I have noticed, in long term relationships, with thai gals, that they tend to pick up on my habits and start acting like me in many different ways and often it is not the best side of me.

This is both dangerous and enlightening as to how much of an ass i am.

I understand why and how and appreciate that, now, how to re-program both myself and her?

Edited April 21, 201313 yr by infinity11

What particular habits are you referring to?

I wish she drank and smoked like me.

No I don't really.

Yes I do....

How many long-term relationships can one actually have before some of them must have really been short-term relationships?

I've had the really rancid farts this week! the wife opens a window and goes off to the spare room.

Seems as good a place as any to post this....

Does this help?

Does she stand up to take a leak?

Don't you hate that? Just when you think you've found a GIRLfriend, she mimics you and starts watching the football, sipping a beer in one hand and scratching her testicles with the other.

Seriously though, isn't taking on each other's traits true to some extent for most longterm couples?

I am afraid all the wits are misplaced here.

You are fixated on kinds of the OP traits and habbits.

The question was how to retrain both.

My suggestion: a new b/f for him and a new g/f for her.

Mostly this is about mannerisms of mine they had not before, but now have.

I posted OP because this was NOT an issue in the west but i have seen this in full force here more than once.

Hoping to find some intelligent responses, similar experiences and perhaps some insights.

Only long term people would GET this, should this not just be me, as it takes a while to sink in and notice.

your OP sucks because you don't give any examples; you just want other posters to do the work. cmon man...

Good topic..

Mine doesn't though. Keeps complaining about by bad habits (both of them) but doesn't acquire those habits..

(Which is good, because that would be TOTALLY unacceptable.)

Edited April 22, 201313 yr by WinnieTheKhwai

Don't you hate that? Just when you think you've found a GIRLfriend, she mimics you and starts watching the football, sipping a beer in one hand and scratching her testicles with the other.

Seriously though, isn't taking on each other's traits true to some extent for most longterm couples?

Of course she scratches 'her' testicles. Whats yours is hers!

Nothing worse than the missus getting her cock out for a quick wank when she thinks she is alone............ her hearing is almost as sharp as mine.

I've had the really rancid farts this week! the wife opens a window and goes off to the spare room.

Seems as good a place as any to post this....

Does this help?

ive been introducing this trait too, must be something in the air

Armchair introspection can lead you to some surprising conclusions.

My wife has adopted many of my habits, good and bad over the years, except the part of picking up the tab when the bills come round.

Does she stand up to take a leak?

And sprays it all over the toilet seat

Yet another banter topic - off to Pub.

Actually the worse problem I find is my tendency to subconsciously "teach" her how to act like a farang woman.

Got her knocking back the Bacardi Breezers, throwing up in the street and shouting 'hit 'im Kevin, hit 'in, that's the one that looked at me'?

* only joking, I realise not all farang girls are like those ones you get up North

** only joking, I realise Northern girls aren't all like that