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Has the word twink when spoken by straights morphed into a slur word?

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I hadn't thought of this until I saw this video and I agree with him,.

I'm hearing the word twink used much more often by non-gay people,

For gay people, it's just another category like bears, otters or grey foxes. You may like or not like gay people in any such category, but the words themselves are neutral.

But when used by straight people, twink often comes off as demeaning.

The meaning of words do often change over time. Perhaps gay people need a new word for twinks.

1 hour ago, Jingthing said:

The meaning of words do often change over time. Perhaps gay people need a new word for twinks.

So what do you mean by the term "twink"?

I don't know but i don't like on porn sites when they mix gay twink stuff with straight stuff, why mix it up, keep it separate

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30 minutes ago, scottiejohn said:

So what do you mean by the term "twink"?

Well there's more history here than I ever knew, but I vehemently disagree with him that twinks are usually blonde. He didn't mention twunks who are twinks who have beefed up a bit and aged out. The age cutoff is generally about 25 but there are some who still have the look until 30ish. A twink aging into a twunk is NOT automatic.

I once had the experience of meeting a 35 yeat old man who yes happened to be blonde who looked a twink but was in real life a doctor with an established career. What a catch (if you like twinks and doctors)!

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30 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

I don't know but i don't like on porn sites when they mix gay twink stuff with straight stuff, why mix it up, keep it separate

I suppose there is a market segment for that but you're not in it.

44 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

Well there's more history here than I ever knew, but I vehemently disagree with him that twinks are usually blonde

So what is a twink in your opinion?

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2 minutes ago, scottiejohn said:

So what is a twink in your opinion?

More or less --

Young man

No facial hair

Minimal body hair

Cute face

Not fat

As far as being effeminate or not, I don't associate twinks with being effeminate though some of them of course are. Obviously with the above looks, they don't present as macho men / lumber jacks / leather men / bears, etc.

Regarding the hetero view of twinks, it occurs to me that the twink look being more smooth and closer a woman's look might be the sort that some straight men could be attracted to just as gay men might be attracted to cute butch lesbians.

Has it been redefined like so many other words. As twink to me, meant early adolescence sex, as in, not adults. And the porn of, was illegal, back in the 70s & 80s, if memory serves.

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7 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Has it been redefined like so many other words. As twink to me, meant early adolescence sex, as in, not adults. And the porn of, was illegal, back in the 70s & 80s, if memory serves.

9 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Has it been redefined like so many other words. As twink to me, meant early adolescence sex, as in, not adults. And the porn of, was illegal, back in the 70s & 80s, if memory serves.

Very offensive baiting inaccurate post.

Sure two 16 years might be twinks but there's nothing illegal for them to be together.

When talking about illegal underage sex or porn (which this topic is NOT about but you perversely felt the need to make it so) the gay slang term is CHICKEN.

Again the typical age range for twinks is 18 to 25.

I hadn't thought of this before, but apparently by definition a twink MUST be gay.

Non-gay young men can have a twink look such as when Matthew Broderick was a young man) but that doesn't make them twinks.

2 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

Very offensive baiting inaccurate post.

Sure two 16 years might be twinks but there's nothing illegal for them to be together.

When talking about illegal underage sex (which this topic is NOT abou but you perversely felt the need to make it so) the gay slang term is CHICKEN.

Again the typical age range for twinks is 18 to 25.

How the hell is that offensive or baiting. Simply telling what the meaning meant to me, abet, 50 so yrs ago. And baiting ... seriously.

If you say the twink age is adult now, than fine, but the porn I saw of twinks days past, didn't look like adults to me.

Just Googled / AI, and you're correct, as states 18+ yrs of age. Certainly looked younger than that to me. Although when I was 18, I doubt if I looked it. Or some of the stuff I saw, may have been illegal.

Not really a porn fan myself, and after a while, thought it quite boring. Participating way better the watching.

You do know you contradicted yourself 'two 16 yr old'

Chicken ... learn something new everyday.

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That video brought up an issue I hadn't though of before. A rather unpleasant racial aspect.

Yes, I think it's true that twinks are usually associated with WHITE people.

Usually in my experience, if not white there is a qualifier such as Latino Twink or Asian Twink.

I could be wrong but I think black people are less likely to carry the twink label.

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Just now, KhunLA said:

How the hell is that offensive or baiting. Simply telling what the meaning meant to me, abet, 50 so yrs ago. And baiting ... seriously.

If you say the twink age is adult now, than fine, but the porn I saw of twinks days past, didn't look like adults to me.

Just Googled / AI, and you're correct, as states 18+ yrs of age. Certainly looked younger than that to me. Although when I was 18, I doubt if I looked it. Or some of the stuff I saw, may have been illegal.

Not really a porn fan myself, and after a while, thought it quite boring. Participating way better the watching.

You're wrong. It wasn't. I'm old enough to know.

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A twink look but sadly not gay. At age 21.

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This must get the prize for stupidest post this week, month, year, decade?

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9 minutes ago, wil iam not said:

This must get the prize for stupidest post this week, month, year, decade?

Which post? There are many posts here.

First I ever heard of twink. Can't we just stick with f@#

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36 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

First I ever heard of twink. Can't we just stick with f@#

Who's gonna stop you?

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Which post? There are many posts here.

THIS post refers to your OP.

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3 hours ago, wil iam not said:

THIS post refers to your OP.

What specifically about it didn’t work for you?

1 minute ago, Jingthing said:

What specifically about it didn’t work for you?

I have no idea, or want to know what a twink is.

After watching the video, I now know that it seems to be the gay word for a gay, and poor little boy doesn't want us straights using it.

Didn't Kenneth Williams and his lot on Round the Horne use Polari.

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1 minute ago, wil iam not said:

I have no idea, or want to know what a twink is.

That's your prerogative.

Myself, I have no desire to understand cricket.

2 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

That's your prerogative.

Myself, I have no desire to understand cricket.

Well there are two men with pieces of wood with handles standing 22 yards apart, surrounded by 10 other boys. Another runs and throws a cork ball at one of the batters.........................oh, I could go on , but I shall not.

18 hours ago, EVENKEEL said:

First I ever heard of twink. Can't we just stick with f@#

Why stick with that as there are so may other, more descriptive , words for gays.

On 3/19/2026 at 5:35 AM, Jingthing said:

I hadn't thought of this until I saw this video and I agree with him,.

I'm hearing the word twink used much more often by non-gay people,

For gay people, it's just another category like bears, otters or grey foxes. You may like or not like gay people in any such category, but the words themselves are neutral.

But when used by straight people, twink often comes off as demeaning.

The meaning of words do often change over time. Perhaps gay people need a new word for twinks.

This is the first time in my life that I have used the word "twink," and this will be the last time I use the word "twink."

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Expanding on the topic that twinks are largely a white thing.

Before this topic, I hadn't ever thought about that before, but it's clearly true.


Black twinks are less common in popular culture and media due to the intersection of racial stereotypes and the portrayal of masculinity, which often excludes black men from the twink identity. This is influenced by the historical myth of the hypersexual black male, leading to a lack of representation and recognition in the twink category.

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