....but I should also add, that if you are actually sweet and kind, and a 'good man', women generally overlook a lot of flaws and love you despite them.

Another possible one add is that some of women may be rather young and pretty, whereas their partner may be pot-bellied, have bad hygiene, be loud with bad manners, is as romantic as a wet fish, is more than double her weight, is more than double her age, and foreplay consists of unzipping his pants and drooling at her. If that were the case, im sure she is VERY grateful if he finds 'pleasure' elsewhere.

Eek that's a foreplay. That's torturing the young and pretty women.