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How You Can Get Rid Of A Decent Thai Girl?


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First, sorry for my poor english and being stupid person.

I met this 24 girl recently, who works as accountant in thai company

in ladprao, I believe i'm the first foreigner she ever met, as she

also says so. She is the nicest thai girl i ever met in Los.

But this girl is creating problems for me, every time i am doing somthing

or giving hints for break up, she shows lot of tears, and i don't want to dump

her before she finds new boyfriend, because otherwise it's hard for her

to foregt me as i can see.

I was thinking if i could introduce her to what's going on in sukhumvit,

but i change my mind, because rare chance of finding a decent man

in sukhumvit and risk of becoming a hooker later.

Any idea how i can make her end up with a nice guy? Please serious

replies only.

Thank you

I have the same situation. Very hard to find a nice girl and even harder to find on that gives you some breathing room. Pom yaak sabaai!!!

Maybe we can swap.

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Ok first of all never have a girlfriend in Thailand . Period , I dont care what anyone else says. There are just so many beautiful women in Thailand , myself i went through this in3-4 times in 2 weeks . Telling you that they love you after 2 days come on.

Agreed.

In 7 years I have had 3 GF's with similar traits. Thai girls have a sweet way of badgering you to death. Very stressful.

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Ok first of all never have a girlfriend in Thailand . Period , I dont care what anyone else says. There are just so many beautiful women in Thailand , myself i went through this in3-4 times in 2 weeks . Telling you that they love you after 2 days come on.

How did they tell you they loved you?

Was it "me love you long time, you special man"

So from this post you are the kind of chap that likes hanging out in bars, where the "me love you long time" attitude seems to prevail. :o

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Ok first of all never have a girlfriend in Thailand . Period , I dont care what anyone else says. There are just so many beautiful women in Thailand , myself i went through this in3-4 times in 2 weeks . Telling you that they love you after 2 days come on.

How did they tell you they loved you?

Was it "me love you long time, you special man"

So from this post you are the kind of chap that likes hanging out in bars, where the "me love you long time" attitude seems to prevail. :o

Yes i go to bars but I dont take home girls from there sorry . I will leave your girlfriend where she belongs . Ususally clubs which yes is pretty much the same .

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I can't quite understand why so much vitriol is being aimed at the original poster. He has met a Thai girl, started seeing her and now realises that her intentions for the relationship are different to his and he wants to end it. What, do people think that just because he has slept with her that he should be commited to her for life or something? I mean, come on, who hasn't started seeing a lady and then decided after a period of time that the relationship is not for them? This is fairly normal right?

He has come on this board asking for some advice on how to end it, and the answer is that he has just got to tell her straight, and yes he should know that already. There is no way of sparing her feelings in this, but that's what break ups are like.

That's no reason for people to be painting him out to be some sort of tool. From some of the responses on here you would think he was married with kids and preparing to do a runner!

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Yes i go to bars but I dont take home girls from there sorry . I will leave your girlfriend where she belongs . Ususally clubs which yes is pretty much the same .

Well you must be a really handsome man to have 3 or 4 girls in 2 weeks, you obviously dont worry about disease then?.

As for my g/f, well she is actually my wife. Celebrated our 4 year anniversary on Saturday as well as finding out i am going to be a dad, and somehow i dont think she would touch you with a barge pole, and you wouldnt have ever seen her in a bar as she is a chef, not a bartender :o

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I can't quite understand why so much vitriol is being aimed at the original poster. He has met a Thai girl, started seeing her and now realises that her intentions for the relationship are different to his and he wants to end it. What, do people think that just because he has slept with her that he should be commited to her for life or something? I mean, come on, who hasn't started seeing a lady and then decided after a period of time that the relationship is not for them? This is fairly normal right?

He has come on this board asking for some advice on how to end it, and the answer is that he has just got to tell her straight, and yes he should know that already. There is no way of sparing her feelings in this, but that's what break ups are like.

