Finding Thai Friends In Uk For Thai Wife

[inthepink]

Perhaps you could explain why you think sex is always paid for? I've certainly never considered that I am paying for sex in my relationship and neither do any of my friends or relatives.

Probably because I aways ended up paying for more than 1/2 of everything in a relationship.

If I had always been single (or gay) then I would be a very wealthy man.

Logic dictates that I must have been paying for sex.

Maybe you could enlighten me on why I paid more than 1/2 of everything.

Do you know any men who pay 1/2 or less than 1/2 of all family costs?

(I'm pretty sure few women would stay with such a loser for long)

I would imagine you pay more than half of everything because you choose to live with somebody from a poor background who is half your age (judging from what you have said in some posts). Well balanced men wouldn't consider themselves a loser if their wife earned more than them. That's a warped way of thinking.

I do happen to know of a couple of people whose wife earns, and therefore spends, more than them. At various points in my relationship I too have earned less than my partner; during those times she probably paid more than half of our living costs (I'm not really sure because we don't keep accounts). Given that the nature of her work means that she is capable of netting 200k baht in 2-3 days, I have never considered myself a loser for not keeping up with her when she is busy. She obviously doesn't consider me to be a loser either.

When I'm paying more I don't think it is in order to have sex with my partner, because she isn't a whore. Im also certain that she doesn't feel she has ever paid for my sexual services.

[DP25]

When you tell a Thai lady that on Friday nights young western women may go out, get so drunk they can't walk, and then shag some guy they just met for free, the response is total amazement .... as my wife says "FREE!, white girls are crazy!"

555 Fake amazement they put on for customers to keep the money coming. Go to any Thai club and you can see it happen just like back home. Bargirls do it too sometimes, they go to clubs and get drunk and hook up with guys they like

[thepanom]

After more than 10 years in the UK my wife has got very adept at hiding behind supermarket displays when spotting another Thai. Experience has taught her that. She has no Thai friends whatsoever in the UK. On the other hand she has a lot of British & European friends, works with mainly British folk and has a very active life.

It's sad that it should be that way but the few that she did meet back in the early days seemed to bring trouble and problems to the door after just the briefest acquaintance.

My Thai wife and me lived in Holland for 12 years, in the beginning there where a lot of Thai friends , untill the gossip. and problems started, we stopped seeing Thai friends, and after that we had a very good time with Dutch friends

[cardholder]

When you tell a Thai lady that on Friday nights young western women may go out, get so drunk they can't walk, and then shag some guy they just met for free, the response is total amazement .... as my wife says "FREE!, white girls are crazy!"

555 Fake amazement they put on for customers to keep the money coming. Go to any Thai club and you can see it happen just like back home. Bargirls do it too sometimes, they go to clubs and get drunk and hook up with guys they like

I understand that it is quite common, on payday, for bar girls to go out to bars/clubs and pay bar fines for Thai males.

[nocturn]

When you tell a Thai lady that on Friday nights young western women may go out, get so drunk they can't walk, and then shag some guy they just met for free, the response is total amazement .... as my wife says "FREE!, white girls are crazy!"

555 Fake amazement they put on for customers to keep the money coming. Go to any Thai club and you can see it happen just like back home. Bargirls do it too sometimes, they go to clubs and get drunk and hook up with guys they like

I understand that it is quite common, on payday, for bar girls to go out to bars/clubs and pay bar fines for Thai males.

and when exactly is payday? one would think the billing cycle is quite short.

[Richb2004v2]

We plan on moving back to the Uk soon. When mentioning some possible areas to move my wife is reticent to move to one nice area due to the significant Thai population there.

She lived in the Uk for over 5 years and many times bumped into other Thai lady's and had negative experiences with them. The ones she met more than once tried to coax her into joining their card school. She declined and has since not been keen to meet further Thais in the Uk. So I can understand the warnings from other TV members.

[cardholder]

When you tell a Thai lady that on Friday nights young western women may go out, get so drunk they can't walk, and then shag some guy they just met for free, the response is total amazement .... as my wife says "FREE!, white girls are crazy!"

555 Fake amazement they put on for customers to keep the money coming. Go to any Thai club and you can see it happen just like back home. Bargirls do it too sometimes, they go to clubs and get drunk and hook up with guys they like

I understand that it is quite common, on payday, for bar girls to go out to bars/clubs and pay bar fines for Thai males.

and when exactly is payday? one would think the billing cycle is quite short.

I believe it is the end of the month when the bars pay out salaries to the attached girls.

Can't imagine why you would be so interested in such timing ?

[Patron]

Thai girls will find friends on their own. My wife lives with me in the USA

where there is very very few Thais. One day we were at a coffee shop and

I saw a girl I knew was Thai (nametag NOI ) My wife talked to for 5 min.

Later on our way home she said girl is low-so. End of that story.

Year later I got a haircut from a woman I could tell was Thai.

My wife talked to her for 5 min and that was that. On our way home she

said girl thinks she's hi-so,but she lie.

