I'm pondering whether i should read your post in it's entirety, seeing as you often refuse to read mine. But sometimes you might be asking me a genuine question and I don't mind taking the opportunity to have a genuine conversation. The reason why we have these kinds of conversations, is your propensity to assume the worst and your inability to laugh at yourself. Hence you are prone to 'take offence' where someone less 'sensitive' might end up having a shared laugh over it. For example, when you described @Cameroni thread as a place for 'gossiping chickens', I asked you if you considered yourself in that number. You replied rudely and defensively. That sets the scene. Instead of being able to laugh it off between ourselves, it takes on a far more 'unpleasant' tone. Unable to get over it, you revived it the next day at 5am and then the day after that, at 6am. So now it becomes a sport. But the whole time you act as if you were/are a victim, without accepting that you decided the direction of our dialogue. Every time you respond rudely and/or defensively it risks the same scenario. But you cannot change it. You need to hold that grudge/mistrust in your heart forever. You see only danger and respond accordingly. So the same thing happens every time. Some people are able to learn from their mistakes and to remove themselves from that poisonous cycle. Others choose to blame everything but themselves. Deal with yourself firstly. You always try to use the mirror tactic in so that you don't change anything. If you don't it will be the same. I am just your mirror. I'm not suffering nor complaining.
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