cocho Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Yes I do feel desperate to post this topic here but what can you do..? I don´t know how to get female friends in this city. I´m 30, a lady/girl/woman (I don´t mind..) , I work with 2 different jobs at the moment, I go to the gym, I read books, I try to hang out with the few friends I got but I miss girlfriends. Friends you can go shopping with, share a bottle of wine and gossip, drink lattes for hours, solve problems with.. well you get the picture.. Come on girls where are you?? You can´t all be at home with boyfriends every night?? Please drop me a line. Let´s meet up and have some fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard10365 Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Yes I do feel desperate to post this topic here but what can you do..? I don´t know how to get female friends in this city.I´m 30, a lady/girl/woman (I don´t mind..) , I work with 2 different jobs at the moment, I go to the gym, I read books, I try to hang out with the few friends I got but I miss girlfriends. Friends you can go shopping with, share a bottle of wine and gossip, drink lattes for hours, solve problems with.. well you get the picture.. Come on girls where are you?? You can´t all be at home with boyfriends every night?? Please drop me a line. Let´s meet up and have some fun! Please...take my wife with you! Get her out of the house. Help her spice up her life a little. I think she is bored with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pantip Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 That's a good idea - I'm sure my wife would like to go with for a bit of shopping. A bottle of wine after etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p1p Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Please guys, lets keep this one on topic without any of the normal silly comments. Only post if you can offer genuine help. Cocho - Please see my PM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanchao Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Yes, along the same lines: would it have to be a Western person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pim Kemasingki Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I know many girls who share the same feelings as you: unless you know people, it can be intimidating walking into the numerous guy-friendly bars and pubs. I love my Thai friends to bits but they are my lunch friends and don't do nights, so need expat friends to play with at night. It is fairly easy if you know one or two people, then you just gradually expand your group. I used to organise a monthly girlie night at The Pub which was attended by over 50 women. It was great. But I got busy and times changed. I wonder if I organise somthing similar again as a one-off whether anyone would be interested. Do PM me if you are keen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Comments about moderation have been removed from this thread in accordance with the Forum Rules. To echo p1p's earlier post, sensible replies only to this thread please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 ^^^^^ Yes, no Tom Foolery or shenanigans. What would we do with out you? You've had 2 prior warnings for questioning moderation in the past 4 weeks 'Toptrainer'... care to continue? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanchao Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 (edited) Only in moderation? Anyway, my wife needs friends, badly, but I'm hesitant to recommend her joining up for fear of her slowly becoming brainwashed with a Western feminist agenda.. And then, a large percentage of Western women are here because of (their husband's) missionary work aren't they.. That won't do either. Edited May 3, 2007 by chanchao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m155g0ld Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Yes I do feel desperate to post this topic here but what can you do..? I don´t know how to get female friends in this city.I´m 30, a lady/girl/woman (I don´t mind..) , I work with 2 different jobs at the moment, I go to the gym, I read books, I try to hang out with the few friends I got but I miss girlfriends. Friends you can go shopping with, share a bottle of wine and gossip, drink lattes for hours, solve problems with.. well you get the picture.. Come on girls where are you?? You can´t all be at home with boyfriends every night?? Please drop me a line. Let´s meet up and have some fun! It's so very unfortunate that I am in Bangkok because I would have been your first "yes, me!" for sure! I'm 27 and there just aren't any farang girls around my sort of age group anywhere to be found. I also have Thai girlfriends and loads of male friends which is great, but everything you say about missing bottles of wine, shopping, girly chats and giggles is just so true! If you ever find yourself in BKK............. L x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmsally Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I know many girls who share the same feelings as you: unless you know people, it can be intimidating walking into the numerous guy-friendly bars and pubs. I love my Thai friends to bits but they are my lunch friends and don't do nights, so need expat friends to play with at night. It is fairly easy if you know one or two people, then you just gradually expand your group. I used to organise a monthly girlie night at The Pub which was attended by over 50 women. It was great. But I got busy and times changed. I wonder if I organise somthing similar again as a one-off whether anyone would be interested. Do PM me if you are keen. Actually sounds pretty good. Always keen to meet new people. Get caught up in my schedule like most people but can usually manage to clear it if I plan ahead. Count me in! