most thai girls are not in the least interested in meeting a 25 year old stud (unless rich) for thai girls number ONE is financial security for them and their family and if you meet that criteria you can be 65 up!

what did you smoke mate? I want some. First of all, perhaps a pensioner of 65 has less money than me or not, who knows ... The thing is many thai ladies can take profit of old men and they know that, a young man is more difficult to handle and will live longer, but that things you are talking about are do by golddigers, Thats why Im asking where to meet NORMAL thai ladies.

Take a shower mate.

Just go to a thai dating website geared for farangs. I know a few people that swear by them, and youll find the type of person that is looking to meet a farang and will rule out 75% as bar girls for hire, because they arent usually very computer savvy.

Sorry mate, but a lot of the bar girls are computer whizzes. They can handle three iPhones or IPads at once. They know when the departing plane is taxiing, they'e guiding the other guy in from the Railway Station, whist telling another to let them know when his plane leaves LA.

not forgetting 'you are da only one and hansum man' to the guy they are with

And when you come back a more up to date iPad would be nice. ​

Back in Canada we had what were called "Normal schools". They were for children who were a few bricks short of a fireplace, or were otherwise mentally handicapped. Is this one of the "normal" ladies the OP wants to meet?

Great post. ???????????????????????

So where to meet those 3 SIM card computer savvy Thai females? Hang out at the local Western Union office (Yellow & Black very fashionable these days)

Edited March 13, 201313 yr by JLCrab

Go out to some villages outside of chiangmai....look for 'normal' ladies like the farmers there...

So where to meet those 3 SIM card computer savvy Thai females? Hang out at the local Western Union office (Yellow & Black very fashionable these days)

3 SIM cards.....that's for novices.

They might have three phones but the numbers are endless!

Back in Canada we had what were called "Normal schools". They were for children who were a few bricks short of a fireplace, or were otherwise mentally handicapped. Is this one of the "normal" ladies the OP wants to meet?

No he wants to meet a free lady of the evening available at his convenience.

So where to meet those 3 SIM card computer savvy Thai females? Hang out at the local Western Union office (Yellow & Black very fashionable these days)

3 SIM cards.....that's for novices.

They might have three phones but the numbers are endless!

Well I have yet to see a phone that can handle more than 3 SIM cards at the same time but I've seen them swap those SIM cards out effortlessly. I'm certainly not up to date on these things.

BTW from the screenplay for The Producers 1968 version:

(Little Old Lady):

    I made (the check) out just as you told me --    to cash.  That's a funny name for a play.

Edited March 13, 201313 yr by JLCrab

I've had some good results on Thai Friendly (www.thaifriendly.com) while in BKK. I just recently arrived in CM to live for awhile and I'm finding that the CM selection of older women (good for my age 50) is limited, but there seem to be a lot of young women (good for your age).

When I was in BKK for a few months, through Thai Friendly I met LOTS of great women. Business professional, attractive, smart women whom I was quite happy to be on a date with while in a foreign country. They helped me normalize my life and were a blessing.

Good luck. Hope this is of assistance.

OH ALSO - Thai Friendly is free if you only want to send one message every ten minutes.

yup most of us here use this and others to meet 'normal' girls - great fun

"and others" - Which other sites are you using that you're enjoying?

most of my mates use the same - you can guarantee most of these girls have dated most of us! quite 'normal' here LOL

thaifriendly

thailovelinks

badoo

skout

dateinasia

travelgirls

are the main ones - have fun and remember 'it ain't what it seems'

In a city like Chiang Mai there is absolutely no need for websites to meet people. In the course of a day I must meet 3 or 4 available ladies every time I go out. I'm not looking as I have a family but I have never seen anywhere else in the world where it is so easy to meet nice, single girls.

Just go to a thai dating website geared for farangs. I know a few people that swear by them, and youll find the type of person that is looking to meet a farang and will rule out 75% as bar girls for hire, because they arent usually very computer savvy.

You haven't been in a lot of bars recently right? Girls with tablets or iPhones that will browse the web just fine, if not very frequent visitors to Internet shops, and all very familiar with the dating sites?

Ok they're not total cyber wizards perhaps, but how much skill does it take to click a link to FarangFriendFinder.com and hit search? These are young people who grew up with cell phones and common internet technology.

