jan1van1hooten Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 (edited) I passed a thai woman in the street. I knew her by sight because she lives or lived at a guest house where I take my laundry I asked if she wanted to have a drink. she said yes. so I asked if I should come over to see her. Sure, anytime, she said. she gave me her room number. that evening I went over to her building and I found that her room was empty with keys in the door. I went it and the room was empty and made up as if the cleaner had already cleaned it and made the beds. It did not look as if anybody had just stayed there and just moved out. Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Is giving a fake room number a common trick of thai women? Is it just me? Is this woman Ting Tong and to be avoided? Or is it a come on? Edited November 26, 2010 by jan1van1hooten Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaoPo Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 That's one of the strangest stories I've read so far (not saying it isn't true though) Amazing Thailand. LaoPo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Because she knew she wouldn't be there and so she said yes just to get rid of you? Just a hunch! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Because she knew she wouldn't be there and so she said yes just to get rid of you? Just a hunch! Exactly, and not so strange. In fact just a variant of the common giving of a wrong phone number. Western women do it too, it's often the easiest way out. And Thais in particular find it hard to say no, and tend to give the answer the other person wants to hear, even if utterly untrue. In all sorts of situations. one thing you can be quite sure of, it is not a come on. She is not interested. Next time you see her, be polite and act as if this whole thing never happened (but do not, of course, make any further attempts to be more than a casual neighbor). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 anyway I am glad to consider her yesterday's newspaper Mate, I hate to burst your bubble here but you were not the one doing the rejecting. Gracious in defeat and all that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onnut Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 You would lose face had she said no to you. so she did the face thingy on you and said yes, here is my number. you call round, she is not there anymore and you didnt lose face according to her! strange but true! sorry to tell ya buddy, you were not her type Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Because she knew she wouldn't be there and so she said yes just to get rid of you? Just a hunch! No doubt rakers ur speaking from experience. Never had this happen to me before BUT I've been on the other end of the stick and done the runner a few times myself. Its amazing how much someones appearance can change after the SCHOONER CORRECTION FACTOR has worn off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Because she knew she wouldn't be there and so she said yes just to get rid of you? Just a hunch! No doubt rakers ur speaking from experience. Never had this happen to me before BUT I've been on the other end of the stick and done the runner a few times myself. Its amazing how much someones appearance can change after the SCHOONER CORRECTION FACTOR has worn off. I knew at the time you were giving me a false address! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Its hard to trick you old mate.....seems you've been around the block a few times Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forethat Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 It's just you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carib Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 You got it all wrong, she gave you the address to her new room, she is moving in..... just not finished moving yet. If I were you I would go back next week, she will be waiting for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ignoramus Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 I believe that Carib is on the money. Can't think why I didn't see it earlier. She quite obviously finds you to be perfectly irresistible. You ARE irresistible aren't you? I know I am. [There must be more than one of us out there.] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beetlejuice Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 You didn`t offer her any money for personal room service? Boom boom boom boom I want you in my room Let's spend the night together From now until forever Boom boom boom boom I wanna double boom Let's spend the night together Together in my room Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreenSnapper Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Don't accept abusive behaviour from women. Just move on, don't waste any time, ignore her. Go for women who know how to behave. There are thousands out there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 You didn`t offer her any money for personal room service? Boom boom boom boom I want you in my room Let's spend the night together From now until forever Boom boom boom boom I wanna double boom Let's spend the night together Together in my room I don't know which is more sad: You writing it, or me singing it (and knowing the song) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mca Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Or me actually being one of the Venga Boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonrakers Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilyelol Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 because thai women are fed up with dirty men in the street asking them out? Women do not want to be acosted in their daily life, if they want to meet you, they'll go to a pub, bar, club, art exhibit or wherever people join in for discussion. A women walking down the street does not want you to talk to her unless you are a wealthy, educated and are 9/10 physique wise. If you had any of those quality, you'd know this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilyelol Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Because she knew she wouldn't be there and so she said yes just to get rid of you? that is not a problem with me. but the way she talked to me before that (about where she worked etc) seemed like she liked talking to me. then when we said goodbye, she offered her hand to me, not the other way around... anyway I am glad to consider her yesterday's newspaper if she acted like she was interested in me just so she could pull this stunt---that is exactly the reason I avoid american women. So you've been rejected a lot in your life by women.. maybe you should learn how NOT TO HARASS them.. stalkers are not attractive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loz Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 next time you see her, casually ask if she still wants to have dinner on your new princess yacht? if she gives you a different contact info you know you are simply suffering from an acute case of myfundsalow. a not uncommon condition in these parts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ticketyboo Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Are you young and handsome or charming in any way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pacificperson Posted November 27, 2010 Share Posted November 27, 2010 My hat is off to her. Perfect timing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackr Posted November 27, 2010 Share Posted November 27, 2010 Don't accept abusive behaviour from women. Just move on, don't waste any time, ignore her. Go for women who know how to behave. There are thousands out there. Where? