Being Blacklisted

[fry30]

Hi everybody,

I'm very stressed, in few days I have to go in Laos to make my educational visa, but I got a problem with one girl, and now she says that the best friend of her father is someone important in Police and that her aunt work for the government and can have me blacklisted, or to ask to denied my visa. I don't know if she bluff to scared me or if it's really possible, she is half norway and she seems to be rich. I know that Thailand is very corrupted and I'm wondering if this kind of things are possible. Do you have any idea?

[lopburi3]

Blacklisting is not a whim decision and it is very unlikely to happen by corruption. Other happenings would be more likely in a serious situation but this sounds like hot air.

[Dave9000]

Sounds like BS! But, if it isn't you can't play the game.....Tough it out, call her bluff, then give her the old heave-ho and start shagging someone else.

[FritsSikkink]

Sounds like BS! But, if it isn't you can't play the game.....Tough it out, call her bluff, then give her the old heave-ho and start shagging someone else.

That is not very wise if she some influence. Try to solve the problem and/or end the relationship on a normal way

[moe666]

How many times has this subject appeared here, too numerous to remember. You really should be more selective who you sleep with, find a good bar girl

[mussen]

Don't stress mate, you'll hear alot of BS over here, this is just another case of it. Like the mod said in the 1st reply.

[CharlieH]

Nonsense ! dont believe a word of it, just laugh at her and walk away.

[fry30]

thanks for all your answer, anyway I will know in few days if she was bluffing or not but if it's the case I don't know how I could get back all my stuff here, tv, computer etc.

She has no proves of anything against me, the only way she could have to do this will be the corruption.

I explain the story, excuse me if it's not in the good topic, this girl made me believe she is rich and put me in trust, I was not planning to have a sex relation, there is many good bar girl for this, then she told me she lost her phone and she needs one quickly, it was 5 am, and she told me couldn't withdraw cause her bankcard is from norway so I could advance the money I was drunk and want be nice, believing that anyway she is rich, she will give me back later, 10 000 baht cause she wanted a blackberry, just for one day cause she is so rich that another phone would made her shy. We took another drink in bar and she told me she wanted to buy strawberries, after one hour she tried to contact me but my phone was off, I saw her message the day after. I thought she stole my money, but when I saw the message I believe again. We discussed all the day on internet and I finished to ask her if she could give me back this money, honestly I'm poor I'm living in a very cheap room, but this is ok. She says no problem, we could go cinema then she will stop at home cause she doesn't want carry such amount and she had that she would need another service too, she needed the Iphone4s and she told me she couldn't find in bkk, as I'm in Nonthaburi maybe they would have. I understood that she was cheating me and wanted to see me only to took much more money from me, not every days that she can find a so stupid fish. So I made her believe that I bought it, she even ask me to speak with the seller after I pay, claiming that she needs to check if the insurance was ok. I made arrangement with the seller to make her believe I paid.

I met her on shop, and wants to see if she was willing to give me back the money, I asked her to lend me the blackberry, but oh surprised, she was with a very cheap phone, this time claiming that she scared to lost the blackberry, such nosense, she wanted a Iphone4s at 25 000 bahts. To little revenge I made her some tricks and she got angry after that. She told me that she would say I stole her keys and ID etc and that the best friend's father is a big man in police, her aunt is working in governement, that she tooks my picture and will show it etc.

That she was well planning to give me back money, that is nothing for her. She didn't call me again, but I knows she is very angry, I made her a shame front of everybody and she really got angry.

I believed her story, she has a very beautiful face but she is chubby, I didn't think she could be a scammer, she seems well educated, so I fall on the trick. This same night I met a man from singapor, I told him the story, and he told me that all thai girl are like this with money, thing that I already knew but I thought that the fact to be from norway, mean she has a lot of money and so can be trustable.

[fry30]

I have to add that I offer her to go to the police together to settle the things, it would be completely useless, cause I have no prove she has my money and she has no prove I have the stuff she said. But she denied my offer, she wanted to do "her way" not my way.

[NCFC]

I have to add that I offer her to go to the police together to settle the things, it would be completely useless, cause I have no prove she has my money and she has no prove I have the stuff she said. But she denied my offer, she wanted to do "her way" not my way.

I think you need head back to your own country. You're hanging out with the wrong people and an accident waiting to happen

[fry30]

is it a kind of some threat? how many farang did the same mistake and even worst, if I did this mistake it's because she was looking educated.

[NCFC]

is it a kind of some threat? how many farang did the same mistake and even worst, if I did this mistake it's because she was looking educated.

Not a threat just some advise. You seem to be a soft touch for these girls. Be thankful that you only lost 10k baht. See it as a lesson. Others have lost everything, if you're so trusting you might end up the same way.

[fry30]

No actually, my ex gf is a bar girl, she is quite sexy and it's free for me... she also helped me to pay everything cheap and she even offer me to stay at her home for free, but I got boring about this relation and want to get some good contact, to start to have friendship or to find a good woman. I'm just very lonely now, but I think I should better to try to have some good male friend instead to search to socialize through the girls.

I'm little vexed about your advice, and maybe you are right but it's little early to state it.

[attrayant]

I know it's too late in this case but as a general rule I think it's wise not to share your visa/immigrant status with anyone, even a GF/BF. The more people know about you, the more power they could potentially have over you. Loose lips and all that.

[fry30]

by it's free for me, I'm not trying to say that I'm better than anyone, or handsome, it's just we got some arrangement. I know that without money there is no long story with thai lady, at least with the most sexy or beautiful or high so. Whatever, sorry to digress, the main point is, should I be worry about my visa, I paid a one year thai language school, they gave me the document to bring at the thai embassy, now I just hope that I didn't put myself in trouble. I will let everybody inform, it could be at least interesting to know if thai people can have some good contact to do such thing, to know if thai government is so corrupt or so easy. I will tell you in few days if my topic is not closed.

[fry30]

@attrayant

really? what the hell people could do with this information? by the way, I think the girl who stole my money didn't understand my real status, she though I corrupt someone to get a one year visa, cause she thinks it's impossible to get so long visa, I think she missed the part where I say I got educational visa, it's totaly legal. And on this website I don't give my name. But I'm curious to know how people could use this information against other, if you have some anecdote.

[lopburi3]

This off-topic thread is closed.