More importantly though, even if a good number indeed aren't bargirls -in the definition of a person employed at a bar-, they may very well be even better golddiggers, just through different (and easier) means.

Now, I would thoroughly recommend those sites just for dating and having some fun, but I'd be as cautious about a real relationship as I would be with someone in a bar and perhaps more so.

+1

As for not-looking because of family commitments ...

In my 3-piece suit working days traveling all around USA as a singe guy, I used to joke that I should buy a wedding ring as there were women who were only interested in meeting married men on the road. They could then have some fun and the guy would just leave them alone the next morning.

Maybe the same might work here.

Go out to some villages outside of chiangmai....look for 'normal' ladies like the farmers there...

A lot of these farmer's daughters are very nice young ladies, some will do anything (yes--anything!) to escape their impovershed subsistence farming existence, but very few speak English. Those that learn to speak English, often self-taught, make up a large number of the waitresses, clerks, bargirls and boyfriend/husband hunters in the cities.

Can someone tell this old traveled guy what is a normal lady in your opinion ?

I mean, normal when you meet and after the honey moon period is normal the same, or after years of marriage is normal the same. Just curious .

PS. I do have my opinion.

US Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart in 1964 famously wrote that he could not here and now provide a definition of hard-core pornography "... but I know it when i see it".

I'm stumped on a good definition for 'normal Thai lady' other than, if she is a 'normal' Thai girl, as a farang, she is probably not looking to meet you.

Can someone tell this old traveled guy what is a normal lady in your opinion ?

I mean, normal when you meet and after the honey moon period is normal the same, or after years of marriage is normal the same. Just curious .

PS. I do have my opinion.

A normal lady is someone who works in a normal place(bank, office, goverment, restaurant), has normal friends, speaks good(doesnt say arai waaaa), wear normal clothes(important in CM), doesnt go out everyday, doesnt drink 1 bottle of whisky like water and doesnt smoke 20 cigarettes per day, doesnt have 20 tatoos, 3 children in Fang(countryside), probably has studies, doesnt lie all the time and isnt interested in take all your money, doesnt matter how.

In western countries the things can be a little bit different but we are talking about CM.

Edited March 13, 201313 yr by tornado24

I live near several universities and, based on the overwhelming number of Thai couples that I see, a normal Thai female as described above is looking to hook up with a normal Thai male and has not even considered that she should be looking to hook up with a male who is otherwise.

The major exception that I see these days is when a Thai female is looking to hook up with another Thai female.

Edited March 13, 201313 yr by JLCrab

I live near several universities and, based on the overwhelming number of Thai couples that I see, a normal Thai female as described above is looking to hook up with a normal Thai male and has not even considered that she should be looking to hook up with a male who is otherwise.

I agree

Normal Thai female doesn't speak any English and so will be of no interest to the OP.

I'll go one more here before heading back to the wilds of Isaan:

When asked how do you find beautiful Thai women that might, at least in part, conform to 'normal' as above? I reply: You don't. They find you.

Can someone tell this old traveled guy what is a normal lady in your opinion ?

I mean, normal when you meet and after the honey moon period is normal the same, or after years of marriage is normal the same. Just curious .

PS. I do have my opinion.

A normal lady is someone who works in a normal place(bank, office, goverment, restaurant), has normal friends, speaks good(doesnt say arai waaaa), wear normal clothes(important in CM), doesnt go out everyday, doesnt drink 1 bottle of whisky like water and doesnt smoke 20 cigarettes per day, doesnt have 20 tatoos, 3 children in Fang(countryside), probably has studies, doesnt lie all the time and isnt interested in take all your money, doesnt matter how.

In western countries the things can be a little bit different but we are talking about CM.

So you are saying CM ladies are or could be different from the rest of the planet ?

heybruce, on 13 Mar 2013 - 14:01, said:

chuang, on 13 Mar 2013 - 11:40, said:

Go out to some villages outside of chiangmai....look for 'normal' ladies like the farmers there...

A lot of these farmer's daughters are very nice young ladies, some will do anything (yes--anything!) to escape their impovershed subsistence farming existence, but very few speak English. Those that learn to speak English, often self-taught, make up a large number of the waitresses, clerks, bargirls and boyfriend/husband hunters in the cities.

He was asking to meet good Thai ladies not English speaking ones.

In his Opening post he said nothing about normal Thai ladies. My money says he would be bored with them in short order.

