Holiday Leaves Marriage In Ruins

[davejones]

Funny how the only part about Thailand that seems to make it into media reports are the ones about sex. Cheap, sensationalist, psudo-journalism.

Unfortunately, that's the only thing that most people want to watch and read about.

[Rsquared]

Reminds me of the bloke who was told by his missus...."I'm sick and tired of you, get out of the house now! and never come back!"

As he was walking out the door, she said...."I hope you die a slow and painful death!"

.......he turned around and said....."so now you want me to stay?"

[davejones]

A guy leaves his wife for a younger woman. Hardly a story at all.

Yeah, about as newsworthy as "dog bites man".

I think I missed that news story. Where did it happen? Pattaya? LOL.

[Payboy]

Hope he got his teeth done fine too.

[StreetCowboy]

Hope he got his teeth done fine too.

Who? The dog?

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[travelmann]

Cripes the new woman sure is a belter

[tinfoilhat]

hell i reckon she is in pretty good nick for 71.

he doesnt look much of a prize, and i would venture he will pay for his dalliance with the minger

[tinfoilhat]

Its a big deal to the wife of 70 odd years old that he left behind and most likely his adult kids right ?

By the sounds of it he will be running back home sooner than later.

Selling crap out of his garage to raise funds for another trip and now selling the family home of which he might get half and will blow it away to someone smarter than him in an exotic land, dos not sound promising.

Instead of living a long and comfortable life with the mother of his kids.

Should have stayed with the wife u reckon twodogz?

Sure, lived out his few remaining years in possible misery, denying himself any last chance at happiness. Makes sense to me.

i think his misery is yet to come. he has no idea what he has let himself in for and will end up a broken man.

at the very least his karma is <deleted>.

would love to hear a follow up in a year or so.

[KeyserSoze01]

There's no fool like an old fool. Future candidate for the Pattaya Flying Club.

[KhunMoo]

The scary part of this story is, that the dude does not choose 2x19'year gal's instead of for a 37 year old....let's honest here - not really a beauty queen

Hope this story doesn't make to much trouble, for western-guys, to go alone on dentist holidays

[wamberal]

There's no fool like an old fool.

There's plenty of competition, though.

[giddyup]

Its a big deal to the wife of 70 odd years old that he left behind and most likely his adult kids right ?

By the sounds of it he will be running back home sooner than later.

Selling crap out of his garage to raise funds for another trip and now selling the family home of which he might get half and will blow it away to someone smarter than him in an exotic land, dos not sound promising.

Instead of living a long and comfortable life with the mother of his kids.

Should have stayed with the wife u reckon twodogz?

Sure, lived out his few remaining years in possible misery, denying himself any last chance at happiness. Makes sense to me.

i think his misery is yet to come. he has no idea what he has let himself in for and will end up a broken man.

at the very least his karma is <deleted>.

would love to hear a follow up in a year or so.

The fun police are out in force. The old guy has made his choice. Get it guys his choice. None of you have any idea as to what his life was like with his wife, she may well have been a total bitch to live with. Whatever the reasons, he is allowed to make his own decisions, right or wrong. All this crap about ruining lives and karma. Get over it, it's life. We're not all Trappist monks.

[Sayonarax]

Ewww.. As if you'd want the ol'fella back, after hes been rattlen that rotter.

[farang000999]

wonder what his Thai Visa nick is.

[KeyserSoze01]

wonder what his Thai Visa nick is.

Probably the one that goes on and on about his Thai-Chinese wife.

[Livinginexile]

There goes the inheritance

[F1fanatic]

I was in a similar situation when we retired here and my husband decided he preferred to start a new, exciting life with some old hooker...

He did ruin my life (at the time) and, a few months later was desperate to get close to me again...

Funnily enough I know a couple of other women here with a similar story.

I don't believe in karma, so have no opinion on whether karma caught up with him a couple of years later, but his last couple of years were v sad.

