I remember there was many online guides on how to write this for a tourist visa but is there any for a spouse visa. If not can anyone tell me what sort of information they want to see so I include it.

Just follow the partner visa guide from immi. Theres also plenty of threads here that are quite detailed. Google for 'australia forums', they have an active mmigration forum with lots of info too.

Where we met and how the relationship developed

Where we set up home.

Written statements from you and from your partner

detailing the history of your relationship (for example,

when and how you met, when you started living together,

joint activities, significant events in the relationship).

How we share the house hold duties, shopping etc. anything pertinent to your relationship.

How we support each other emotionally and physically etc etc.

Joint friends

Basically I gave them a precise of our relationship which showed we were in a loving, ongoing relationship.

Keep it simple but honest.