I just finished with my (English) girl over Christmas, and I'm heading back to LOS in May on a decent contract which will also help me with my MA.

I could have pulled a Farang girl tonight who I've liked for ages but I just couldn't take the jump as I'm leaving soon.

The problem is that all I can think about is my Thai freind who I love so much but she is a freind.

I know that if I asked her to be my girl she would say yes but do I risk the freindship or do I go for the Farang girl who I know would be a great girlfreind?

Sorry to pollute your branch with this nonsense but sometimes women really do know best!

I guess you are only looking for a rather compatible companion instead of a GIRLFRIEND, otherwise you wouldn't have posted such questions.

If my presumption were right, then keep both girls as FRIENDS, and don't complicate the relationship.

Good luck!

Friendship is the most important part of a romantic relationship if you want it to go anywhere. The person you are passionate about should be the type you will still want to be around when the passion cools down somewhat.

If you have these feelings and don't act on them the underlying feelings will boil up and affect the friendship eventually. Don't set up any artificial barriers between the two of you. If you both feel this way do the natural thing and go for it.

cv

I agree with Honeyen, I think that if you aren't sure about either it wouldn't be fair to go any further with anyone. I think that you have to be sure that you want a particular person changing your mind later will just hurt the girl you are with.

Thanks for the replies. In the cold light of day I think waiting is the best policy.

I think waiting is the best policy.

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True!

If you are not sure I think you know the answer!