Edited August 15, 2012 by F1fanatic

[StreetCowboy]

There's a picture of the dentist in question here

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[WebBangkok]

Probably just wanted to test drive a newer model and compare with the older model

[WebBangkok]

Also can't believe something like that would make the news lol

[WebBangkok]

• If their relationship is in good term n husband loves her, this won't happen.why blame the asian woman, not the husband?
  disagree
  
  Skye (Guest)
  JOONDALUP, WA @ 15/08/2012 06:21:09 PM
  
• My husband of 25 years did too. Met a younger woman in Indo said he had to marry her he was in love after a few days.
  disagree
  
  Leanne Ralph (Guest)
  NEUTRAL BAY, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:33:05 PM
  
• I feel for poor Mildred, my ex did the same only he called a spiritual experience.
  disagree
  
  Eufemia Spizzic (Guest)
  RINGWOOD, QLD @ 15/08/2012 02:27:06 PM
  
• i understand mildreds postion as my exhusband did the same thing to me m ex left me after 37 years of marriage
  disagree
  
  fay (Guest)
  WHITEBRIDGE, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:26:55 PM
  
• my ex husband did the same o me after 37 years marrage the thai girl is 37yearsold my ex is 60 i feel sad for mildred
  disagree
  
  fay (Guest)
  WHITEBRIDGE, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:26:41 PM
  
• Tracy, every day you do some sort of propaganda against Asia, stop it, just learn from them, family values, culture,ect
  disagree
  
  lozy (Guest)
  BONDI BEACH, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:26:23 PM
  
  • can't believe pointing finger at all 'Asian'
    
    yummy (Guest)
    MOOLOOLABA, QLD @ 15/08/2012 03:09:20 PM
    
  • Some Asian women want Aust men for their money, married or not doesn't matter.That's not showing family values, culture.
    
    CD (Guest)
    AIRLIE BEACH, QLD @ 15/08/2012 04:20:21 PM
    

  [*]Did you see his wife? I would have done the runner 30 years ago! Channel nine, stop propaganda against Asia.

  disagree

  

  lozy (Guest)

  BONDI BEACH, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:26:15 PM

  • I enjoy visitng Asian countries,have friends there in small villages.We don't judge people on their looks unlike you.
    
    CD (Guest)
    AIRLIE BEACH, QLD @ 15/08/2012 04:20:22 PM
    

  [*]Get real ... who goes to Thailand for dentures?

  disagree

  

  Tweedledum (Guest)

  BILAMBIL HEIGHTS, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:25:36 PM

  [*]Happened to me, Husband of 20 years, went to Bangkok for dental surgery and game back and broke of our marriage.

  disagree

  

  anon12 (Guest)

  SALE, VIC @ 15/08/2012 02:09:23 PM

  [*]I recently found out my husband has been leading a double life with more than one Thai prostitue after going there.

  disagree

  

  sad (Guest)

  DUNBOGAN, NSW @ 15/08/2012 02:09:19 PM

[WebBangkok]

lol at the people replying

to the website story

[richard_smith237]

This guy is nothing more than a self centred old fool making more of a fool of himself.

I see nothing wrong with single men living / enjoying out their years in a similar manner, but when this leaves a wake of hurt and regret its a real shame.

My Grandparents grew old together, my Parents are growing old together - I see a love and happiness that only time can bring and I aspire to the same standards; taking care of and respecting those around me - I see this as a simple part of the responsibility of life.

If people find themselves alone at any stage of their life seeking mutually respectful company is a good thing, but not such where one respects only youth and the other respects only the contents of someones wallet, thats not mutual respect, its simply a transaction and I find it difficult to see where there can be any mutual respect or even love. One party in this equation will be pulling the wool over their own eyes to mask the realities that they are simply paying for company.

However, Good on those who through lack of other options enter this type of relationship with their eye's wide open without leaving any wake of hurt and regret.

Edited August 16, 2012 by richard_smith237

[tinfoilhat]

Should have stayed with the wife u reckon twodogz?

Sure, lived out his few remaining years in possible misery, denying himself any last chance at happiness. Makes sense to me.

i think his misery is yet to come. he has no idea what he has let himself in for and will end up a broken man.

at the very least his karma is <deleted>.

would love to hear a follow up in a year or so.

The fun police are out in force. The old guy has made his choice. Get it guys his choice. None of you have any idea as to what his life was like with his wife, she may well have been a total bitch to live with. Whatever the reasons, he is allowed to make his own decisions, right or wrong. All this crap about ruining lives and karma. Get over it, it's life. We're not all Trappist monks.

nope, and i personally enjoy a bit o' the strange, but if you are going to throw it all away, don't you think a bit of an upgrade is in order?

the karma bit was a joke, just like the whole story and the choices he made.

