Savage Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 It hasn't happened so far but if it did I wouldn't let them get away with it. If it does happen why don't you write a letter to the Novotel upper management with a demand for a reply. Not the Thai manager (although send him a copy). People shouldn't get away with it. I understand why hotels don't allow ladies of the night as it could be bad for their reputation but stopping husbands and wife's or girlfriends is a disgrace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuchok Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 There is a way to stop this, or at least to put some of the larger hotel chains in their place..That is to complain.If no desired result, then bag the ###### out of them on the net. I do like the way Flummoxed handled the situation tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insight Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 When returning to the hotel, invariably my wife is asked for her ID card and I am asked to pay the usual fee (even though we checked in as a couple, if only they'd check their records). I approach the reception desk and with a completely straight face, ask the lady receptionist if she would like to come to our room for sex and name a price. When the initial shock wears off her face, I tell her that that's what it feels like to be assumed a prostitue. Brilliant This has never happened to me with my g/f, but if it does I'm not sure how I'll react - it would be major loss of face to both of us. The above approach is a pearler though - if I can keep my cool, it sounds like the best way... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 Maybe I could understand if I was 60 years old, fat and bald, but I'm a sophisticated 45 year old with my own hair (a little), and a body to die for Wow.. got a picture? Just kidding. Many Thais I know and have asked will not change this way (every Thai girl with a farang is a whore) of thinking because they despise farangs so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 Maybe I could understand if I was 60 years old, fat and bald, but I'm a sophisticated 45 year old with my own hair (a little), and a body to die for Wow.. got a picture? Just kidding. Many Thais I know and have asked will not change this way (every Thai girl with a farang is a whore) of thinking because they despise farangs so much. can you translate this please Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffee Dude Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 This kind of thing happens often to us as well. When we check into a hotle we check in together this way her name is on the register. My G gets more flustered with the looks she gets from many middle age Farang women (more common occurance rate) than with Thais. I can accept what some of you say about age difference as there is a sizable difference in our ages. Boa Bpen Yang Loer Coffee!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 can you translate this please It's in plain english as far as I can see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darlek Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 i was mystified when i took 2 non BGs to the hotel and reception didnt ask them any ID . they knew right away that they were not BGS , dont know why . I have taken other non BGs to the hotel and they were also not asked for ID Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baaksida Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 Rudness in Thailand is a very common occurance, probably more a part of Thai culture than one would suspect. True. Not only are Thai people very rude to foreigners, especially non-Asians, but also to minorities and "lower-class Thais". Smiles, friendliness and politeness can be found nowadays almost exclusively on TAT tourism brochures... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 True. Not only are Thai people very rude to foreigners, especially non-Asians, but also to minorities and "lower-class Thais".Smiles, friendliness and politeness can be found nowadays almost exclusively on TAT tourism brochures... Sad but true, I think tourists are astounded that Thais can be rude, arrogant, greedy, sell their daughters, pollute their rivers and canals and dole out plastic bags in 7-11s like there's no tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sphere Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 What is it with these people? First they hassle us with offers for "lady" right from the airport and at every street corner. When we finally have one they try to stop us from shagging her in our hotel room! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 What is it with these people? First they hassle us with offers for "lady" right from the airport and in every street. Then they try to stop us from shagging them in our hotel room! Classic! Most taxi drivers on the way from the airport are banging on about the virtues of a Thai gf..... And at the same time hating farangs for actually getting a Thai gf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insight Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 A bit off topic, but anybody that's experienced life behind the wheel here will know exactly just how rude Thais can be at times. Making (non-aggressive) eye contact helps, until the day you catch a bullet in the forehead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedude Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 interesting thread but sorry i'm still distracted by the earlier posting by lovely cutie. LC, if you are still there, can you please discribe to me what your face tastes like. are spontaneous face lickings a common occurence to you? thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elsie Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 interesting thread but sorry i'm still distracted by the earlier posting by lovely cutie. LC, if you are still there, can you please discribe to me what your face tastes like. are spontaneous face lickings a common occurence to you? thanks. I have no idea about the taste. But I'm using Stila cosmetics. You can try that one. Shouldn't taste too different. Actually, I had my face licked twice - against my will. The other occasion also happened at the same bar. Different idiot. He played that stupid trick so that I had to get closer to him, and then he tried to kiss me which I turned away. I turned back saying "<deleted> are yo...", not fast enough... and he licked my face... Yuck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Many Thais I know and have asked will not change this way (every Thai girl with a farang is a whore) of thinking because they despise farangs so much. So all Thai's despise Farangs?? So your grouping all thais just like the people that thought the threadstarter's GF was a BG they think because he is farang she is a bargirl not right at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mbkudu Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Many