Questions regarding Thai-Farang relationships.

[pigeonjake]

this will turn into another pissing contest thread,,lol

[TheSpade]

The OP thinks too much.

Just come across here and enjoy your time.

If you come here and do not 'copulate' with Thai girls then something is not right.

Why wouldn't you?

And to the guy saying the OP should have relationships with bar girls until he knows Thailand, nonsense, at 21 the guy can have his pick of young Thai women for free and doesn't need to bang bar girls or pay for it.

[Somchai Mao]

The OP thinks too much.

Just come across here and enjoy your time.

If you come here and do not 'copulate' with Thai girls then something is not right.

Why wouldn't you?

And to the guy saying the OP should have relationships with bar girls until he knows Thailand, nonsense, at 21 the guy can have his pick of young Thai women for free and doesn't need to bang bar girls or pay for it.

Nothing is free in Thailand my friend.

[historyprof]

It is necessary to speak Thai. "Don't touch that. That's where I keep my razor blades."

There are better places than Thai Visa for advice about teaching and women. Thai Visa is number one on advice about Thai Visas. Who would have guessed!

[TheSpade]

The OP thinks too much.

Just come across here and enjoy your time.

If you come here and do not 'copulate' with Thai girls then something is not right.

Why wouldn't you?

And to the guy saying the OP should have relationships with bar girls until he knows Thailand, nonsense, at 21 the guy can have his pick of young Thai women for free and doesn't need to bang bar girls or pay for it.

Nothing is free in Thailand my friend.

For you maybe.

[historyprof]

The OP thinks too much.

Just come across here and enjoy your time.

If you come here and do not 'copulate' with Thai girls then something is not right.

Why wouldn't you?

And to the guy saying the OP should have relationships with bar girls until he knows Thailand, nonsense, at 21 the guy can have his pick of young Thai women for free and doesn't need to bang bar girls or pay for it.

Nothing is free in Thailand my friend.

For you maybe.

You met her too, eh? She sure got around.

[swissie]

this will turn into another pissing contest thread,,lol

Not really. But the OP must get the impression that upon entering Thailand, he is entering a snake-pit.

"Sharper than a serpents-toot is a thankless Thai-female" (Shakespeare). Or worse:

"Sharper than a tigers-toot is a Farang trying to sell life-insurance to new "Farang-Arrivals" operating out of "Lulu's bar & grill. (Not Shakespeare).

Cheers.

[historyprof]

this will turn into another pissing contest thread,,lol

Not really. But the OP must get the impression that upon entering Thailand, he is entering a snake-pit.

"Sharper than a serpents-toot is a thankless Thai-female" (Shakespeare). Or worse:

"Sharper than a tigers-toot is a Farang trying to sell life-insurance to new "Farang-Arrivals" operating out of "Lulu's bar & grill. (Not Shakespeare).

Cheers.

What did you go to school in Switzerland? The quote is "How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is

To have a thankless child!"

Edited September 8, 2013 by historyprof

[HardenedSoul]

Nothing is free in Thailand my friend.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

You pay for it one way or another, right?

[pilm]

this will turn into another pissing contest thread,,lol

Sorry, I was gonna reply but my Chula graduated (M.A. from the US.) Sino-Thai wife just said she found 2.4m baht behind the sofa and asked if I'd like it.

Next time PJ.

[pilm]

And to the guy saying the OP should have relationships with bar girls until he knows Thailand, nonsense, at 21 the guy can have his pick of young Thai women for free and doesn't need to bang bar girls or pay for it.

But BGs are much more fun. Particularly when there are 7 of them in costumes, you, porn, and a liter btl of baby oil.

The next guy will be still be chatting up his freebee starfish delighted and proud that he is getting it for free in Asia (wow, what an accomplishment).

21... have some fun dude.

Edited September 8, 2013 by pilm

[pigeonjake]

this will turn into another pissing contest thread,,lol

Sorry, I was gonna reply but my Chula graduated (M.A. from the US.) Sino-Thai wife just said she found 2.4m baht behind the sofa and asked if I'd like it.

