Strewth Pudgy, with insight like that, you should write a novel and set the rest of the falangs in Pattaya on the correct path.You'll sell millions mate.

Pudgi - like I said lad ignored major warning signs!! Those who have befallen this trap - there really isnt anyone to blame, but themselves. So when this sort of scenario unfolds they have been forewarned.

As for your diatrible you have some valid points, but I don't think the sterotypes are going anywhere in our lifetime matey, so just accept it and go about your life and do your own thing. (stop worrying about what everyone else thinks - who fk cares really???)

Strewth Pudgy, with insight like that, you should write a novel and set the rest of the falangs in Pattaya on the correct path.You'll sell millions mate.

Or at least keep 'em from taking that dive from a tall bldg.

Strewth Pudgy, with insight like that, you should write a novel and set the rest of the falangs in Pattaya on the correct path.You'll sell millions mate.

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And so the Pudgi went into that wicked place and laid bare the wickedness of man, and amongst the unwashed masses there was great rejoicing for lo their savior had come to leadeth them upon the path of righteousness. And the Pudgi sayeth unto them, "Give up your worldly possessions (to me) and find true peace in nature-walks, fruit-picking, jigsaw puzzles, and other wholesome activities". And there was a great outcry amongst the simple-minded cretins of that formerly wicked place. "Hey! Basket-weaving? Why didn't we think of that? You're a genius dude!" And thus wickedness was washed away from that unclean place and it became an OTOP village with a full line of canned fruits and homemade jams.

Verily, I sayeth unto thee.

Don't let my wife see this, she will kick your ass.

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...don't paint all Thai women (and all farang who move to Thailand) with the same broad brush.  Your experience is not universally true.

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Well said

but I didn’t care and so I married a bargirl like almost all foreigners do.

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Don't let my wife see this, she will kick your ass.

The stereotype of "farang marrying bargirls" will hopefully one day fade into the past, but for the time being, most normal couples have to put up with these kinds of b-llsh-t generalisations from Thai and farang alike.

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Spot on Pudgi - I nearly got a whiplash nodding to myself reading your post!

WS

Edited November 7, 200520 yr by WhiteShiva

Pudgi - like I said lad ignored major warning signs!! Those who have befallen this trap - there really isnt anyone to blame, but themselves. So when this sort of scenario unfolds they have been forewarned.

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A lot of replies have said the same old thing...old man/young woman stuff, don't do it etc

Hillary's reply was interesting, and it seems not read by many all the way through. A lot of marriages do fail, and without the cultural/age differences etc. Yes, the differences do make it more difficult but many marriages do not fail in those circumstances.

The infidelity and breakup of this marriage can be mirrored in many others, and nothing to do with the woman being a bargirl or young. So stop generalising about these types of marriages and get on with your own lives

I still think he should try a DNA test

the National Dyslexics Association did wonders for me

Pudgi, that was near on the best reply to a post I have ever read on this boring forum.

Bang on the money I would say.

Pudgi, that was near on the best reply to a post I have ever read on this boring forum.

Bang on the money I would say.

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Thanks. Normally I just get flamed, so this is a pleasant change . Heheh.

In my book, that deserves contempt, not pity.

He "did the honorable thing"?  Hardly.  The honorable thing would have been to go get a vasectemy before he started whoring it up like a stupid old fool.

I usually love reading posts like this because they are so amusing in their fallacious ramblings...however, yours was not. A couple of tenuous arguments but otherwise..spot on.

Let's enshrine it in some sort of static html page..george?

Pudgi - like I said lad ignored major warning signs!! Those who have befallen this trap - there really isnt anyone to blame, but themselves. So when this sort of scenario unfolds they have been forewarned.

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A lot of replies have said the same old thing...old man/young woman stuff, don't do it etc

Hillary's reply was interesting, and it seems not read by many all the way through. A lot of marriages do fail, and without the cultural/age differences etc. Yes, the differences do make it more difficult but many marriages do not fail in those circumstances

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The infidelity and breakup of this marriage can be mirrored in many others, and nothing to do with the woman being a bargirl or young. So stop generalising about these types of marriages and get on with your own lives

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Hillary is actually not a woman as she claims to be in Dear Hillary column. I thought people knew all that but I guess not. "Her" real name is Lain Corness, an Australian doctor. His response is biased since he also is married to Thai woman 1/2 his age but not a bar girl.

Pudgi - like I said lad ignored major warning signs!! Those who have befallen this trap - there really isnt anyone to blame, but themselves. So when this sort of scenario unfolds they have been forewarned.

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A lot of replies have said the same old thing...old man/young woman stuff, don't do it etc

Hillary's reply was interesting, and it seems not read by many all the way through. A lot of marriages do fail, and without the cultural/age differences etc. Yes, the differences do make it more difficult but many marriages do not fail in those circumstances

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The infidelity and breakup of this marriage can be mirrored in many others, and nothing to do with the woman being a bargirl or young. So stop generalising about these types of marriages and get on with your own lives

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Hillary is actually not a woman as she claims to be in Dear Hillary column. I thought people knew all that but I guess not. "Her" real name is Lain Corness, an Australian doctor. His response is biased since he also is married to Thai woman 1/2 his age but not a bar girl.

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As he's apparently a heterosexual, it makes all her/his flirtatious, solicitous, and saucy replies to the guys a bit weird , although that's certainly not an unknown occurence, even here in TV.