That's no reason for people to be painting him out to be some sort of tool. From some of the responses on here you would think he was married with kids and preparing to do a runner!

if u came here sooner , and read all the OP posted b4 edit ,you 'd know why..

Bambi

ps..

ok i will "flash back" alil .. b4 edit he siad he like girls ..but he doesnt like hooker ..so he enjoys to meet other type of girl

seem now he is in the trap that he did all with "other type of girl" and he doesnt want serious relationship ..that why he make a thread ..and ask u guys how can he get that "nicest girl " in the bin

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Yes i go to bars but I dont take home girls from there sorry . I will leave your girlfriend where she belongs . Ususally clubs which yes is pretty much the same .

Well you must be a really handsome man to have 3 or 4 girls in 2 weeks, you obviously dont worry about disease then?.

As for my g/f, well she is actually my wife. Celebrated our 4 year anniversary on Saturday as well as finding out i am going to be a dad, and somehow i dont think she would touch you with a barge pole, and you wouldnt have ever seen her in a bar as she is a chef, not a bartender :o

You seem to think having a Thai wife gives you have some special status to insult the OP. You have a Thai wife dude not a western wife. A western babe wouldn't touch you with a barge pole.

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Yes i go to bars but I dont take home girls from there sorry . I will leave your girlfriend where she belongs . Ususally clubs which yes is pretty much the same .

Well you must be a really handsome man to have 3 or 4 girls in 2 weeks, you obviously dont worry about disease then?.

As for my g/f, well she is actually my wife. Celebrated our 4 year anniversary on Saturday as well as finding out i am going to be a dad, and somehow i dont think she would touch you with a barge pole, and you wouldnt have ever seen her in a bar as she is a chef, not a bartender :o

That was agood one , I will take my beating with grace . I could say something really bad but i wont . It would be totally tasteless. I'll be nice . I was just saying this guy doesnt need to be with this girl . How many horror stories have you seen on here

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Maybe she's concerned over loss of face...  :o

Have you slept with her?  Do her friends and family know?  Do her work colleagues know?

Another thing... she'll find it difficult to be accepted by a potential Thai boyfriend after being with a falung.

-Yes

-No and she wasn't virgin, so this doesn't change anything.

-I think so.

Thais don't care much if their new GF had Farang BF, they are

more sensetive with thais.

All above are not any issues with her, she seems don't want to

saparet from me, as i am his second boyfriend, and ex-thai BFs

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Breakup with with her and tell her not ready for serious relationship. Sometime I think people made things too hard....longer you wait the harder it will be.

I did tell her this, many times. even told her that i am not a right

person for her future, and i don't need to see babies, if you gets

pregnent.

Because i treat her very nice, she thinks the opposite, that i think

that she is not a right choice for me. Even i told her that you are

nice enough to get tens of boyfriends.

She don't listens, because she don't believe me, because ex-thai BF

treated her very bad, she think i am the kindest person she ever gets.

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I did tell her this, many times. even told her that i am not a right

person for her future, and i don't need to see babies, if you gets

pregnent.

Because i treat her very nice,

have you ever told her you dont need any serious relationship, AND you dont like hooker ... but u are not ready to have GF ..you just want a girl for fun

if you miss it, it's your wrong..

BB :o

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To:Jockstar

If you notice, I wanted serious and helpful replies only.

ok u need serious reply

this is mine ..i just hope no more any decent girl meet you ......anymore

Bambi :o

Well, there are many decent girls to find, and not being ready

for Longterm relation doesn't mean being a bad person. May be

next time i have to define things more clearly

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Well, there are many decent girls to find, and not being ready

for Longterm relation doesn't mean being a bad person. May be

next time i have to define things more clearly

you'd do that ...what you did ..it imply that you are selfish ...

if u re not ready to have any serious relationship, just tell girl

i just doubt ...why u did not tell girl b4 ..maybe u worry that u cant end em up on bed?