Next time PJ.

well your the lucky one,

im sat in my caravan in scotland waiting to go to work on the nightshift on an oil refinery,,,lol

but it pays our bills,

and if you say,(not you personaly) but all,

that yes im the one who goes to work, paid for our house to be built, bought my small tractor,pays our bills,

then yes i must be in a paid relationship,

but i have a very happy time with my wife and daughter when im at home,

the world is all about what you find in life that makes you happy, each to there own,

yes i could be i could be in pattaya paying for a beautiful young girl every night, having a drink with the few freinds that i have there,

but to be honest that isnt me,

i work away from home, but i know when i get home im strait back into a very loving relationship with my wife,

jake

[Somchai Mao]

I've never understood the guys who will go to any lengths to get a free legover even to the point of ripping a girl off. It must be a macho my car is better than yours type of thing or it could be an insecurity thing, the need to be liked for oneself. It's only £30 or so and a lot of fun, so get on with it. I've had so-called freebies from girls on the hotel reception and one who worked in the post office but paying for the cinema, a big slap up meal for her mates, visits to numerous hiso skybars and evenings in karaoke bars it's not as much fun as a night in a girlie bar and certainly more expensive.

[HardenedSoul]

I've never understood the guys who will go to any lengths to get a free legover even to the point of ripping a girl off. It must be a macho my car is better than yours type of thing or it could be an insecurity thing, the need to be liked for oneself. It's only £30 or so and a lot of fun, so get on with it.

Well I suppose if you're talking about the gogo dancer, the bargirl or the freelancer at Spicy then I suppose trying to get a freebie could be tantamount to ripping her off but not everyone moves in those circles. Not every guy is just looking for "something to poke on".

Some guys are looking for more than gratuitous sex but the prevalence of your type of attitude among guys on this forum would seem to indicate that they are definitely in a minority.

I've had so-called freebies from girls on the hotel reception and one who worked in the post office but paying for the cinema, a big slap up meal for her mates, visits to numerous hiso skybars and evenings in karaoke bars it's not as much fun as a night in a girlie bar and certainly more expensive.

If your account of your expenditure is accurate then I'm sorry but you deserved to be separated from your money if all you wanted was a couple of laps around the track.

There's a fair few men for whom the process of hooking up with regular, good-looking women in mainstream, non-sex industry employment is neither difficult nor inordinately expensive.

[jaffacake32]

I taught in Thailand for several years about ten years ago. I was in an office with about twelve other UK teachers. We all ended up having relationships with Thais, apart from one guy who favoured go go bars and wasn't after a relationship. Some of our other halves spoke good English and others didn't, the farang then learnt Thai, quite often to a very fluent level. Six of us got married and four couples subsequently divorced. Two of the original teachers still live in Thailand, the go go lover and one in a committed relationship. The Thai's we were in relationships with were not bar girls or bar boys just your usual run of the mill Thais. It maybe depends a lot on where you go and who your friends are to what kind of Thai people you meet.

It was a great experience though, don't be put off by all the talk of bar girls etc, it's there if you want it but also easy enough to stay away from too

[TheSpade]

There's a fair few men for whom the process of hooking up with regular, good-looking women in mainstream, non-sex industry employment is neither difficult nor inordinately expensive.

I haven't experienced anywhere in the world where it's easier to find interested and good looking girls with so little effort.

[Darren McKenzie]

There's a fair few men for whom the process of hooking up with regular, good-looking women in mainstream, non-sex industry employment is neither difficult nor inordinately expensive.

I haven't experienced anywhere in the world where it's easier to find interested and good looking girls with so little effort.

Pics essential.

Otherwise, great trolling

Edited September 8, 2013 by Darren McKenzie

[HardenedSoul]

There's a fair few men for whom the process of hooking up with regular, good-looking women in mainstream, non-sex industry employment is neither difficult nor inordinately expensive.

I haven't experienced anywhere in the world where it's easier to find interested and good looking girls with so little effort.

Pics essential.

Otherwise, great trolling

Well I, for one, have posted pics of one of my squeezes on TVF in the past.

In her case, however, I freely admit there was a great deal of effort expended in hooking up . . . but from her side, not mine.

Still, I'm glad she pursued me despite my skepticism.

