Popular Post HandsomeTallFarang Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous. High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped. 2 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tonray Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 By all means, drop her so you can hook up with someone even worse. 1 2 1 21 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted April 15, 2021 Share Posted April 15, 2021 Are you sure she is not a proffesional the really hot ones were I found in my long holiday time here, years ago now mind. Ask yourself do you want commitment with her or not that is mostly what is wanted. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 5 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said: who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. Never make sacrifices for women. Pay for what you get! 4 1 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 12 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said: Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous. High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped. You are not happy with her anymore - for whatever reason. And what do people who are not happy together anymore? They separate! What would be the point of staying with a person who doesn't make you happy? Apart from that I suggest have a close look what problems you have to make sure you don't repeat the same problems in the next relationship. Money might be one issue but often there are a lot more issues and just pretending all would be happy if she would only receive enough money is often unrealistic. 11 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post xylophone Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 41 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said: Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous In your post you said, "seems like the love has died" and, "our relationship has grown tenuous", so there you have two very good reasons to move on. If you accept that, then moving on will be easy, however if you still have feelings for her, then you have perhaps a tough decision to make. IMO hanging on to an almost dead relationship is a complete waste of time. 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post petermik Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Move on...why make one woman miserable when there's plenty more out there that can make you happy... 6 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Brer Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Could be worst if you were married. There at least a million others out there and some are extremely beautiful physically and in nature. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Just now, Brer said: and some are extremely beautiful physically and in nature. Those would be guys pretending to be women. 2 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Brer Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 5 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Those would be guys pretending to be women. Well I don’t know how fussy he is. 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 So, What do you want here, affirmation ? We dont know her or you, you made a statement and already made your decision it would seem. Go get another one, you know she will. Thats life mate. 13 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Excel Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Perhaps she does not understand that "the perfect farang male model" as you put it are nearly all gay ???? 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 4 minutes ago, CharlieH said: So, What do you want here, affirmation ? We dont know her or you, you made a statement and already made your decision it would seem. Go get another one, you know she will. Thats life mate. Maybe the problem is to end that relationship. Lot's of girls (and also guys) don't like to hear that it's over. I suggest he should post her picture and contact details on TV. Soon she will realize that there are lots of other guys out there who like to contact pretty young girls. Then our member will be released of his problem and maybe she is able to make one or two other members happy. Clearly a win/win situation. 2 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 3 minutes ago, Excel said: Perhaps she does not understand that "the perfect farang male model" as you put it are nearly all gay ???? Maybe she wouldn't mind as long as he is rich and willing to share all that money. ???? 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ThailandRyan Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 (edited) Pack up the bags, take what's yours and "Hit the Road Jack" https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=Hit+the+road+jack&view=detail&mid=41293ABD16930B9DD8C241293ABD16930B9DD8C2&FORM=VIRE0&ru=%2fsearch%3fq%3dHit%2bthe%2broad%2bjack%26cvid%3d5033ba2677cc45fd811c954d0c961f1c%26aqs%3dedge..69i57.5487j0j9%26FORM%3dANAB01%26PC%3dLCTS Plenty of fish in the sea, and as said many times before never put forth more than you can afford to walk away from. Edited April 15, 2021 by ThailandRyan 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post swissie Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Woulden't be the first time: OP has has been associating with "good" Thai girls before, them delivering little exitement in the bedroom. Then comes along a girl with true bedroom talents. Making it hard to part, the Farang realising that it may take years for him to find another certified "bedroom-talent". That would (for most men) be a good reason to hang on to a relationship even if other "perks" have evaporated. It's easy: Men sleep 8 hours a day. Another 8 hours they spend time on silly things like eating, drinking, making money, playing golf. What do they do with the rest of the remaining 8 hours? Looking to reproduce. Preferrably with a "bedroom-talent" instead of a boring good (Thai) girl). Sex is generally underrated in a relationship. Could it be that the OP finds himself in this situation? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CG1 Blue Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 5 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said: I'm not old or ugly or short That one sentence speaks volumes 4 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sipi Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 I married the village "ugly duckling" who had been shelved, best thing I ever did. She's the perfect wife, and frankly beautiful in my eyes. Mind you, I'm no oil painting. 15 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mstevens Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 It sounds like you've made the decision to move on but don't have the gonads to tell her. Do it, move on and very soon you'll feel a whole lot better about life. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post scubascuba3 Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 Guys get confused with girlfriends vs employees, if it isn't working let her go and hire someone else 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lodstewart Posted April 15, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 15, 2021 dump her and hard, so she realises that she didn't put the effort in to keep you happy. you will then hook up with one who is devoted to you for what you are, not just for the gold she can screw out of you. c'mon mate, theres thousands of them out there, start selecting .......slowly, take your time ok 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolkarl Posted April 15, 2021 Share Posted April 15, 2021 I have the philosophy pump 'em and dump 'em. Never caused me a heartache. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deli Posted April 16, 2021 Share Posted April 16, 2021 It's a all about the Benjamins. Drop her, next one to come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tonray Posted April 16, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 16, 2021 1 minute ago, Deli said: It's a all about the Benjamins. Drop her, next one to come. If she's an Issan girl that would be "Benjamats" 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 1FinickyOne Posted April 16, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 16, 2021 7 hours ago, sipi said: I married the village "ugly duckling" who had been shelved, best thing I ever did. She's the perfect wife, and frankly beautiful in my eyes. Mind you, I'm no oil painting. Actually, a lovely post - - A friend told me years ago that any Thai lady can put on make-up and be beautiful... but not every lady is beautiful inside... In the truly kindest way... you deserve each other and the happiness and contentment you seem to have... 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodysfriend Posted April 16, 2021 Share Posted April 16, 2021 13 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said: Seems like the love has died and she is just using me as a crutch. I'm not old or ugly or short but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month. She is a very attractive lady but our relationship has grown tenuous. High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped. Men are not monogamous by nature . Only society teaches us that . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted April 16, 2021 Share Posted April 16, 2021 22 minutes ago, koolkarl said: I have the philosophy pump 'em and dump 'em. Never caused me a heartache. or a warmth of heart and tender moment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Tagged Posted April 16, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 16, 2021 7 hours ago, CG1 Blue said: That one sentence speaks volumes Im not sure what he trying to tell here? Obvious he did not understand girls do not like cheap Charlies, and nothing to do with our age or look. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post crazykopite Posted April 16, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 16, 2021 It’s whats under the skin not what’s on top of the skin if I meet a girl I invite them to come and stay with me for a week or two that gives us both an idea if we can live in Harmony as of today I’m still looking for the right one although the last girl to stay still keeps in touch and never asked for anything but she spent 24/7 on her bloody phone and I mean 24/7 . 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Excel Posted April 16, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 16, 2021 1 minute ago, crazykopite said: It’s whats under the skin not what’s on top of the skin if I meet a girl I invite them to come and stay with me for a week or two that gives us both an idea if we can live in Harmony as of today I’m still looking for the right one although the last girl to stay still keeps in touch and never asked for anything but she spent 24/7 on her bloody phone and I mean 24/7 . Yep they love their phones, have you seen how some of those new ones vibrate ???? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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