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahJ Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Sounds like you are in the same boat as me! I have sent you a PM. Sarah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ta22 Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 go join a cooking class or some kinda yaga class . you will find alot of friends , most female i assume . personally i like cooking . so along with many other hobby . i like shopping , but my kinda shopping is look at how product is produce and the prie tag so i knwo what the market is offering whahha open your heart and friends will come to you . you get two kinda friends one that lich on you and one that support you . choose wisely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 (edited) I always notice lots of Farang and Thai women in Aerobics classes and very few men. Seems like a fun place to meet new people and get in shape at the same time. Join one of the better health clubs. Edited May 3, 2007 by Ulysses G. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crow Boy Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I always notice lots of Farang and Thai women in Aerobics classes and very few men. Seems like a fun place to meet new people and get in shape at the same time.Join one of the better health clubs. You will notice UG at the front of the class belting out his best Richard Simmons impersonation BWAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHA CB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 PM me for "best" aerobics class with fat guy in front. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cocho Posted May 4, 2007 Author Share Posted May 4, 2007 I know many girls who share the same feelings as you: unless you know people, it can be intimidating walking into the numerous guy-friendly bars and pubs. I love my Thai friends to bits but they are my lunch friends and don't do nights, so need expat friends to play with at night. It is fairly easy if you know one or two people, then you just gradually expand your group. I used to organise a monthly girlie night at The Pub which was attended by over 50 women. It was great. But I got busy and times changed. I wonder if I organise somthing similar again as a one-off whether anyone would be interested. Do PM me if you are keen. Actually sounds pretty good. Always keen to meet new people. Get caught up in my schedule like most people but can usually manage to clear it if I plan ahead. Count me in! I think thats a great idea. Thank you for telling me. Count me in too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
in the sky Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 Hi Cocho I regularly go to Chiang Mai Expats Club meetings. I have met a lot of women there, including a few your age and have some good friends. Give it a try. 2nd and 4th Sat every month at Chiang Mai Orchid Hotel next to Central. 10:30 AM, but come earlier top chat and get a seat. If you feel neglected, approach a Board member (white polos) and you are bound to get an introduction. They have a few good speakers, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isis10 Posted May 5, 2007 Share Posted May 5, 2007 Hey I hear you. Early 30s woman in Chiang Mai - and would love to meet up for a drink or a glass of wine. How are you contactable? (I'm new to the forum). Isis10 Yes I do feel desperate to post this topic here but what can you do..? I don´t know how to get female friends in this city.I´m 30, a lady/girl/woman (I don´t mind..) , I work with 2 different jobs at the moment, I go to the gym, I read books, I try to hang out with the few friends I got but I miss girlfriends. Friends you can go shopping with, share a bottle of wine and gossip, drink lattes for hours, solve problems with.. well you get the picture.. Come on girls where are you?? You can´t all be at home with boyfriends every night?? Please drop me a line. Let´s meet up and have some fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted May 5, 2007 Share Posted May 5, 2007 Hey I hear you. Early 30s woman in Chiang Mai - and would love to meet up for a drink or a glass of wine. How are you contactable? (I'm new to the forum). Isis10 Yes I do feel desperate to post this topic here but what can you do..? I don´t know how to get female friends in this city.I´m 30, a lady/girl/woman (I don´t mind..) , I work with 2 different jobs at the moment, I go to the gym, I read books, I try to hang out with the few friends I got but I miss girlfriends. Friends you can go shopping with, share a bottle of wine and gossip, drink lattes for hours, solve problems with.. well you get the picture.. Come on girls where are you?? You can´t all be at home with boyfriends every night?? Please drop me a line. Let´s meet up and have some fun! Isis10 : If you click on the/any name (like Isis10) you have an option to send that person a Personal Message and you can leave a message how to contact you ... LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pim Kemasingki Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 I am early thirties, and know loads of women who want to meet others. Not doing a sales pitch here, but I just haven't set a date, but if you check Citylife next month, I will post an announcement as to where and when we can organise a women's night out. We should just meet ina pub somewhere and every one pays their way, I don't want to charge per head or organise dinner as one never knows who will turn up. Does that sound good? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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