Dating 22-Year-Old Thai Bubble Tea Girl - She Just Asked for 30K/Month – Am I Being Played?

[NanLaew]

On 5/22/2025 at 11:52 PM, pub2022 said:

If you do not care about the money and feel very happy with her then why not?

Just be prepared it is going to be a relationship based on giving money to her. If you turn off the tap it's  probably over.

Btw you did not mention the age gap? That's important!

By the same token, when he gets fed up of her nonsense (and he will), all he needs to do is stop the stipend and she'll vanish, along with all those sweet memories.

 

Unless of course he's cultivated a bunny boiler, then it's change locks, phone number, sell the car and move to Idaho time.

[NanLaew]

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm not paying her a "salary". 

 

Rather, when a man decides that a woman is his, then he feels repsonsible for her. And he takes care of her. Also financially if that is required.

 

So if she says she needs 2000 or 3000 Baht of course I would take care of her.

 

If you say you do not pay your girl 1 Baht, it tells me you do not feel responsible for her.

 

Now, the issue remains, that you claim you do not pay 1 Baht, but they stay because of your "character". So what is it about your character that makes them stay? When you don't pay 1 Baht?

 

Maybe his "character" is around ten inches and he can breath through his ears?

[grumpyoldman]

The troll worked, six pages !

[Cameroni]

4 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

 

Maybe his "character" is around ten inches and he can breath through his ears?

 

Let's suppose that were so, sex gets old very quickly. If you eat beef every day, why would you stay loyal to beef all your life?

 

But he's claiming the women, whom he pays not one Baht, stay with him because of his character.

 

They don't care about money, lifestyle or social standing...his character is all it takes...hmmmmmm

 

Sounds prettayyy, prettaayyy, prettayyyy unlikely....

[NanLaew]

On 5/23/2025 at 2:40 AM, Smokin Joe said:

"...makes me feel 20 years younger."

 

Her Thai boyfriend feels 20 years younger also. Because he is.

 

Oh, that's good. That's very good.

[Celsius]

24 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Let's suppose that were so, sex gets old very quickly. If you eat beef every day, why would you stay loyal to beef all your life?

 

But he's claiming the women, whom he pays not one Baht, stay with him because of his character.

 

They don't care about money, lifestyle or social standing...his character is all it takes...hmmmmmm

 

Sounds prettayyy, prettaayyy, prettayyyy unlikely....

 

Of course they care about social standing. They are perfectly capable of making their own money. 

 

This is why when farang hooks up with a prostitute they hand over a laptop so she looks busy at chaeng watthana immigration. Got forbid someone mistakes her for a woman of low morals.

 

Even you liked to brag about your girl making 30k working at 7/11 which of course was a total lie 🤣 

 

 

[Cameroni]

26 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Even you liked to brag about your girl making 30k working at 7/11 which of course was a total lie

 

I wasn't bragging, she told me this. She bought her own condo. I had no reason to doubt her. 

 

27 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Of course they care about social standing. They are perfectly capable of making their own money. 

 

Well of course they do, and they care about a better lifestyle. Even the 711 girl who owned her own condo, you can bet your bottom dollar she wanted a man who would help her get a better condo.

 

In fact she told me, if I come to move to CM with you then you have to pay me X so I can pay my condo. She was totally up front about this. So you say they can earn their own living, yes they can, but they want a man who helps them pay the bills, it's just the way it is. Because they can get away with that. If we could get women to pay our bills, we'd probably do it too.

 

Ultimately I have no problem with hypergamy, a woman selecting for a more competent or richer male. This is how society progresses. Is it harsh on us men sometimes, sure, but this is how society progressed.

[Lemsta69]

1 hour ago, grumpyoldman said:

The troll worked, six pages !

 

Six pages of affluent 🤣

[Celsius]

31 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I wasn't bragging, she told me this. She bought her own condo. I had no reason to doubt her. 

 

 

Well of course they do, and they care about a better lifestyle. Even the 711 girl who owned her own condo, you can bet your bottom dollar she wanted a man who would help her get a better condo.

 

In fact she told me, if I come to move to CM with you then you have to pay me X so I can pay my condo. She was totally up front about this. So you say they can earn their own living, yes they can, but they want a man who helps them pay the bills, it's just the way it is. Because they can get away with that. If we could get women to pay our bills, we'd probably do it too.

 

Ultimately I have no problem with hypergamy, a woman selecting for a more competent or richer male. This is how society progresses. Is it harsh on us men sometimes, sure, but this is how society progressed.

 

She didn't own her own condo. The bank did and was looking for a guy love her true to pay for it.

[Cameroni]

14 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

She didn't own her own condo. The bank did and was looking for a guy love her true to pay for it.

 

No, from a legal perspective she owned the condo. The bank just had a security interest in it. 

 

Very normal.

 

I am actually impressed how a 711 girl can own a condo. No idea how she could do that, even if she earned 30000.

[Celsius]

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, from a legal perspective she owned the condo. The bank just had a security interest in it. 

 

Very normal.

 

I am actually impressed how a 711 girl can own a condo. No idea how she could do that, even if she earned 30000.

 

Im impressed that you believe every word these women say.

 

Gotta go. Canada  is expensive and have to kick wife out to get some work.