File A Divorce To English Husband

[iammelynn]

Hello there,

Me again, of course I came with the question...lol Some of people here knew about my issue up and down with my husband. Last time, I asked you guys for help about the way for my husband to stay here. I shouldn't take him back after he got back with his ex but I just love him so much. If you love someone, you're always forgive and want them to be happy. That's my love tho. Here I go, I got email from my husband said he cannnot come to thailand because he've lost his passport and it's so hard to get a new one, he doesn't have enough money to come here, and his family have a huge problem. He has to stay to support the family which is so nice. I don't really know what is going to my husband but I told him whatever the problem or you met a new girl there just tell me straight. I unstand and don't worry about me I'm not get upset or anything. I felt like he hid something from me. I'm not married him for money or move out from thailand like the others thai girl. England is good but I dont want to live there with my husband. I like to live at america or thailand better. I gave up my american green card to live at thailand because he said he want to stay in thailand and he hate UK. He's poor and high school graduted but he has a good heart inside. I saw many good things in him, that's why I felt in love with him and say I do when he asked me to marry him. I already have a good life at US and I'm not into Thai culture that much. I tried to hard to make my marriage work out in every way but maybe the time to let go and go back to live with my mom at US. My family never blamed me on what I did wrong but I blamed myself forever. I want this divorce paper end very fast but how? I asked my husband that if he can sort the family's problem out, can he come to live here with me or not? I have a good work here, we can set up our family here. I asked him just come here and I will take care the money siutation. I know my money worth s**t at UK but I will help him if I can. I will buy a ticket for him to come sign paper here or I can go at London to sign the paper there but He's just gone and not contact me til now. I want to use some agency to file the divorce for me but I heard it's cost like 100,000 baht. hel_l no, I ain't gonna pay that price for my divorce. Forget it, I'll stay married if it's hard to get a divorce paper. I told my husband maybe we have to stay like Ross and Rach in Friends. Plus, the marriage is not active at UK anyway. He can marry again cuz I'm not gonna do anything about this. I'm fine to stay married forever, I really love him tho. We never have a fight not once. I know that if we have our own family here, we will be very happy together. We are 27 yrs old and it's too fast to marry and know information about thailand first before I moved back here. Now I don't know the next month he will come back to say he wants to live here at thailand again or not. I know if he wants that I will take him back no matter what. This is not serious problem to me but this is for my husband. He doesn't want divorce paper hold his back. I have to tell you that he is not cheat on me or hate me but I think he had a lot of problem for himself right now. He doesn't want to see my face again cuz too much memories there and it hurts him so much to seeing me. He told me he didn't enough money to buying food and paying bills there. Is UK high expense to live? He is working hard but how come he is not making money. I just don't understand. , our marriage is over 1 yr and I can file a divorce or not? How much is gonna be? If I'm stay married forever, is gonna be a problme to my husband in the future? I'm ok to stay married forever and not marry again but I'm not sure that will cause him a problem or not. I'm talking about "if i cant get a divorce paper" not that I don't want to divorce him. Do you think I am crazy even I got some troble but I'm still laughing like nothing happened? Life is short just have fun with it, I heard from someone and it's true. Who know? what will happen to me in the future? Burn alive or hit by the bus, I'm just kidding. hehehe I have fun with my online job, real job in foreigners company and opposite lifestyle from US. Its like a new things to learn from the other side of life. I know you guys will confuse with my english but i know you guys smart. Just take a guess what I tried to say. thanks

Sorry for the long post, just give me some idea for divorce, I appreciated for all advice

PS. I love your web site cuz I know alot of info from here.

[blizzard]

find a new one with money! some gurls dont know marrying a poor farnagn is a bad idea.

whats so hard about getting a new passport!

he dont want u move on.

ps i didnt read all yr post . too da mm difficult . one gigantic paragraph is no good.

[iammelynn]

Hi,

I tried to edit my topic to make it ez to read but I don't know how. Sorry I hurt your eyes while you're reading my topic.

I know what you're saying to find a rich one but I don't want them. I just want the one that I love and live old together. I knew that he is poor before married him but we decided to married cuz we were plan to stay at thailand and have an eazy life here. I mean thailand is cheap for living and can have a good life here. We can do your own business here and dont have to work hard tho. Maybe I am wrong. I dont know.

I don't know the word "poor" mean. If it means don't have much money to spend and live. Maybe I can call my husband that but he is work very hard never sit on his a** and ask gov's fund. Maybe he didnt have a degree for find a good job there.

My husband told me that he've lost his passport and maybe sold to the bad people and that's why its hard to get the new one. Maybe it's hard to get a new one at UK. I don't know the system there.

I'm moving on rite now. Is it possible for me to get the divorce paper finish in 2 mos? I don't want him to get stress over this divorce paper thing.

[blizzard]

u can marry poor and be unhappy or happy

or u can marry and have munney and be happy or unhappy

UP TO YOU!

[JacknDanny]

blizzard and iamelynn!!!!!!!

a marrij mad in even

[egg6447]

hey bliz. while i appreciat your intelect. i realy do, i never have probs understanding you . the op either, so not fare you make your comment to her. by the way ha-sip ha-sip troll, dont you think. i only visit tv for the crack, nice one jack.