Popular Post tornado24 Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Hi, actually I have a problem in Chiang Mai, I want to meet good ladies here but seems to be impossible! I always end up in the same dodgy places meeting bar girls or freelancers, yellow bar or infinity, the issue seems to be that the good thai ladies dont speak to the farangs and always have to take the not good ones. So my question is, where do you meet good thai ladies? How can i do? Im 25 and speak little bit of thai... Thanks 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoneyboy Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Do you live and work here or are you just passing through ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dean999 Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Trying to find love in a bar. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoneyboy Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) Trying to find love in a bar. It can be done if your wallet allows. Edited March 11, 2013 by stoneyboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tornado24 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Share Posted March 11, 2013 I have been here for 8 months last year(wrong lady) now I will be here for a while, Im a student but distance not UNI, I think 90% of farangs are with bar girls, is not possible for me, for one night is ok but not more! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post LawrenceChee Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Not true In all my time here, I have dated Thai local ladies. You have to try one of the following - Neat dressing - Banks / Restaurants - bring small gifts and surprises - Go to your fav stores and restaurants - Speak to an insurance : property agent - stop going to bars ... I just met another and I agree a wallet helps :-) 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BookMan Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 You want to meet good Thai Ladies? Are you a Good farang man OP? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Songhua Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 I have been here for 8 months last year(wrong lady) now I will be here for a while, Im a student but distance not UNI, I think 90% of farangs are with bar girls, is not possible for me, for one night is ok but not more! The TV membership is not representative of the expat population as 90% of members are with normal girls (not bar girls). You're asking in the right place. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheryl Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Best places are work or school, just like back home. Problem seems to be you have neither option available to you. "Normal" ladies the world over prefer to be able to get to know a man somewhat in a neutral context before deciding whether or not to consider seeing him in a romantic context. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MESmith Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Quote; "always have to take the not good ones" It's not compulsory 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tornado24 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Share Posted March 11, 2013 Come on songhua Im not agree with you... So the question is, where to meet nice ladies? The last one was a waiter of a restaurant... But... Pffff no comments! Hahahaha 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywais Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 I just removed one of your posts that 'good' ladies would not approve of the language. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post TommoPhysicist Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 A lady who owned a hotel in CM once answered exactly this question for me. "You want to meet nice and respectable Thai lady, come with me, I drive you 30Km from CM and we start looking. Don't waste your time looking in CM" 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post malcyx Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Hi.. There are some good ladies who work bar,and some bad.. Same any country.. Some good ladies work shopping malls, some bad too.. Bottom line , they all want,need the same thing..house,car,money,baby, and you to take care of her and help family.. bit of land wouldnt go amiss lol... Happiness n love are things in ones mind..neither can be achieved without money...(your rewards are you get to live in a beautifull country,great climate,fantastic food,and a lady n family that will "love" you.if it goes well ).. good luck.. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 OP, you ever hear about a ''Mine Field'' , Tread very carefully eh. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eyecatcher Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 25 and asking advice from the over 50s before i lecture you in the wisdom of how to find the perfect girls without the need to splash the cash, i suggest you read lawrences post....thats exactly where you need to start ....so stop being pathetic by telling the world that you cant pull. In yorkshire after a hello introduction we say ..get yer coit thas pulled doesnt work ere tho 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CobraSnakeNecktie Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Might help if you provided your definition of Normal Normal could mean a lot of various qualities. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BookMan Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 I have been here for 8 months last year(wrong lady) now I will be here for a while, Im a student but distance not UNI, I think 90% of farangs are with bar girls, is not possible for me, for one night is ok but not more! The TV membership is not representative of the expat population as 90% of members are with normal girls (not bar girls). You're asking in the right place. A good point Songhua, one that is often overlooked 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tornado24 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Share Posted March 11, 2013 Sorry about my English! Im not a native English speaker but I was living in Australia for a while and this is the best I can do. I dont want house, car, baby... I have 25 years old mate! Of course I have money but Im not the father of any lady, of course I can pay some things but people have to work and/or study and be independent. I just want to meet a good lady have a few drinks, hang out... And share good times, basic needs as well ... I dont want a wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Sorry about my English! Im not a native English speaker but I was living in Australia for a while and this is the best I can do. I dont want house, car, baby... I have 25 years old mate! Of course I have money but Im not the father of any lady, of course I can pay some things but people have to work and/or study and be independent. I just want to meet a good lady have a few drinks, hang out... And share good times, basic needs as well ... I dont want a wife. Just get out there. Gawd, wish l was 25. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eyecatcher Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) Really...i feel proud now to be in the top 10% of expats here Edited March 11, 2013 by eyecatcher Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tornado24 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Share Posted March 11, 2013 Eyecatcher pathetic is not a good word hehehe anyway... Im not talking about pull or not, Im just talking where can I meet good thai ladies(not bar girls) I have many friends from Japan, Australia, UK... But not thais!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Songhua Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Come on songhua Im not agree with you... So the question is, where to meet nice ladies? The last one was a waiter of a restaurant... But... Pffff no comments! Hahahaha I agree with LawrenceChee. Simply be yourself, act in a respectable & responsible manner and (you say you're 25) go to the places where 25yo Thais go. Some will tell you that you will not be welcomed at Thai-only haunts but I disagree. I've been in many, many places as the only foreigner without experiencing any animosity whatsoever. Indeed, in my younger day some of my best nights out were at very Thai venues. Speak your little bit of Thai ..... believe it or not, 'normal' Thai girls are sometimes as easily impressed as a girl in a bar. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaideeguy Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 'Normal' is just a setting on your washing machine. There is no such thing as a normal woman!!! and if there were, I wouldn't be attracted to her as I'm not normal myself and pride myself on that. 'normal' is boring! Sounds like you are/were looking in all the wrong places and most probably at the wrong times. I did the same too....that's 'normal' for a newbie kid in a candy store....easy cum, easy go. I think that what you are looking for can't be found in a bar or nightclub or almost any place a nice girl will be after dark. My advise is to search during the days and 'play' at night. The nice girls are out there, but you won't find them at Spicey's, Bubbles or Loi Krow......there are a few exceptions!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jambco984 Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 I walked past some "NORMAL" girls today. They smiled, I thought I'd pulled so I followed them all afternoon until they had me arrested for stalking..... No seriously what is normal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TommoPhysicist Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) Come on songhua Im not agree with you... So the question is, where to meet nice ladies? The last one was a waiter of a restaurant... But... Pffff no comments! Hahahaha I agree with LawrenceChee. Simply be yourself, act in a respectable & responsible manner and (you say you're 25) go to the places where 25yo Thais go. Some will tell you that you will not be welcomed at Thai-only haunts but I disagree. I've been in many, many places as the only foreigner without experiencing any animosity whatsoever. Indeed, in my younger day some of my best nights out were at very Thai venues. Speak your little bit of Thai ..... believe it or not, 'normal' Thai girls are sometimes as easily impressed as a girl in a bar. The 'normal' places are not really accessible to non-Thai speakers. Also you can't really go on your own as that's considered a bit weird. Mr. Chee I seriously doubt you have ever been in a Thai place judging from your posting history. @the OP You need a pal to take with you, then try some of the places like Oxide, Buddies, Hero over at Santhitham, a few foreigners there. If a bit more adventurous, the bars around the lake behind "Asia Garden" near Chang Puak police station, no foreigners at all. Walk in to "Say Hi" and the band will stop playing to stare at you, along with every customer on every table. Then you might try the Jazz bar, just before big C car park on the Hang Dong road, a bit upmarket, mainly Thai. Or just round the corner "Mae Sai" a totally Thai bar, with a fantastic rock band starting at 10pm, nobody in there speaks a word of English. All these places have Thai only menus .... good luck ordering. Edited March 11, 2013 by TommoPhysicist 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante99 Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) Normal ladies, out of our abodes we all see hundreds of them every few hours, thousands in KSK or Airport Plaza. This guy can not be that stupid, he wants your sister-in-law to use for a while for free. Any offers? Edited March 11, 2013 by Dante99 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post KRS1 Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Doesnt a good thai lady deserve a good man also, and not one looking in bars just for sex (according to your "basic needs")? Leave the good ones for the good guys that can give them a future. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Beetlejuice Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Quote; "always have to take the not good ones" It's not compulsory When girls are good, they`re good, but when they are bad, they`re even better. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sheryl Posted March 11, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2013 Sorry about my English! Im not a native English speaker but I was living in Australia for a while and this is the best I can do. I dont want house, car, baby... I have 25 years old mate! Of course I have money but Im not the father of any lady, of course I can pay some things but people have to work and/or study and be independent. I just want to meet a good lady have a few drinks, hang out... And share good times, basic needs as well ... I dont want a wife. Well you just narrowed the field of potentially interested "normal" ladies quite a bit, I'm afraid. Most Thai women in the market for someone they would "share basic needs with" who are not seeking to make money from it, are looking for that in the context of a relationship that would lead to marriage if things go well. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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