BuffaloRescue Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I had some kind of weird dream last night and was talking in my sleep. This morning the mrs first wouldnt talk to me then flew off the handle and called me Sear Jai and now it seems shes left me. I did absolutely nothing. Yesterday we had a great day, laughing an joking. Totally confused Whats Sear Jai? Or Seer Jai???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
necronx99 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Talking to or about your ex in your sleep? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloRescue Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 Got no idea... possibly. It was a nightmare Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raesum Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Sia Jai means" I'm sorry".Maybe she thought you were saying that to her about something (or someone) you'd done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 เสียใจ It means she's upset about something, it can also mean to be sorry that something has happened. So, it sounds like she didn't like something you said in your dream but you had worked that out already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloRescue Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 Oh Right. Logical arguement cant win this one. Im not responsible for what i do when im alseep. Better just hope it blows over Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IanForbes Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Oh Right. Logical arguement cant win this one. Im not responsible for what i do when im alseep. Better just hope it blows over You haven't really learned anything about women... have you. You are ALWAYS responsible for EVERYTHING you do... or even DIDN'T do... even in your sleep, or did 40 years ago. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 and called me Sear Jai and now it seems shes left me. Time to replace her for a newer model. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I am lucky that I speak German. I can speak all the night and no one will understand me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloRescue Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 I cant get my head around all this Naam jai... seer jai...and all these other jai things. Probably best not to try? For fear of going mad? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
necronx99 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I cant get my head around all this Naam jai... seer jai...and all these other jai things. Probably best not to try? For fear of going mad? Then you would be jai dum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuang Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I think it could mean ' pity ' or 'what a pity'... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
citizen33 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I cant get my head around all this Naam jai... seer jai...and all these other jai things. Probably best not to try? For fear of going mad? Heart talk! The Thai discourse of feelings. http://www.cgmoore.com/books/Heart%20Talk.htm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pacificperson Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Whats worse than talking in your sleep is when you misbehave in her dreams. There is not much difference between her dreams and reality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloRescue Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 (edited) Im just a simple guy. I dont drink, dont smoke, dont go out whoring. We moved to Australia have a nice life, she works hard.. saves a grand a week. I must be too boring for her, I think women sometimes need a reason to get angry at someone. Maybe because I havent given her a reason to get angry is making her angry. I think its related to me not wanting and kids although that was an "argument" we had months ago. I said OK we can have kids but i don't really want them. But that's not good enough.. she wants me to want to have them - started going on about all this naam jai stuff... not wanting to bring someone into the world, giving life etc. Said i wouldnt mind having Thai kids but not Australian kids, they dont appreciate Naam jai and often turn out to be selfish pricks . Well i cant see any way how to trick myself into wanting something that I dont. I rekon with women it doesnt really matter what you do.. theyve got some kind of in-built clock that makes them prone to suddenly wanting to change their lives every so many years. My mother was the same complete nutcase. Ill just go back to my computer work, maybe clean the house up a bit, and hope it blows over. Edited April 10, 2012 by BuffaloRescue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DowntownAl Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Oh Right. Logical arguement cant win this one. Im not responsible for what i do when im alseep. Better just hope it blows over You haven't really learned anything about women... have you. You are ALWAYS responsible for EVERYTHING you do... or even DIDN'T do... even in your sleep, or did 40 years ago. For those of you who have forgotten, here is a short list of rules to abide by, at all time, under all circumstances, unless you prefer being single. The Rules: The female always makes the rules. The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification. No male can possibly know all the rules. If the female suspects the male knows all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules. The female is never wrong. If the female is wrong, it is due to a misunderstanding which was a direct result of something the male did or said wrong. If Rule 6 applies, the male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding. The female may change her mind at any time. The male must never change his mind without the expressed written consent of the female. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time. The male must remain calm at all times, unless the female wants him to be angry or upset. The female must, under no circumstance, let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset. The male is expected to mind read at all times. If the female has PMS, all the rules are null and void. The female is ready when she is ready. The male must be ready at all times. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloRescue Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 Oh Right. Logical arguement cant win this one. Im not responsible for what i do when im alseep. Better just hope it blows over You haven't really learned anything about women... have you. You are ALWAYS responsible for EVERYTHING you do... or even DIDN'T do... even in your sleep, or did 40 years ago. For those of you who have forgotten, here is a short list of rules to abide by, at all time, under all circumstances, unless you prefer being single. The Rules: The female always makes the rules. The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification. No male can possibly know all the rules. If the female suspects the male knows all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules. The female is never wrong. If the female is wrong, it is due to a misunderstanding which was a direct result of something the male did or said wrong. If Rule 6 applies, the male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding. The female may change her mind at any time. The male must never change his mind without the expressed written consent of the female. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time. The male must remain calm at all times, unless the female wants him to be angry or upset. The female must, under no circumstance, let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset. The male is expected to mind read at all times. If the female has PMS, all the rules are null and void. The female is ready when she is ready. The male must be ready at all times. Sounds a bit like something written at the s21 extermination camp in cambodia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovelaos Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I used to date a Thai girl who was convinced I was shagging another Thai girl because she dreamt it. She sulked for 2 days before I told her to do one. I can't put up with such nonsense. If she has left you over such a trivial matter as this then you are probably better off without her. Harsh but true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PattayaParent Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 It means broken heart. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 It means broken heart. It means broken heart. The she would be dead.... no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nocturn Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Sia Jai means" I'm sorry".Maybe she thought you were saying that to her about something (or someone) you'd done seea jai means broken heart. you must have said something inflammatory Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bermondburi Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I cant get my head around all this Naam jai... seer jai...and all these other jai things. Probably best not to try? For fear of going mad? there are many of them, I read a book once called " Affairs of the Heart " that went through about 30 words with " jai " in there. It was pretty good as it gave good insight into how Thais think. ( or not ) . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bermondburi Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I also forgot to add that my wife has woken up and hit me for things I did in her dream !!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Got no idea... possibly. It was a nightmare You could ask your wife/gf. I think you'll get better answers from her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dekchaimong Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 Were you mumbling an ex girlfriends name whilst rubbing your pecker? As far as I know Seer Jai is "Broken Heart" Be careful you don't end up with a "Koy lao" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edwardandtubs Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 (edited) The literal translation of sia jai is broken heart but I don't think it means the same as the English phrase "broken heart". It means to feel bad or to feel sorry, like if you find out someone's dog has died or their wife has left them. She seems to be expressing her sorrow for leaving you - I don't think it has anything to do with your dream. Edited April 11, 2012 by edwardandtubs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2unique Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 Sia Jai means the hurt heart or sorrow. Broken heart is Ock Ha as in Ock ha dee gwah ruk mai bpen (it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all - heartbreak better than never having love) Sorry as in an apology would be Kor Toad. If apologizing for leaving you she "probably" would use Kor toad. Sia jai "possibly" meant she was experiencing sorrow about something she or you did. Hope that helps as not much to go on by way of context. Sent from Android please excuse errors in type or judgement Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saengsureeya Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 It means broken heart. It means broken heart. The she would be dead.... no? No.....then she would have a "jai sia". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2unique Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 Your name isn't Sergei is it? Could all be a misunderstanding!! Sent from Android please excuse errors in type or judgement Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted April 11, 2012 Share Posted April 11, 2012 Whats Sear Jai? Or Seer Jai???? My Thai colleague (speaks English at native speaker level) says there are several possible meanings. One meaning is - 'hurt feelings' or 'you hurt my heart' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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