TRY next time !!

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If this girl's so good for you, then why the ###### are you breaking up with her?

Possibly you just need a reason to finish with her. In other words you're not man enough to tell her straight about the way you feel. "Let her make the decision etc".

All you're doing is messing with her head.

Pussy!!!

Because too young for relationship. Acualy she is messing with her own head

like fooling herself. She knows everything

I like to see her go for the break up, that makes me feel better about myself.

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If you want to split with her you will just have to be a bastard and ignore her phonecalls and give her the cold shoulder.

If what you say is true that she is a nice girl then she should have no difficulties finding a new boyfriend.

Any potential thai man will be very picky and choosy about

thai girlfriend, like rich family, very highly educated, white

and chinese looking, bangkokian,....etc

She is Isaanies, and doesn't meet any of above criteria.

But i from her occasionaly that several farang man said

"Hellooo" to her, and told me she didn't responded because

of me

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Because too young for relationship. Acualy she is messing with her own head

like fooling herself. She knows everything

I like to see her go for the break up, that makes me feel better about myself.

why u said like all fault was from her

why u dont repeat yourself that u dont want to have sex with hooker..and u prefer other kind of girl

what you are saying ..all make u look like a priest

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This girl obviously deserves someone better than you, infact I don't think you deserve any girl judging your post.

But why are you leading her on? The more you carry on, the more damage you are doing. Just gently tell her you would like to break up with her.

I told her before that she deserve a man better than me. Even i told

her i can help you find new boyfriend.

I remeber she cried that night untill the morning. She later wanted

me promise not to repeat such senetences ever again, and i said "yes

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BKKDUD,

There is a whole story here about someone wanting to know how to find a "Nice Lady" and then you come along and want to know how to get rid of a "Nice Lady" I think your either a troll ................Or...................you may have another problem?

Few people lack somthing, and tailored for hookers, not me

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Any potential thai man will be very picky and choosy about

thai girlfriend, like rich family, very highly educated, white

and chinese looking, bangkokian,....etc

She is Isaanies, and doesn't meet any of above criteria.

But i from her occasionaly that several farang man said

"Hellooo" to her, and told me she didn't responded because

of me

Any potential thai man will be very picky and choosy about

thai girlfriend, like rich family, very highly educated, white

and chinese looking, bangkokian,....etc

ok , im a Bangkokian , Ch-TH ,my parents have money , im a Doc what is the point?? if guy just judge girl from superficial ...so i dont care ... oh forget to tell u i was a model

She is Isaanies,

what's wrong with issan girls....are they human? ...for hooker sake!!

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This girl obviously deserves someone better than you, infact I don't think you deserve any girl judging your post.

But why are you leading her on? The more you carry on, the more damage you are doing. Just gently tell her you would like to break up with her.

I told her before that she deserve a man better than me. Even i told

her i can help you find new boyfriend.

I remeber she cried that night untill the morning. She later wanted

me promise not to repeat such senetences ever again, and i said "yes

YEP happened to me 3 times , and just after 2-3 days .

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I can't quite understand why so much vitriol is being aimed at the original poster. He has met a Thai girl, started seeing her and now realises that her intentions for the relationship are different to his and he wants to end it. What, do people think that just because he has slept with her that he should be commited to her for life or something? I mean, come on, who hasn't started seeing a lady and then decided after a period of time that the relationship is not for them? This is fairly normal right?

He has come on this board asking for some advice on how to end it, and the answer is that he has just got to tell her straight, and yes he should know that already. There is no way of sparing her feelings in this, but that's what break ups are like.

That's no reason for people to be painting him out to be some sort of tool. From some of the responses on here you would think he was married with kids and preparing to do a runner!

Thank you fast Eddie, i think you are the first here to understand this

situation better than others.

As you said, why i have to sacrify myself, considering she wasn't even

virgin? May be you have similar experiance in past, and have anything

to advice for similar situations in future again?

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