Thais I know and have asked will not change this way (every Thai girl with a farang is a whore) of thinking because they despise farangs so much. So all Thai's despise Farangs?? So your grouping all thais just like the people that thought the threadstarter's GF was a BG they think because he is farang she is a bargirl not right at all. Iammaic is right. What DJ Pat says is within his poor circle of friends. Most Thais could care less about Thais dating Farangs, and usually can't keep their hands off the baby, 'lookkrung.' Get out more, see the world instead of just looking down at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Many Thais I know and have asked will not change this way (every Thai girl with a farang is a whore) of thinking because they despise farangs so much. So all Thai's despise Farangs?? So your grouping all thais just like the people that thought the threadstarter's GF was a BG they think because he is farang she is a bargirl not right at all. Iammaic is right. What DJ Pat says is within his poor circle of friends. Most Thais could care less about Thais dating Farangs, and usually can't keep their hands off the baby, 'lookkrung.' Get out more, see the world instead of just looking down at it. I am half thai and half farang I am married also I told my wife jokingly Farang bad she said no you half farang you good man. I am getting tired of this thinking that a thai girl is a bargirl because she's with a farang. Give me a break Thai people could care less. and Bud when the hotel told you to give them 1000 bht to bring another "Lady of the Night" to the hotel did you gladly pay them?? if so then your an idiot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 interesting thread but sorry i'm still distracted by the earlier posting by lovely cutie. LC, if you are still there, can you please discribe to me what your face tastes like. are spontaneous face lickings a common occurence to you? thanks. I have no idea about the taste. But I'm using Stila cosmetics. You can try that one. Shouldn't taste too different. Actually, I had my face licked twice - against my will. The other occasion also happened at the same bar. Different idiot. He played that stupid trick so that I had to get closer to him, and then he tried to kiss me which I turned away. I turned back saying "<deleted> are yo...", not fast enough... and he licked my face... Yuck! Lucky he didn't try to lick something else Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simon43 Posted September 14, 2004 Author Share Posted September 14, 2004 when the hotel told you to give them 1000 bht to bring another "Lady of the Night" to the hotel did you gladly pay them?? if so then your an idiot Actually, I was dumb-struck with surprise and had to ask them to repeat their statement!! I then turned to my GF and said 'did you hear what they just said? I can't believe they said that!' I assume the Novatel will claim that ALL farang who stay with them bring BGs back to stay. Maybe they have no 'normal' guests.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 when the hotel told you to give them 1000 bht to bring another "Lady of the Night" to the hotel did you gladly pay them?? if so then your an idiot Actually, I was dumb-struck with surprise and had to ask them to repeat their statement!! I then turned to my GF and said 'did you hear what they just said? I can't believe they said that!' I assume the Novatel will claim that ALL farang who stay with them bring BGs back to stay. Maybe they have no 'normal' guests.... Give me a break that never happend to you!!! I would have not paid them and went to my room Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hua Nguu Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 I am happy to say that I never experienced something like this. But then again we have our 2 children travelling with us and and being a family, nobody ever suggested that me missus was "paid company". She did however experience something on her own while having her hair done in a hairdresser shop in Bang Saphan once. The hairdresser was making easy conversation untill she realized that my wife was from the same province as she was. The conversation become a lot more lively at that point, until the hairdresser asked her if she wanted to make some money while staying here. Although my wife declined, the hairdresser went on to suggest that she could help her out in her massage shop on the lower floor and that she would be "servicing farangs" in an intimate way. That ended the conversation rather abruptly. Cheers Michael Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Did the lady in the beauty parlour know she had a farang husband?? it's not uncommon for some thais to ask this but on a first meeting and also her customer at the time unlikely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Iammaic is right. What DJ Pat says is within his poor circle of friends. Most Thais could care less about Thais dating Farangs, and usually can't keep their hands off the baby, 'lookkrung.' Get out more, see the world instead of just looking down at it. You don't know enough Thai people then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 No you don't know many thai people Mr DJ please play it again Mr DJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 No you don't know many thai people Mr DJ please play it again Mr DJ You lot only seem to be familiar with Thais that associate with farangs. Many Thais I know have never spoken to a farang and have that ingrained attitude that is, quite frankly, racist and far too nationalistic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 You need a vacation from the bars and also some time away from thailand and how many thais have you spoken to Mr DJ sure you have thais that don't like farangs but very little sir. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 You need a vacation from the bars and also some time away from thailand and how many thais have you spoken to Mr DJ sure you have thais that don't like farangs but very little sir. I am half Thai and often have to endure family trips with ancient family members who still think that Thailand is the worlds only country. That's what I'm up against. And I don't hang in bars. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMaiC Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Ok you don't hang in bars I am half thai also and I have brought friends to thailand Farang men and women The people I introduce them to don't have much contact with farangs and they treat them just fine, I have never had any problems the question they ask mostly is when they will be coming back. Yes older thai people think thailand is the only country because they only know Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 We're obviously from different families. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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