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark45y Posted November 27, 2010 Share Posted November 27, 2010 because thai women are fed up with dirty men in the street asking them out? Women do not want to be acosted in their daily life, if they want to meet you, they'll go to a pub, bar, club, art exhibit or wherever people join in for discussion. A women walking down the street does not want you to talk to her unless you are a wealthy, educated and are 9/10 physique wise. If you had any of those quality, you'd know this. Maybe not in the big cities but in little towns a smile always leads to conversation. Ladies are more than willing to take a minute out to talk. Strangers on a bus will relate their life story at the drop of a hat. Thais are friendly for the most part. Try this experiment. Ask the clerk at the 7/11 what her name is. Call her by name when you see her. One thing will lead to another. When you see a woman you like find something about her that is beautiful. Hair, little feet, hands, nails, bracelet, whatever, something, and compliment her on that. You have beautiful eyes. Thai women are really into being complimented. Old, young and in between. Either you got game or you don't age has nothing to do with it. Having said that most people can learn. I was getting a massage last Sunday when I noticed the lady masseuse wasn't wearing any knickers under her shorts. I complimented her on her jim and asked why she was not wearing underpants. She said Sunday was jim holiday. Well one thing led to another, don't you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilyelol Posted November 27, 2010 Share Posted November 27, 2010 (edited) because thai women are fed up with dirty men in the street asking them out? Women do not want to be acosted in their daily life, if they want to meet you, they'll go to a pub, bar, club, art exhibit or wherever people join in for discussion. A women walking down the street does not want you to talk to her unless you are a wealthy, educated and are 9/10 physique wise. If you had any of those quality, you'd know this. Maybe not in the big cities but in little towns a smile always leads to conversation. Ladies are more than willing to take a minute out to talk. Strangers on a bus will relate their life story at the drop of a hat. Thais are friendly for the most part. Try this experiment. Ask the clerk at the 7/11 what her name is. Call her by name when you see her. One thing will lead to another. When you see a woman you like find something about her that is beautiful. Hair, little feet, hands, nails, bracelet, whatever, something, and compliment her on that. You have beautiful eyes. Thai women are really into being complimented. Old, young and in between. Either you got game or you don't age has nothing to do with it. Having said that most people can learn. I was getting a massage last Sunday when I noticed the lady masseuse wasn't wearing any knickers under her shorts. I complimented her on her jim and asked why she was not wearing underpants. She said Sunday was jim holiday. Well one thing led to another, don't you know. Yes i agree with you but this man definitely does not speak thai, and he lives in a guest house so he's definitely poor and a cheap sexpat in a big city. Also from your history here you seem like a intelligent nice looking guy(even being old) so even if you accosted her in a cheap guesthouse in Bangkok, you would not give a dirty stalker vibe. Edited November 27, 2010 by ilyelol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mark45y Posted November 27, 2010 Share Posted November 27, 2010 because thai women are fed up with dirty men in the street asking them out? Women do not want to be acosted in their daily life, if they want to meet you, they'll go to a pub, bar, club, art exhibit or wherever people join in for discussion. A women walking down the street does not want you to talk to her unless you are a wealthy, educated and are 9/10 physique wise. If you had any of those quality, you'd know this. Maybe not in the big cities but in little towns a smile always leads to conversation. Ladies are more than willing to take a minute out to talk. Strangers on a bus will relate their life story at the drop of a hat. Thais are friendly for the most part. Try this experiment. Ask the clerk at the 7/11 what her name is. Call her by name when you see her. One thing will lead to another. When you see a woman you like find something about her that is beautiful. Hair, little feet, hands, nails, bracelet, whatever, something, and compliment her on that. You have beautiful eyes. Thai women are really into being complimented. Old, young and in between. Either you got game or you don't age has nothing to do with it. Having said that most people can learn. I was getting a massage last Sunday when I noticed the lady masseuse wasn't wearing any knickers under her shorts. I complimented her on her jim and asked why she was not wearing underpants. She said Sunday was jim holiday. Well one thing led to another, don't you know. Yes i agree with you but this man definitely does not speak thai, and he lives in a guest house so he's definitely poor and a cheap sexpat in a big city. Also from your history here you seem like a intelligent nice looking guy(even being old) so even if you accosted her in a cheap guesthouse in Bangkok, you would not give a dirty stalker vibe. I keep name cards in my pocket and inexpensive but not trashy bracelets in the other pocket. Rarely do stalkers give presents. I never make the first move. Maybe that is the key. You have to let the lady make the first move. You also have to know how to recognize the move. If a uni girl on a song tau does not have her knees welded together and covered by a purse when sitting opposite you, you are home free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MSingh Posted November 27, 2010 Share Posted November 27, 2010 Why would this women give me a room number if she did not want to see me? Because she knew she wouldn't be there and so she said yes just to get rid of you? Just a hunch! The naivety of some people ( OP ) is incredible, it really is.. I sometimes wonder when i read certain things on this Forum if some people have any experience of the opposite s*x at all.. Then i think that there is a healthy % that if they had, probably wouldn't be here anyway.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needforspeed Posted November 28, 2010 Share Posted November 28, 2010 Typical Thai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuang Posted November 28, 2010 Share Posted November 28, 2010 What other best ways to get rid of a pest.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted November 28, 2010 Share Posted November 28, 2010 I was getting a massage last Sunday when I noticed the lady masseuse wasn't wearing any knickers under her shorts. I complimented her on her jim and asked why she was not wearing underpants. She said Sunday was jim holiday. Well one thing led to another, don't you know. Is Jim her farrang husband or boyfreind?. Anyway the women did what any woman on earth would do if a stranger asked to visit her in her room, she lied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now