Just met a girl is the start of many stories

[Isaanbiker]

 I know there are a million different stories ,experiences and outcomes. I just want to hear some.

 

All you need is to read My Private Dancer. You can get your free copy here.

 

   A must read especially when you're naive. 

 

https://nordbo.me/files/private-dancer.pdf

 

   

[bwpage3]

7 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

 I know there are a million different stories ,experiences and outcomes. I just want to hear some.

 

All you need is to read My Private Dancer. You can get your free copy here.

 

   A must read especially when you're naive. 

 

https://nordbo.me/files/private-dancer.pdf

 

   

Anyone that needs to read a book to figure it out, needs some help.

[bwpage3]

At 42 her chances of getting married are zero and she knows this.

 

I see many older Thai women here in Florida that appear to have a happy marriage with an older gent and don't have to live in absolute poverty and are appreciative.

 

Will she run off in the USA? At her age highly doubtful, but you have to ask yourself why any woman would run off if she is getting her needs met and is happy.

 

Like others have said, you really need to take the time to learn everything you can from this person by spending time, lots of time, together.

 

If she is sincere, it will always be good. If she is not, she will start asking for money, help for her family, blah, blah, blah. That is the sign she is into you for money and not you.

 

There are many men that have been married to Thai's for years.

 

Many that married a Thai and got divorced.

 

However, if you can use your brain and think about the reality of your relationship and time spent together, you should be able to figure this out on your own if she is a good match for you or not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Dumbastheycome]

I have  always  been  curious   about  Thai  girls.

I married  one.

Happily.

Still  find I am  curious  about  Thai  girls.

I  must be  bad.

But  I  know  my limits.

So  not   so  so  bad.

Just  curious.

About....

[CharlieH]

Bickering posts removed

[rumak]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Let's assume she's provided sexual services for 5 guys a day, 6 days a week for the past 22 years .........

Are you OK with that?

i would prefer if she only worked 5 days a week.   but maybe then she would need to do 6 guys a day ?

[AlexRich]

56 minutes ago, Skallywag said:

Prey tell us about your virtuous Thai GF or Thai wife and how she has been a saint her whole life...

Where did you find her? 

Prey read my post again ... understand it ... and then ask yourself if you’re post makes any sense?

[sunnyboy2018]

1 hour ago, AlexRich said:

Prostitute is not a label, it’s the oldest profession in the world. And in Thailand most, but not all, massage parlours are fronts for prostitution and sexual services. So if that’s your hunting ground for true love, good luck to you. 

 

No idea why any of that constitutes virtue signalling or mummy issues, you might want to take that up with a psychiatrist.

 

I have found consistently that men who use the term prostitute are usually sexually repressed moralists who choose the term knowingly or unconsciously to label sex workers as negatively as possible. It is not polite and not useful for understanding  girls in this line of work. It is as mean minded and uncharitable as the men who use this out dated biblical term.

[sunnyboy2018]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I thought it was a label used to describe people that provide sex in exchange for money.

No. Thats wife.

[kingdong]

2 hours ago, sunnyboy2018 said:

I have found consistently that men who use the term prostitute are usually sexually repressed moralists who choose the term knowingly or unconsciously to label sex workers as negatively as possible. It is not polite and not useful for understanding  girls in this line of work. It is as mean minded and uncharitable as the men who use this out dated biblical term.

Agree with you to a point,when I hire ( and let's be fair that's all you,'re doing initially) I l/t them and take them out round a few places where i,m known and the Thai girls who work they're Will make her feel welcome(costs me a couple of l/d's but there you go) ,having treated them as a g/f as opposed to a ho expect the same courtesy when I get back to the room.

[kingdong]

4 hours ago, Skallywag said:

 

Where did you find her? 

In his dreams?

[olfu]

42 years old girl?--maybe something wrong with my English comprehension?

[Pravda]

I have finally met a perfect match in Thailand. 28 years old, no living parents, is Muslim but hates Muslims and is pushing herself all by herself though university. 

 

Oh, yes.... She also likes girls a little. 

[AlexRich]

4 hours ago, sunnyboy2018 said:

I have found consistently that men who use the term prostitute are usually sexually repressed moralists who choose the term knowingly or unconsciously to label sex workers as negatively as possible. It is not polite and not useful for understanding  girls in this line of work. It is as mean minded and uncharitable as the men who use this out dated biblical term.

 

Again, classifying someone you've never met as sexually repressed or a moralist is borderline insane, and says a great deal more about you than it ever will about me.

 

I couldn't care less what someone does for a living but "massage parlours" in Thailand are, in many cases, a front for sexual services and prostitution ... I don't have an issue with prostitution but I wouldn't go down the local red light area looking for a long term relationship ... caveat emptor. I could call them Customer Service Specialists if that makes you happy?

