Popular Post robbo1 Posted April 9, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted April 9, 2013 Well I have finally learnt my lesson, have been married to what I thought was a lovely young Thai lady who had such a poor life in her childhood but realise is just a money grabbing bar girl who took me for a ride. Was married for about 7 years first 5 ok but the last 2 have been a nightmare, she is addicted to gambling and have recently found out that she has been sleeping around on me. The only good thing about the relationship was the birth of our little boy who is now 4 years old. So a warning to many westerners who travel to find love or relationships just enjoy your time on holidays, dont bring them back to your own countries, they will try to take you for everything you have. Final statement You can take the Girl out of the Bar but you can't take the Bar out of the Girl. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JUDAS Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 If it's any consolation I understand that adultery etc is not unusual in marriages to non prostitutes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Another satisfied customer in the LOS. If it will make you feel any better, maybe you can think back to the good old days and post them on the "Adorable things that Thai girls do" thread currently running. That might cheer you up. Well, maybe not. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubberduck Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 (edited) Why in Thailand so many foreigners decide to marry a prostitute ? In their own country would they also marry a working girl ? I don't think so. Does the heat make them stupid or insane ? Causes the big demand for blood by their Willy create a lack of blood in their brains ? Guess many just don't even know how to find a 'normal' date, so from the very first hour they just end up in the candystore, with the repeating results... 'A young wife - a long life' Edited April 9, 2013 by rubberduck 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 (edited) I don't understand why everyone is putting the blame on Bar Girls. Most people I meet here are not working in bars but don't have much better ethics. What's more Thai ethics applies differently to different stride of the population, and as Farang we're just at the bottom of the ladder. Udon Thani and other provinces are full of poverty stricken family, who just view the farang as a "crop", something you have to patiently wait for, before it brings you dough, a much more lucrative crop than rice but nothing more ( "My boyfriend the sex tourist" documentary - real eye opener ), . "Try to take us for everything we have" is (apart from a few exceptions) only the normal thing to do. Edited April 9, 2013 by Kitsune Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neeranam Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 (edited) Why in Thailand so many foreigners decide to marry a prostitute ? In their own country would they also marry a working girl ? I don't think so. Does the heat make them stupid or insane ? Causes the big demand for blood by their Willy create a lack of blood in their brains ? Guess many just don't even know how to find a 'normal' date, so from the very first hour they just end up in the candystore, with the repeating results... 'A young wife - a long life' They are deluded - thinking that a bargirl is NOT a prostitute. Actually, I had some friends who were prostitutes in Scotland - nothing wrong with the job. They were nice girls, although had a drink/drug problem. I would have wanted to marry two of them. Marrying one in a Thailand - very different kettle of fish. Edited April 9, 2013 by Neeranam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diddums Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 No need to lump all of them into the one basket. Mines different. Look in the mirror...it could be you also you know !! Hookers are human and have feelings too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dancealot Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Applause to robbo1 for having seen the light! So, robbo? What's your new TGF's name?.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWalkingMan Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Another soldier down... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxme Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Applause to robbo1 for having seen the light! So, robbo? What's your new TGF's name?.. For a moment there I thought you gonna ask for his old gfs number Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubberduck Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Applause to robbo1 for having seen the light! So, robbo? What's your new TGF's name?.. 3 letters, the middle one is a vowel 'A young wife - a long life' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunFon Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 My condolences, pretty typical story though, IMO the case for most relationships between Thais and foreigners. Unfortunate that in your case you've spawned before learning of your mistake. Let me know if you want to take steps to keep your boy after the divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocN Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Why in Thailand so many foreigners decide to marry a prostitute ? In their own country would they also marry a working girl ? I don't think so. Does the heat make them stupid or insane ? Causes the big demand for blood by their Willy create a lack of blood in their brains ? Guess many just don't even know how to find a 'normal' date, so from the very first hour they just end up in the candystore, with the repeating results... 'A young wife - a long life' Because not everyone is as wise and clever as you. Shit happens. Get off the high horse! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taninthai Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Id say the problem is more marrying girls that are half your age it would just happen that these same girls are mostly bargirls though,if you want to marry a prostitute at least marry one near your own age have a lot more chance of success that way. Sent from my GT-P7500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardenedSoul Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 I never cease to be amazed at how grown men still hook up with rural Thai girls half their age expecting a long-lasting, fulfilling relationship to ensue. I mean, what on earth did he expect; he married a prostitute I can just see the OP over the years reading through threads on TV or reader submissions on Stickman thinking to himself, "Mine's different". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunFon Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 Id say the problem is more marrying girls that are half your age it would just happen that these same girls are mostly bargirls though,if you want to marry a prostitute at least marry one near your own age have a lot more chance of success that way. Sent from my GT-P7500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app- What would be the point of that for an old man, may as well stay in farang land? Each of my wives have gotten significantly younger as I've gotten older, but then I started out at 19 marrying a woman over 30. Just never pay in advance, only afterwards, subject to satisfactory services rendered. And get your tubes tied. . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 (edited) Id say the problem is more marrying girls that are half your age it would just happen that these same girls are mostly bargirls though,if you want to marry a prostitute at least marry one near your own age have a lot more chance of success that way. Sent from my GT-P7500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Duh ! Getting a young bird is the actual point who would want to marry a 65+ prostitute ? Edited April 9, 2013 by Kitsune Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdnvic Posted April 9, 2013 Share Posted April 9, 2013 I've seen far too many topics bashing Thai women over the years. For all we know it could be completely the OP's fault. I see this already going from bad to worse, so it's getting closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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