Hello!

Today I want found out more about the up to you what I called syndrome in the meantime in Thailand !

Every time when I not reflect the opinion of my wife or girlfriends before married it ends in a endless up to you season , what could mean yes or no or something between!

After 10 years hear I getting more and more sensitive of the daily up to you!

So my question now, does this syndrome also existits in society's of other Asian country's like Philipine. Hk etc?

That's up to you to decide.

This syndrome is part of a larger and much more sinister complex known as "being a woman"

Another one is, remind me on xxxxxx. To which my normal reply is xxxx off

Be a man and make the decisions. Don't be insecure and ask too much. Just go on with what you believe is right. Many people take women much too serious.

Be a man and make the decisions. Don't be insecure and ask too much. Just go on with what you believe is right. Many people take women much too serious.

I usually hear it when i made a decision.

As i have understood it, 'up 2 u' can mean one of two things:

1] i couldnt care less

2] you'll regret if you dont do what i wish

Edited August 19, 201312 yr by poanoi

One of my exes could go for days when pissed off about something/nothing saying only a single word:

FINE.

I'm of the opinion that up to you really means, "up to you to find out what I wish/demand"....

This syndrome is part of a larger and much more sinister complex known as "being a woman"

NAH ... I use it when appropriate ...

As i have understood it, 'up 2 u' can mean one of two things:

1] i couldnt care less

2] you'll regret if you dont do what i wish

Exactly

Up to you means 'you're supposed to be reading my mind'

One of my exes could go for days when pissed off about something/nothing saying only a single word:

FINE.

...and the funny bit is she would think she was punishing you with silence!

I think this is to be encouraged...

As i have understood it, 'up 2 u' can mean one of two things:

1] i couldnt care less

2] you'll regret if you dont do what i wish

Exactly

No, not women in other Asian countries; all over the world.

3) She thinks that you should know the right answer; screw it up and you will be on the couch for the next 2 weeks.

I will lend you my missus for a few days and you'll be wishing to go back to the "up to you" attitude. Nothing is up to me, she doesn't even give it lip service.

This diagram may give you an insight.

image003.jpgThis diagram may give you an insight.

Nice one!