 

 

 

 

[sunnyboy2018]

1 hour ago, Pravda said:

I have finally met a perfect match in Thailand. 28 years old, no living parents, is Muslim but hates Muslims and is pushing herself all by herself though university. 

 

Oh, yes.... She also likes girls a little. 

The ideal woman is nymphomaniac orphan who owns a bar.

[sunnyboy2018]

50 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

Again, classifying someone you've never met as sexually repressed or a moralist is borderline insane, and says a great deal more about you than it ever will about me.

 

I couldn't care less what someone does for a living but "massage parlours" in Thailand are, in many cases, a front for sexual services and prostitution ... I don't have an issue with prostitution but I wouldn't go down the local red light area looking for a long term relationship ... caveat emptor. I could call them Customer Service Specialists if that makes you happy?

 

 

 

 

Not about my happiness.  Its about your lack of respect. I actually like Bernard Trink's term: "Denizens of the Demi monde"...But I do hope you know the Thai word for prostitute and use it to girls faces and see what happens!

[beautifulthailand99]

As we age , die ,go away the powers that be need to keep us tapping away. Hmm low post zinger topics - hmm.....

 

 

[marf]

https://pattayapi.com/blog/warning-signs-to-look-for-in-your-thai-girlfriend

 

https://pattayapi.com/blog/check-your-thai-girlfriend

 

[Skallywag]

7 hours ago, AlexRich said:

Prey read my post again ... understand it ... and then ask yourself if you’re post makes any sense?

You post insinuated that women of certain professions are unworthy or incapable of "true love"   

So am just asking where you found your "true love" ?  

 

Mai pen rai

[Skallywag]

3 hours ago, Pravda said:

I have finally met a perfect match in Thailand. 28 years old, no living parents, is Muslim but hates Muslims  

Religion is a choice - a "follower" is a follower.  and Hate ain't Right  55

[UncleMhee]

4 hours ago, Pravda said:

I have finally met a perfect match in Thailand. 28 years old, no living parents, is Muslim but hates Muslims and is pushing herself all by herself though university. 

 

Oh, yes.... She also likes girls a little. 

Sounds perfect........

[jaffas21]

yes how did you know she refused extra services. Now she knows what your like, although as most thai men would have tried the same move as they are legendary Casanovas its probably not registered.

 

Personally I dated a woman in cm for a few months, but I knew she had lots of foreign friends and had exposure to a lot, she was looking for an out and i believe shes happily with another farang now.

 

Nice woman also in her forties.  

[Bournville]

"I am not sure how to even ask these questions correctly. I am curious about Thai women" 

 

Stop being curious. You'll be happier and live longer. 

[AlexRich]

8 hours ago, sunnyboy2018 said:

Not about my happiness.  Its about your lack of respect. I actually like Bernard Trink's term: "Denizens of the Demi monde"...But I do hope you know the Thai word for prostitute and use it to girls faces and see what happens!

 

The OP's post is a "dream" about meeting a 42 year old in a massage parlour, marrying her and whisking her off to the USA. It's either a troll post or it's real ... but if it is real then he needs to get a reality check. What he doesn't need is encouragement.

 

 

 

[AlexRich]

5 hours ago, Skallywag said:

You post insinuated that women of certain professions are unworthy or incapable of "true love"   

So am just asking where you found your "true love" ?  

 

Mai pen rai

 

"True love" is bull for the most part, as can be seen by the 50% plus of Americans who claim to have met their "true love", only to acrimoniously divorce them several years down the road. Call me a cynic, but you are unlikely to find women of good character by trawling Thai massage parlours ... and anyone who does this is a fool.

 

 

 

 

[Isaanbiker]

14 hours ago, rumak said:

i would prefer if she only worked 5 days a week.   but maybe then she would need to do 6 guys a day ?

At least the guy will have an experienced gal. 

[wgdanson]

16 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Let's assume she's provided sexual services for 5 guys a day, 6 days a week for the past 22 years .........

Are you OK with that?

You mean she had a day off every week?

[Isaanbiker]

10 minutes ago, AlexRich said:

 

"True love" is bull for the most part, as can be seen by the 50% plus of Americans who claim to have met their "true love", only to acrimoniously divorce them several years down the road. Call me a cynic, but you are unlikely to find women of good character by trawling Thai massage parlours ... and anyone who does this is a fool.

 

 

 

 

Whenever I hear such bs like true love it's usually used by people who believe that you can buy love.

 

My wife is really sentimental. One Valentine's day I gave her a ring and to this day she has never forgotten those three words.......

 

  " Made in Taiwan."  ????

 

  

 

  

[rumak]

37 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

At least the guy will have an experienced gal. 

haha    but, probably come home and say "not tonight darling,  I've been working all day ! "

[steven100]

she sounds like a real nice girl. Marry her and enjoy your life .... what could possibly go wrong  !