Best get on with my life I suppose.

Well said NikNik. The way I look at it, either she was cheating on you, or she lied to you, so you made the right choice.

^I was serious eek, now your assuming that all us guys here in LOS are playboys.

I've just spat my drink out laughing at that statement.

LOL!

Texted her earlier asnd asked her to be up front with me and she responded by removing me as a friend on Facebook.

Oh well. If she wants to act like a little kid, fair enough.

Best get on with my life I suppose.

Yeah, you need to move on. It might be tough at the moment to think about that, but there are plenty of other decent women around to meet.

I'll be harsh for the OPs good.

He banged a tart in thailand, she stringed him along for a while, then found out he was skint and then told him about the new john that was pumping her.

There is one born every minute....

agreed but probably better put

met a Thai lady had a reationship,she realised not compatible and finished with him, moved on with her life and found new boyfriend.

although after 8 years here i get the impression a decent Thai girl and her family would not give us the time of day.

must admit your version made me smile, but OP has to get it in his head its done finished finito. should start new forum Agony Aunt section and stop burdening ladies forum which is normally a good read, i say read as not being a member of the fair sex i normally do not post, but this thread does appear male dominated, hence the suggestion Agony Heart Forum .

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Thanks for the reply.

I'm not one to beg, but I am one to fight to get her back.

There are certain things I have done which I think have touched her.

I will be speaking to her over this weekend, so any questions/doubts that have arisen should be answered.

If she really has decided that it's over then obviously I will respect that.

If you need to fight to get her back then you've lost the battle already, so to speak.

Let time drift by. In a few weeks, it will be harder to get back in touch, and new things will come into your life that demand your attention, and soon your heart will be healed and you'll have fond memories, and you'll be sadder, older and wiser. Its all part of growing up and being british.

SC