Rigger Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 So how well does your wife take care of you I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing I guess I got pretty lucky as my wife likes to do pretty well every thing for me from washing me in the shower to shaving, picking out what I wear, always asking me if I want her to cook something, keeping the house and our two kids clean. She does get a alot of help from her mother of course. I have tried to do the dishes a few times but she refuses to let me. I think her mother who is very old fashion in her ways has drumed this into her from a very young age to look after her man. She has been like this for 5 years so I cant see her changing Mother treats her father the same way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davethailand Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing You've met my business partners GF then? Me and my wife share jobs etc around the house, sometimes I can't be arsed so she does it and vica versa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 So how well does your wife take care of you I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing I guess I got pretty lucky as my wife likes to do pretty well every thing for me from washing me in the shower to shaving, picking out what I wear, always asking me if I want her to cook something, keeping the house and our two kids clean. She does get a alot of help from her mother of course. I have tried to do the dishes a few times but she refuses to let me. I think her mother who is very old fashion in her ways has drumed this into her from a very young age to look after her man. She has been like this for 5 years so I cant see her changing Mother treats her father the same way <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You lucky man. Does she have a good dress sense for you, If I let my missus choose i'd look like a right tw@ She does cook but most of the time I don't eat it, all in all she's not a bad un. Would rather shave and shower myself TBH. TAF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraburioz Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 So how well does your wife take care of you I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing I guess I got pretty lucky as my wife likes to do pretty well every thing for me from washing me in the shower to shaving, picking out what I wear, always asking me if I want her to cook something, keeping the house and our two kids clean. She does get a alot of help from her mother of course. I have tried to do the dishes a few times but she refuses to let me. I think her mother who is very old fashion in her ways has drumed this into her from a very young age to look after her man. She has been like this for 5 years so I cant see her changing Mother treats her father the same way You arwe lucky mate. We are all lucky being married to thai women.! Mine does SO much, an Aussie sure wouldn't do what she does as i lie there drinking chang, being a lazy sod. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rigger Posted August 18, 2005 Author Share Posted August 18, 2005 I used to put up a bit of a fight about some of the stuff she would want me to wear as I all ready had good dress sense being Aussie with a suitcase full of blue singlets. So maybe I do look like a <deleted> but it keeps her happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davey Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 So how well does your wife take care of you I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing I guess I got pretty lucky as my wife likes to do pretty well every thing for me from washing me in the shower to shaving, picking out what I wear, always asking me if I want her to cook something, keeping the house and our two kids clean. She does get a alot of help from her mother of course. I have tried to do the dishes a few times but she refuses to let me. I think her mother who is very old fashion in her ways has drumed this into her from a very young age to look after her man. She has been like this for 5 years so I cant see her changing Mother treats her father the same way <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Better yet, how well do you treat your wife? do you cook, clean etc? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rigger Posted August 18, 2005 Author Share Posted August 18, 2005 So how well does your wife take care of you I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing I guess I got pretty lucky as my wife likes to do pretty well every thing for me from washing me in the shower to shaving, picking out what I wear, always asking me if I want her to cook something, keeping the house and our two kids clean. She does get a alot of help from her mother of course. I have tried to do the dishes a few times but she refuses to let me. I think her mother who is very old fashion in her ways has drumed this into her from a very young age to look after her man. She has been like this for 5 years so I cant see her changing Mother treats her father the same way <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Better yet, how well do you treat your wife? do you cook, clean etc? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I treat her very well of course but I dont normaly cook or do windows I only help out with any jobs that need a bit of muscle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OxfordWill Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Yep, good to have a thai partner appreciation thread. Just reminded this morning how lucky I am. Girlfriend does everything, I have to force her to let me wash the dishes each day, always offering to cook, inconvenience herself for me etc. Keeps me on my toes so I end up doing things I might never otherwise have done such as weed the garden and paint walls...however it is too easy to get lazy and take it all for granted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajarnmark Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Well, my GF is too good to be true (but she is). She teaches in an international school and we spend sometimes together