This is a fun thread. Keep the posts rolling.

Edited March 13, 201313 yr by hellodolly

I live near several universities and, based on the overwhelming number of Thai couples that I see, a normal Thai female as described above is looking to hook up with a normal Thai male and has not even considered that she should be looking to hook up with a male who is otherwise.

The major exception that I see these days is when a Thai female is looking to hook up with another Thai female.

You must hang out at some interesting places.

Just go to a thai dating website geared for farangs. I know a few people that swear by them, and youll find the type of person that is looking to meet a farang and will rule out 75% as bar girls for hire, because they arent usually very computer savvy.

You haven't been in a lot of bars recently right? Girls with tablets or iPhones that will browse the web just fine, if not very frequent visitors to Internet shops, and all very familiar with the dating sites?

Ok they're not total cyber wizards perhaps, but how much skill does it take to click a link to FarangFriendFinder.com and hit search? These are young people who grew up with cell phones and common internet technology.

More importantly though, even if a good number indeed aren't bargirls -in the definition of a person employed at a bar-, they may very well be even better golddiggers, just through different (and easier) means.

Now, I would thoroughly recommend those sites just for dating and having some fun, but I'd be as cautious about a real relationship as I would be with someone in a bar and perhaps more so.

The ones you are seeing are the other 25% im talking about.

The typical bar girl goes home at 4am and wont wake up till 5pm to get ready for work.

Edited March 13, 201313 yr by KRS1

Shortly after arriving in Chiang Mai three years ago, I attended a hi-so party where I met a very articulate Thai man connected to CMU. We chatted over many glasses of wine, and watched the passing scene, which included a very large number of attractive women.

I eventually remarked that three seated nearby appeared to be giving us the eye.

"No thanks," he said. "I'm only interested in normal girls."

"What is a normal girl?," I asked, hoping for some deep insight into Thai culture.

"You'll see," he said.

I'm still waiting.

Can someone tell this old traveled guy what is a normal lady in your opinion ?

I mean, normal when you meet and after the honey moon period is normal the same, or after years of marriage is normal the same. Just curious .

PS. I do have my opinion.

A normal lady is someone who works in a normal place(bank, office, goverment, restaurant), has normal friends, speaks good(doesnt say arai waaaa), wear normal clothes(important in CM), doesnt go out everyday, doesnt drink 1 bottle of whisky like water and doesnt smoke 20 cigarettes per day, doesnt have 20 tatoos, 3 children in Fang(countryside), probably has studies, doesnt lie all the time and isnt interested in take all your money, doesnt matter how.

In western countries the things can be a little bit different but we are talking about CM.

So you are saying CM ladies are or could be different from the rest of the planet ?

The culture in Thailand is different, specially in CM, of course are differents, they are so HOT! Hahaha

Can someone tell this old traveled guy what is a normal lady in your opinion ?

I mean, normal when you meet and after the honey moon period is normal the same, or after years of marriage is normal the same. Just curious .

PS. I do have my opinion.

A normal lady is someone who works in a normal place(bank, office, goverment, restaurant), has normal friends, speaks good(doesnt say arai waaaa), wear normal clothes(important in CM), doesnt go out everyday, doesnt drink 1 bottle of whisky like water and doesnt smoke 20 cigarettes per day, doesnt have 20 tatoos, 3 children in Fang(countryside), probably has studies, doesnt lie all the time and isnt interested in take all your money, doesnt matter how.

In western countries the things can be a little bit different but we are talking about CM.

So you are saying CM ladies are or could be different from the rest of the planet ?

The culture in Thailand is different, specially in CM, of course are differents, they are so HOT! Hahaha

What ever is in YOUR head will always be HOT.

you people are truly incredible.

you people are truly incredible.

Naaaaaaaah, my mrs will certainly have a different opinion. Except Tuesday's. ....

Living in an alien culture 'normal' indeed, has lost all it's meaning from the farang point of view.

What a farang considers 'normal' will be laughed at by this alien culture he is invading.

Normal people don't go and live in other countries.

We aren't normal people, so why would we want a normal partner.

You look Mah-veluss. If one is having trouble meeting normal girls (whatever) maybe it is because you are short on a good pick-up line. This one (and a whole lot others in this video) from Billy Crystal 1985 which means most of the prime CM targets weren't even born when it was released.