She's turned out to be quite a gem

[GirlDrinkDrunk]

1. Most guys come to Thailand for the easily available sex.

(Not always for sex with a woman)

2. Who cares about relationships, enjoy the sex.

(Not as much risk as your western government would have you believe)

after 17 years here, i still don't believe this is true.

the vocal majority on here certainly makes it seem so though

[EyesWideOpen]

You have to realise that for a lot of guys on this forum, the potential for having multiple, hard-bodied sexual partners is/was a big - if not the biggest - draw for living here so they automatically assume that if someone intends to come here to do a job which is, for the most part, not particularly well paid, there must be another motive.

In their eyes, the Thai people aren't especially interesting beyond the availability of their females, so they find it difficult to grasp your motivations.

A lot of these guys are abject failures with women be that after one or a series or marriages or owing to crippling social ineptitude so they come to Thailand to make up for a lifetime of being the chumps that couldn't nail the hot chick for love nor money.

Hot chicks in America are about 5 % of the female population. So with a simple understanding of

mathematics and ratios, you can clearly see there will be a lot of men who will NOT be nailing the hot chick....

[snake24]

Dude, imagine your are Brad Pitt. Understand?

Dude, imagine your are Brad Pitt. Understand?

Brad Pitt is a celebrity, he doesn't even need to leave his house to get 1000's of girls. He could quite literally post on his Twitter, if he even has it, that he's accepting requests for intercourse and fangirls would line up for him - possibly from all over the world.

You really can't use him as an example.

he is being sarcastic about it. Cos some of these foreigners actually think they are like stars.

[snake24]

1. Most guys come to Thailand for the easily available sex.

(Not always for sex with a woman)

2. Who cares about relationships, enjoy the sex.

(Not as much risk as your western government would have you believe)

in regards to 1.

These guys would go no they didn't actually go into a bar to get a thai girl dying for them or that the girl they are with somehow isn't a hooker or some woman of the night.

In regards to 2.

You can actually enjoy relationships and sex by dating your hooker. How many times have you seen some foreigner bringing his bar girl out on a date. Certainly isn't uncommon in fact on the contary too common. Then again that isn't anything when you consider how common it is for them to have a long distance relationship with that bargirl and sends her money and some even end up marrying them which again is rather common.

Oh yes to further add on now these girls working in these bars/massage places etc are just like regular ppl so when work ends they might go out to a club for some fun and yes you can hit on them and i don't know it seems like if you manage to hit on such a girl outside of her work place you have scored even though just a few hours ago some poor shmuck was paying 5000thb to do the ol' in out with her. That's how some guys hold themselves to a higher standard by asking out the girls dancing in the clubs and some of them work in those types of places.

Edited September 9, 2013 by snake24

[snake24]

1. Most guys come to Thailand for the easily available sex.

(Not always for sex with a woman)

2. Who cares about relationships, enjoy the sex.

(Not as much risk as your western government would have you believe)

This seems interesting, sex is easily available? Is that by means of flirtation or well, darker methods? Myself being from South Africa prostitution is a big industry here, but I wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole.

Can you elaborate on the lack of risk? I've had safe sex drilled into my head since I was 6, because of the high number HIV/AIDS sufferers in Africa/South Africa.

You see in thailand you don't actually call them prostitutes. No no no. That bar girl dancing in the ago go bar isn't a hooker by any means even though you can pay the barfine bring her out wine and dine her and then pay her somemore and have your way with her but she isn't a hooker. I mean you would think the large number of foreign men dating their bar girls and marrying them would be insane would you?

That's the magic of thailand. The bar girls/massage/call girls can be available for marriage, dating, having a good time and you see that's how you avoid the stigma of the loser having to pay for sex especially in most western countries or in south africa where it's no nonsense bang bang thank you mdm stuff. Many of the girls look rather normal and even attractive no bottom of the barrel stuff.

[snake24]

The OP thinks too much.

Just come across here and enjoy your time.

If you come here and do not 'copulate' with Thai girls then something is not right.

Why wouldn't you?

And to the guy saying the OP should have relationships with bar girls until he knows Thailand, nonsense, at 21 the guy can have his pick of young Thai women for free and doesn't need to bang bar girls or pay for it.

Nothing is free in Thailand my friend.

the nice girl that works in the bar doesn't actually count to some of the peeps in here as having paid for sex. That's the beauty of thailand. In that it is very easy to blur the lines between actually scoring which means said male has sexual attraction, 'skills' vs paying for sex which some see as the behavior of a loser.

