have a happy married life and don’t need TV ? (Before you comment, I work abroad and enjoy the banter on here.)

4 minutes ago, kurtmartens said:

I'm 45, my wife is 26.  Happily married 7 years.  2 great kids.  Why are folks so negative on Thaivisa about Western/Thai marriages??!

7 years isn't long, and we still don't know your relative SMVs.

The problem being, almost every man I meet claims delirious happiness, but if you meet the couple she clearly despises him.

 

@TEFLK

It's not about losing your Thai wife (which I haven't) but understanding why they are with you.

Mine is with me for the money, and I'm OK with that, and happy enough.

 

 

Edited January 27, 20188 yr by MaeJoMTB

Can Thai  Visa keep us all updated on this couples marriage 

same with the rich American Harold and his Thai ex porn wife ( I think )

she could still be working 

I love reading about successful Thai Farang marriages prove the doom mongers  wrong it's not all about Money

but in Harold's case I make a exception

have to stop now as the tears of happiness are flowing and cant see properly  

 

 

A chapter from "gullible's travels" ?

17 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

So, what exactly happened after we saw underfunded love birds David Toborowsky, 48, and Chanoknat “Annie” Suwan, 24, wed on the final episode of Season 6 of the American reality TV show 90 Day Fiancé?

Did anyone care enough to watch?