especially weekends. I am kind of lazy person but I try to share the work, most of the time she doesnt let me do the stuff, until and unless, of course, it requires muscles. Sometimes, she is doing something and needs a lot of help, in this situation I prefer to do the work by myself coz what is the use if I have to be busy with her. Following are the few things which she does for me: 1. Washing clothes 2. Ironing clothes 3. Mopping 4. Cleaning house as much as possible 5. Cooking, she cooks very well 6. Sharing money for the stuff The above list is just an example, she does a lot more things too. Although, being a working girl, she helps a lot too. She earns maybe more than me, anyway, I must say that I am lucky enough to get her. I must say that she is the best woman in my life. She is so kind and loving and caring that I really want to marry her ASAP. P.S. She is and never been the BG, she belongs to a respectable bangkok family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Burr Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 P.S. She is and never been the BG, she belongs to a respectable bangkok family. Why did you mention this? It's got nothing to do with the topic being discussed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 i was wondering the same sir burr. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loong Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 My missus is the best cook in Thailand, so always cooks the main evening meals. She actually enjoys ironing and always makes sure I am well turned out. Everything else we tend to share, whoever feels like doing it , does it. Often tho, we end up spending a lot of time gardening and the housework and the dishes may get overlooked. As long as the place doesn't get in too much of a state, we don't really care. Sometimes, when I'm in the mood to be spoilt a little, she will fetch and carry for me. Sometimes I do the same for her. We have a great life and a great relationship. I wouldn't feel happy to sit guzzling beers all day, while she runs around doing everything for me. Each to their own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jockstar Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 My missus does heaps for me. So many things to mention. Most have been mentioned already. Though i'm big enough to shower myself. We do about the same amount of cooking though. Shes good at certain dishes and i'm good at others. Thai/mexican / Indian. I can cook them all. The missus stick to Thai. Great food. Never had a bad meal. Shes good to me and i'd never change her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Maybe this topice should be changed to, what does your missus not do...that you would like her too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Superfly Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Maybe this topice should be changed to, what does your missus not do...that you would like her too? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Why? It's good to see something nice about Thai women for a change. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rigger Posted August 18, 2005 Author Share Posted August 18, 2005 My missus does heaps for me. So many things to mention. Most have been mentioned already. Though i'm big enough to shower myself. We do about the same amount of cooking though. Shes good at certain dishes and i'm good at others. Thai/mexican / Indian. I can cook them all. The missus stick to Thai. Great food. Never had a bad meal. Shes good to me and i'd never change her. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am big enough too that is why she likes to shower me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaloochapurr Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Well it is sure so nice to hear that there are too such lucky guys out there with wonderful helpful thai wives. I am too in this group because mine just does too much for me. I am 50 and she really is making the change for me. So many times I just do not do what I know I should. What she does for me is remind what I know I should do, so she does so much for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Well it is sure so nice to hear that there are too such lucky guys out there with wonderful helpful thai wives.I am too in this group because mine just does too much for me. I am 50 and she really is making the change for me. So many times I just do not do what I know I should. What she does for me is remind what I know I should do, so she does so much for me. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> No offence....but if you know what you should do then why not do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davey Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 (edited) I think I would feel uncomfortable is my g/f or wife tried to do as much as some do. Don't get me wrong, I think it would be great having someone who loved you enough to want to do most things for you and of course it would be appreciated. Still, however, I am more of a person who would want to do these things for the women I loved, for example cook, clean, take care of the house and sourounding etc. As someone previously posted, each man to their own, exactly right Edited August 18, 2005 by Davey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaloochapurr Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Well it is sure so nice to hear that there are too such lucky guys out there with wonderful helpful thai wives.I am too in this group because mine just does too much for me. I am 50 and she really is making the change for me. So many times I just do not do what I know I should. What she does for me is remind what I know I should do, so she does so much for me. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> No offence....but if you know what you should do then why not do it <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Just being lazy or set in my old irresponible ways I suppose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Carries my shopping bags!