A perfect lover is someone who I devote myself to and accept with all their flaws and do not seek nor desire to change them, and I know they view me the same way.

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that´s the best life partner isn´t it?

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Quite right, I do not waste my time on casual sex. If I wanted to get hot and sweaty a good work out is more beneficial.

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yes me neither.But I though the question refers to best lover even though it is your partner. Because your patrner can be your lover right?

if someone asked me what are your looking in your life partner? I will asnwer something similar to your above statement (including honesty, caring).However the lover part of my partner I would like him to be as my 1st post in this thread.

I am single so when I start to imagine my life,lover...I can jsut fantasize as much as I want. If I ever find someone I want to share my life with I may change my lover expectations parts because he maybe have something that i never though about it and I may really like it.

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

Practice helps. (for Women AND Men)

I have always found that a woman taking part is kinda helpful..........for her at least (I'm a bloke, so it might be s#it shag, but their WILL be an orgasm for at least one of us )

Talking to each other.

............and the Vulvan love grip, seems to work quite consistently for the women

well I am a dancer myself...

Good night people...

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It could be really interesting, Glauka...

Unfortunately, i'm not in Thailand, right now ( and that is making me really sad...)

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Glauka.... do you have his phone number? xoxo

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no I don´t do you?

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I'm too shy to leave my phone number

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I smell Cat. And the IP is 'iffy'

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

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So as a co-host to this topic, you found it boring as well

Maybe we can collaborate on some future other boring topics

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

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Own up to the plate homer and throw it down then.

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

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So as a co-host to this topic, you found it boring as well

Maybe we can collaborate on some future other boring topics

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you misunderstood me...I was boring of your comment...on the contrary I quite like this topic...

so no deal between you and me daddy...

At least no yet...

Actually have you not notice that I post quite a lot in this topic how can I find it boring? You are a bit absent-minded daddy...

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

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So as a co-host to this topic, you found it boring as well

Maybe we can collaborate on some future other boring topics

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you misunderstood me...I was boring of your comment...on the contrary I quite like this topic...

so no deal between you and me daddy...

At least no yet...

Actually have you not notice that I post quite a lot in this topic how can I find it boring? You are a bit absent-minded daddy...

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I didnt misunderstand Glauka, in fact I knew exactly what you were saying. I was simply using humour to wind you up

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

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Own up to the plate homer and throw it down then.

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No way thaibebop

What goes on between me and Mrs Daddy in the bedroom, kitchen, loungeroom, shower, staircase, balcony, or on a blanket laid out beside the lake, or on top of the highest hill, or hidden away somewhere on her brothers rice farm, or the night train to Bangers, is private and confidential.

However, IMHO and from a married mans perspective, a deep seated and true beleif in your partner, coupled with a shared feeling of comfort and a honest love for each other, is more important than being "imaginative". Now if you add those ingredients to say, a rocky outcrop on the side of a hill, with spectacular views down the valley as far as the eye can see, late in the afternoon with a cooling breeze just enough to fan the tree branches back and forth............., well that could be construed as imaginative

Homer steps off the plate, after hitting a home run, and tying the game

3 pages of crap...the usual suspects....and oh so boring.

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So as a co-host to this topic, you found it boring as well

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you misunderstood me...I was boring of your comment...on the contrary I quite like this topic...

so no deal between you and me daddy...

At least no yet...

Actually have you not notice that I post quite a lot in this topic how can I find it boring? You are a bit absent-minded daddy...

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I didnt misunderstand Glauka, in fact I knew exactly what you were saying. I was simply using humour to wind you up

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DAMNED!!!!

Why I never get the jokes...why?... WHYYYY?

I am the dumbest in the forum...

However, IMHO and from a married mans perspective, a deep seated and true beleif in your partner, coupled with a shared feeling of comfort and a honest love for each other, is more important than being "imaginative". Now if you add those ingredients to say, a rocky outcrop on the side of a hill, with spectacular views down the valley as far as the eye can see, late in the afternoon with a cooling breeze just enough to fan the tree branches back and forth............., well that could be construed as imaginative

That´s very nice and I am sure that you love your wife honestly,blah,blah,blah...

but HOw do you like your lover? I mean your wife is also your lover...so what are the things you like about your wife when you look for the lover side ( you don´t need to talk intimacies). I am sure that even though you love your wife you must have an opinion about what is for you the most imaginative lover?

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Ok I give it a try.

The most imaginitive lover is the person that can pursuade you to do things you thought you never liked.......

Alex

What's a Vulvan love grip?

The best lover is the one you think about when you do it and he/she is also the one you think about when you do it with someone else.

Easy and it works...

What's a Vulvan love grip? 

must be some sort of variation of dr spocks vulvan death grip.

maybe it would fall into the catagory of autoerotic asphyxiation.

What's a Vulvan love grip? 

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must be some sort of variation of dr spocks vulvan death grip.

maybe it would fall into the catagory of autoerotic asphyxiation.

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I presume you meant to type "Mr Spock's Vulcan Death Grip".

Actually very close, hence the play on words (probably has another or several other names) except it's not applied to the neck , and not with as much force

Can be used with and without tongue