One day I was in a store and saw a girl I knew was Thai. I don't know why

but I walked up to her and said..your a Thai girl. She was shocked and said

how do you know.I gave her my wife's phone number and she called my

wife. They have been best friends for years now. My wife said she is

medium-so...same same me. Sad to say they are out shopping as I

write this.

[madmin]

you contradict yourself very well

Thai girls will find friends on their own. My wife lives with me in the USA

where there is very very few Thais. One day we were at a coffee shop and

I saw a girl I knew was Thai (nametag NOI ) My wife talked to for 5 min.

Later on our way home she said girl is low-so. End of that story.

Year later I got a haircut from a woman I could tell was Thai.

My wife talked to her for 5 min and that was that. On our way home she

said girl thinks she's hi-so,but she lie.

One day I was in a store and saw a girl I knew was Thai. I don't know why

but I walked up to her and said..your a Thai girl. She was shocked and said

how do you know.I gave her my wife's phone number and she called my

wife. They have been best friends for years now. My wife said she is

medium-so...same same me. Sad to say they are out shopping as I

write this.

[madmin]

hows that gonna help....you have to know names

Tell her join facebook.

[madmin]

Really you let your wife eat shame on you

Not what you want to hear but don't let her become involved with others in the Uk.

Virtually every single relatioship goes down the pan when they start gambling,drinking eating and mixing with each other.

First hand experience but numerous others in same boat where I come from.

I remarried but I will never bring her to the UK-period.

[madmin]

Don't forget the <deleted> who quoted eating too.. i think many people forgot to read the topic.. my wife does not drink as she has just given birth to our first child (baby girl) she just want to be able to chat to other thai people in native tongue may be there is other thai people in the area who are pregnant or have young children and would like to meet up and swap stories etc

What kind of girls are people marrying that they need to worry about them gambling and drinking?

[101734]

Apparently William Hill's is a local hangout where one can discuss the 3 o'clock at Plumpton and the like.

[Thongkorn]

There are good and bad in every country , I trust my wifes judgment , if she has friend,s its her choice , Thai or any other nationality, I don't know where you live in the UK but where i live there is a Thai community , they are all good, they have get together to talk Thai, Eat Thai and in general, I find them Honest polite and respectfully, Yes they have disagreements like most communities,but they get over it , like adults should do.

[MAJIC]

Must add, a few friends who took their ladies to UK ended up with real problems, the '' l have this, and you have not'' culture followed, Beware.

Correct!

I have also heard this,and witnessed it as well,

and it's normally followed up,with Lording it over the rest,and Sh*t stirring as only Fans of Thai Soap programs,can do!

[rocketmanbkk]

I haven't ead all of trhe post on this topic but with regards to the title an dfrom experience I would say a few things.

My wife met non-Thai friends at a mother and baby group nearly 9 years again an dshe still has these friends, none are Thai.

There is a small Thai community where we live and the women she has met through others an djust when shopping etc. ate hit andmiss.

The majority are ex bar/go go girls which is obvious, they never finished school and all they talk about is money! I tol dmy wife that people who talk about money have none! They are all in debt, play cards, drink, smoke etc. and from the storiesd I have heard are people you would want to avoid.

She has 2 good Thai friends who work and who have children, they are decent, take care fo teh family and themselves.

The others I couldn't care less about, no loyalty or integrity, try to outdo each other and keep up with the 'Jonses' an dlastly are the most jealous women I have ever met!

I would say don't go looking for Thai friends specifically butif you do meet someone then take time to get to know them as from what we have found out from out experience is that the type of bar girl that gets to the UK are now who I want to socialise with.

This is my opinion only from experience but accept that not all ex bar/go go girls are dispicable liars! We have 2 good friends as mentioned who ar great with good morales.

Good luck.

[Kwasaki]

I missed this in your May post " madmin " I will not comment on the strange things others have said, many of there personal circumstances and experiences of taking a Thai wife to the UK was nothing of the sort in my case.

My circumstances may be different to you but here is a general idea of what happened to us.

It was a happy time for me but I realized it would be difficult for my wife.

My wife would say she found it very strange at first a bit of a culture shock.

Obviously she found it very cold there even in summer so the central heating got overtime.

My friends were very helpful and she was quite happy to meet up with them in a country pub with me.

My wife soon busied herself with the house she enjoyed all the household chores.

She loved going to the Hypermarket stores, Asda, Sainsburys and Tescos.

My wife lived with me in Watford UK for over 2 years, she found it lonely in the main but we came back to Thailand for holidays.

I set up the computer for her so she could watch Thai TV programs and she had brought her Thai music to listen to.

Being on BT she could ring a certain number first and then was put through to Thailand, the cost was 1p per minute.

I found out where local temples were we turn out to be mostly Indian or Chinese Buddha set ups.

There is Thai temples in the UK, Wimbledon, Manchester and Edinburgh.

Wimbledon was the nearest to me and she enjoyed going along and having a chat with other Thai people of all ages.

My wife had a friend living in Edmonton east of London and I took her there to visit now and then.

We came across a few Thai people from just going out to Sundays Markets and car boot sales.

My wife also knew that she was not going to be staying long in UK only until I retired before moving back to Thailand.

You can PM me me if you have some questions if I can help I will.

Good luck Regards K