Of course when they start sending the nice girl some money from overseas it doesn't count as them paying for it cos they did it out of their own free will.

Edited September 9, 2013 by snake24

[Somchai Mao]

Methinks Mr Snake talks a lot of sense.

Never forget Thailand is just an illusion on every level imaginable. Nice though.

[seajae]

well if you are going to be like most of the ex pats over here at 21 it means you would need to be with someone around 10 or younger as most of those here are with someone under half their age, its all an ego thing as a lot are not capable of having a normal relationship so they need to pay for it, just look at all the crap they write about sex. Most of it is in their heads, those that partner up/marry for love dont need to come in here and big note themsleves. Sex is everywhere here if you look, it depends on what it is you want, a casual bonk or a relationship, once you are teaching you will meet plenty of "nice" ladies but if you just want sex just go to any bar but watch your wallet/money and what you drink, you never know what you will wake up with or without.

[historyprof]

@ OP.

Most Farangs don't understand the Thais. (Verbally and mentally), but that does not stop them from copulating.

I openly admit to not understanding women, verbally or mentally, why bring Thais into the discussion?

Because most of the posters here have had no luck getting/keeping a Western woman and have (or are trying to have) a woman from Thailand.

Edited September 9, 2013 by historyprof

[GreenSnapper]

@ OP.

Most Farangs don't understand the Thais. (Verbally and mentally), but that does not stop them from copulating.

I openly admit to not understanding women, verbally or mentally, why bring Thais into the discussion?

Because most of the posters here have had no luck getting/keeping a Western woman and have (or are trying to have) a woman from Thailand.

Getting a western woman is one of the easiest things in the world. I always wonder about the guys here who believe it is an achievement or you need "luck".

Most western men in Asia know that and they made a choice when having an Asian wife/GF.

[topt]

Methinks Mr Snake talks a lot of sense.

You obviously haven't seen his replies on some other topics......

[historyprof]

1. Most guys come to Thailand for the easily available sex.

(Not always for sex with a woman)

2. Who cares about relationships, enjoy the sex.

(Not as much risk as your western government would have you believe)

after 17 years here, i still don't believe this is true.

the vocal majority on here certainly makes it seem so though

I agree with GDD.

So I'm standing in Pattaya with a dozen guys,age group 22 - 45, with one guy in his 60's. The conversation turned to where the best holiday location was and not one said Patts. The 22 year old nailed it when he said that the women he had been with were shocking in bed. He couldn't wait to get home to be with women that are willing and thrilling.

There was a lot of sage nodding of the heads. Sex is on tap in Thailand but a lot of it is dire.

What else do you expect from a sex professional? You're just another John and the last thing they want is a well h*ng Gigolo. This is why they love the Japanese Rule Of Three, Three Inches, Three Minutes, Three Thousand baht.

How many of you have heard the girls talking about "Too much power"? They dread that guy. One lady told me that she went with a guy short time and he powered into her for four hours. He must have thought it was magic, she landed in hospital and was out of circulation for 10 days. That's not a good business model never mind anything else.

Her new business model was to go with older guys as they normally weren't as voracious and ferocious. Note the word normally, she got a shock a few times from them too.

There's a big difference between a hired help and a girlfriend. Any sensible man on this forum knows exactly what I'm talking about.

So lets say that a fair percentage of guys that come here go through the sweets in a candy shop phase. The vast majority come back out of it fairly quickly and for many different reasons. The one reason that isn't discussed much is the one I pointed out. Far too many of these women are rotten in bed. Anybody shaking their heads in recognition?

I'm no saint but I'm not a monger, I've had two relationships with Thai women and to be brutally honest with you I don't see anything special about them. I have a few Scottish exes that could leave them standing in every regard.

Questions

1. Where do bar girls go after work in Pattaya?

2. How many men does a Thai woman working in Singapore at a brothel do a day?

3. Do the Thai women say the same thing about Korean men as Japanese men?

Answers

1. They go to Thai bars and buy Thai men..

2. You wouldn't believe it!

3. Yes they do but it is not what you have been told, 333. Thai women like Asian men more than Western men and they like Kkorean men the best, Japanese second and Chinese (From China) almost not at all.

If you want to know about Asian men you should move the thread to the gay forum where you will get some factual answers.

Edited September 9, 2013 by historyprof