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 I think I would feel uncomfortable is my g/f or wife tried to do as much as some do. Don't get me wrong, I think it would be great having someone who loved you enough to want to do most things for you and of course it would be appreciated. Still, however, I am more of a person who would want to do these things for the women I loved, for example cook, clean, take care of the house and sourounding etc.As someone previously posted, each man to there own, exactly right <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree to some extent, it is a two way street, I would feel very uncomfortable is I had to rely on my wife to wash me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Well it is sure so nice to hear that there are too such lucky guys out there with wonderful helpful thai wives.I am too in this group because mine just does too much for me. I am 50 and she really is making the change for me. So many times I just do not do what I know I should. What she does for me is remind what I know I should do, so she does so much for me. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> No offence....but if you know what you should do then why not do it <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Just being lazy or set in my old irresponible ways I suppose <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok understand the lazy bit..... my wife just said you are a lucky man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rigger Posted August 18, 2005 Author Share Posted August 18, 2005 I think I would feel uncomfortable is my g/f or wife tried to do as much as some do. Don't get me wrong, I think it would be great having someone who loved you enough to want to do most things for you and of course it would be appreciated. Still, however, I am more of a person who would want to do these things for the women I loved, for example cook, clean, take care of the house and sourounding etc.As someone previously posted, each man to there own, exactly right <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree to some extent, it is a two way street, I would feel very uncomfortable is I had to rely on my wife to wash me <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Who said anything about relying on there wife to wash them. Yes my wife does wash me most of the time but she has done it since the day we started the relationship. So for me it feels very natural. I work 35 day straight 12 hrs a day and when I am home she likes to fuse over me nothing wrong with that I have never asked her to do it she seems to enjoy it but proberly not as much as I do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 I think I would feel uncomfortable is my g/f or wife tried to do as much as some do. Don't get me wrong, I think it would be great having someone who loved you enough to want to do most things for you and of course it would be appreciated. Still, however, I am more of a person who would want to do these things for the women I loved, for example cook, clean, take care of the house and sourounding etc.As someone previously posted, each man to there own, exactly right <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Agree to some extent, it is a two way street, I would feel very uncomfortable is I had to rely on my wife to wash me <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Who said anything about relying on there wife to wash them. Yes my wife does wash me most of the time but she has done it since the day we started the relationship. So for me it feels very natural. I work 35 day straight 12 hrs a day and when I am home she likes to fuse over me nothing wrong with that I have never asked her to do it she seems to enjoy it but proberly not as much as I do <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You obviously work off shore, earning loads of money....enough said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbojangles Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 My missus does heaps for me. So many things to mention. Most have been mentioned already. Though i'm big enough to shower myself. We do about the same amount of cooking though. Shes good at certain dishes and i'm good at others. Thai/mexican / Indian. I can cook them all. The missus stick to Thai. Great food. Never had a bad meal. Shes good to me and i'd never change her. I am big enough too that is why she likes to shower me My wife washes me but i wash her as well and it's nothing to do with being lazy. In fact it ends up being great exercise Happy Days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Depends on the money me think's. Tell her no more money and see the reaction, if you dare. False idiology. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 Depends on the money me think's.Tell her no more money and see the reaction, if you dare. False idiology. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I would like to see the results. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrincon17 Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 So how well does your wife take care of you I have seen mates wives who do pretty well nothing. house is untidy doesnt know or want to cook. Gets some one else to do the washing I guess I got pretty lucky as my wife likes to do pretty well every thing for me from washing me in the shower to shaving, picking out what I wear, always asking me if I want her to cook something, keeping the house and our two kids clean. She does get a alot of help from her mother of course. I have tried to do the dishes a few times but she refuses to let me. I think her mother who is very old fashion in her ways has drumed this into her from a very young age to look after her man. She has been like this for 5 years so I cant see her changing Mother treats her father the same way <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i BET SHE WASNT A BG , WAS SHE ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simon43 Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 My wife is very good - she always insists I lie back and relax whilst she goes on top :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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