[canman]

This one made me smile for some reason:

My ex is 65yrs has a Thai girl aged 31, a 4yr old baby. She got Aust'n residency then left him. She Luvs him long time!

agreedisagree

[giddyup]

This guy is nothing more than a self centred old fool making more of a fool of himself.

I see nothing wrong with single men living / enjoying out their years in a similar manner, but when this leaves a wake of hurt and regret its a real shame.

My Grandparents grew old together, my Parents are growing old together - I see a love and happiness that only time can bring and I aspire to the same standards; taking care of and respecting those around me - I see this as a simple part of the responsibility of life.

If people find themselves alone at any stage of their life seeking mutually respectful company is a good thing, but not such where one respects only youth and the other respects only the contents of someones wallet, thats not mutual respect, its simply a transaction and I find it difficult to see where there can be any mutual respect or even love. One party in this equation will be pulling the wool over their own eyes to mask the realities that they are simply paying for company.

However, Good on those who through lack of other options enter this type of relationship with their eye's wide open without leaving any wake of hurt and regret.

What kind of fairytale world do you live in? There's always damage and hurt when one partner decides to leave another, and for whatever reasons it's purely their decision alone, not for anyone else to sit in judgement.

[WebBangkok]

We don't know the full story really.

This is just her side of the story.

[Berkshire]

This guy is nothing more than a self centred old fool making more of a fool of himself.

I see nothing wrong with single men living / enjoying out their years in a similar manner, but when this leaves a wake of hurt and regret its a real shame.

My Grandparents grew old together, my Parents are growing old together - I see a love and happiness that only time can bring and I aspire to the same standards; taking care of and respecting those around me - I see this as a simple part of the responsibility of life.

If people find themselves alone at any stage of their life seeking mutually respectful company is a good thing, but not such where one respects only youth and the other respects only the contents of someones wallet, thats not mutual respect, its simply a transaction and I find it difficult to see where there can be any mutual respect or even love. One party in this equation will be pulling the wool over their own eyes to mask the realities that they are simply paying for company.

However, Good on those who through lack of other options enter this type of relationship with their eye's wide open without leaving any wake of hurt and regret.

What kind of fairytale world do you live in? There's always damage and hurt when one partner decides to leave another, and for whatever reasons it's purely their decision alone, not for anyone else to sit in judgement.

Harsh, but true. It would be different if the guy had a young family and left the wife to raise them on her own. But the kids are all grown up. I sympathize with the woman, but separation/divorce happens every day. And in nearly every instance, one of the two is hurt more than the other. That's life.

[F1fanatic]

This guy is nothing more than a self centred old fool making more of a fool of himself.

I see nothing wrong with single men living / enjoying out their years in a similar manner, but when this leaves a wake of hurt and regret its a real shame.

My Grandparents grew old together, my Parents are growing old together - I see a love and happiness that only time can bring and I aspire to the same standards; taking care of and respecting those around me - I see this as a simple part of the responsibility of life.

If people find themselves alone at any stage of their life seeking mutually respectful company is a good thing, but not such where one respects only youth and the other respects only the contents of someones wallet, thats not mutual respect, its simply a transaction and I find it difficult to see where there can be any mutual respect or even love. One party in this equation will be pulling the wool over their own eyes to mask the realities that they are simply paying for company.

However, Good on those who through lack of other options enter this type of relationship with their eye's wide open without leaving any wake of hurt and regret.

What kind of fairytale world do you live in? There's always damage and hurt when one partner decides to leave another, and for whatever reasons it's purely their decision alone, not for anyone else to sit in judgement.

Harsh, but true. It would be different if the guy had a young family and left the wife to raise them on her own. But the kids are all grown up. I sympathize with the woman, but separation/divorce happens every day. And in nearly every instance, one of the two is hurt more than the other. That's life.

I (generally) agree, but can also understand why the woman is SO angry at being dumped for some younger woman (with questionable motives).

[giddyup]

I doubt a man would any happier to be dumped for a toy boy. Bottom line, no one likes to be dumped, we all have egos.