Mudcrab Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 (edited) Yes, you are not the usual farang-Thai couple in Thailand, but not rare in the West. Thai women generally look younger than their age, at least until 45 or 50. Most men are just wired genetically to be attracted to younger women, but not everyone. If she takes care of herself and still shows an interest in sex as she gets older, it will probably work out fine. But I tend to see many older Thai women lose interest in sex, not exercise, gain weight, etc. As long as you care for each other, and stay a good match for each other, it won't matter anyway. I commend you ,and the ladies, on your research. Must have been exhausting. Edited February 28, 2014 by Mudcrab 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Mamma Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Age is a state of mind. I have met very old young people and very young old people. I know a dude almost 90 and he still surfs, probably better then most of the couch muffins writing their slag here! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mudcrab Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 Age is a state of mind. I have met very old young people and very young old people. I know a dude almost 90 and he still surfs, probably better then most of the couch muffins writing their slag here! As the saying goes....you are only as old as the woman you feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post gazmat Posted February 28, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 28, 2014 My wife is the same age as me but has far more money than me. Which is nice. We're not all crinkly old giffers, living out our twilight years in some redshirt village of the damned, married to prostitutes young enough to be our granddaughters whilst being slowly bled dry of our meagre pensions by a bunch of barely educated peasants we like to call our 'family'! 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navara Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 WHY NOT? Thai woman look often much better than western woman, even when there older. I too married an "older" woman, she still looks 18 And indeed, she gain the main income too. I praise her wishdom too, which you can't find at the younger women. So... who is the lust object here? 555 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tmymaimee Posted February 28, 2014 Share Posted February 28, 2014 My wife is the same age as me but has far more money than me. Which is nice. We're not all crinkly old giffers, living out our twilight years in some redshirt village of the damned, married to prostitutes young enough to be our granddaughters whilst being slowly bled dry of our meagre pensions by a bunch of barely educated peasants we like to call our 'family'! Funny… But these same grandpas will be the first to proclaim its true love and she would love him even without the money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somtamnication Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 My wife is 13 years younger. Our sex life is incredible! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akentryan Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 The key is that you met her while you were both teachers. My wife is much younger than I but we have no children and have been married 22 years. Not the norm but appears to be working for yiou both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wprime Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 No you're not odd, you'll fit in very well with most of our wives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 Unheard of Well my wifes 7 months older than me, I'm 38 and she's 39, and she saves more than me. So now you have heard of it Kitsune. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tmymaimee Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 No you're not odd, you'll fit in very well with most of our wives. So you're quick to judge someone based on their employment and age? Maybe she sells yaba out back after class….you see, you're exactly the type of person who has really no clue about people. So my wife worked Soi 6 for 10 years and all her earnings went to charity….she wouldn't fit in because she was a professional prostitute? Who the hell wants to "fit in" with you anyways? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiftyTwo Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 A few cynical comments above from posters with nothing to add. Genuine topic of interest, i shall post pics later. It's quite common for an older Thai lady to provide for a younger husband (toy boy). I have a friend aged 35 who is married to a 55YO woman. She pays him 20k a month allowance. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deerculler Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 Goodluck to you both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PhillyBoy Posted March 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 1, 2014 You met teaching.....in Thailand......you are in your 20s?......not too hard to make more than you, I agree that she looks younger than you (sorry). I was married to someone 10 years older and it was ok until I reached 40 and she was 50 and did not think sex was too cool anymore, menopause set in and that was it. Now married to someone 20 years younger.....I like it this way a lot better. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lostinsurin Posted March 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 1, 2014 My wife is wealthier than me, she has my money. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeThePoster Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 My mia noi is 5 years older than my wife, is that normal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostinsurin Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 No you're not odd, you'll fit in very well with most of our wives. So you're quick to judge someone based on their employment and age? Maybe she sells yaba out back after class….you see, you're exactly the type of person who has really no clue about people. So my wife worked Soi 6 for 10 years and all her earnings went to charity….she wouldn't fit in because she was a professional prostitute? Who the hell wants to "fit in" with you anyways? I meet Charity in Soi 8. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyler2208 Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 my wife is 2 months older than me, financially, i would say we are pretty similar. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostinsurin Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 My mia noi is 5 years older than my wife, is that normal? Only if your mia is older than 23. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatdrunkandstupid Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 You will save a fortune on viagra in comparison to other TV members. That is why you are getting all the hostility. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautifulthailand99 Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 You both look jai dee which is a good mix. You are a handsome man if I may so and the biggest problem you will get is all the other girls hitting on you and the struggle to stay monagamous here. Good luck to the both of you. Love grows slowly but once it has it's roots deep it is difficult to destroy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Usual Suspect Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 My wife isn't older than me, but she's in her mid- forties and I'm really happy with her. She doesn't want kids, is financially well off, and she takes really good care of herself. It's a match made in heaven. Like an earlier poster said, most Thai women keep their looks well into middle age and a few beyond. Good luck to you. I hope you find happiness with your wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prvtdetdave Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 A mate of mine has a thai wife 8 yrs older than he. she has a couple pensions therefore brings in more than him. They have been married 34 yrs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cosmo88 Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 You will save a fortune on viagra in comparison to other TV members. That is why you are getting all the hostility. Actually, one could argue precisely the opposite too... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blindside Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 Me 1st on the left, wife 2nd on the right. We met while teaching here. Newly wed mate of mine is leaving his job to move to wife's province because she has the better job. He is not fresh off the boat either. So this might become a new trend? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dellie Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 My wife is 5 years older than me. We are both still young though. Im mid 30s and she's late 30s so 5 years doesn't really mean that much. She is upper management at a large multinational company and makes about the same as me. Having been raised and educated in the UK and Switzerland I doubt she would be considered a "real" thai by most resident TV "expert" lurkers. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post stickylies Posted March 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 1, 2014 farang friend of mine same like you: older wife, wealthy wife, both good job in thailand, happy married, kid, etc... thai friend of mine, older wife too, ... the problem is TV is dominated by these stereotype 55+ fellas resulting in the classic bitter man-opause crap we read here... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmaxdan Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 (edited) My wife is 3 years older than me. (46&49) We have been together for about 7 years, married for 4. Neither of us has any wealth to speak of Edited March 1, 2014 by Dmaxdan 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stickylies Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 about this being a new trend. most men now in their 20s 30s 40s have a different mindset than most men who had that age 25-40 years ago. less rigid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stickylies Posted March 1, 2014 Share Posted March 1, 2014 You will save a fortune on viagra in comparison to other TV members. And save on SSRI's, alcohol, tranquilizers and the likes too. Read the symptoms below and u understand the atmosphere on thai visa, LOL8 Symptoms caused by a drop in the male hormone testosterone include: Anger and social withdrawal Irritability Hypersensitivity Anxiety Hot Flashes Mood swings Depression Lack of libido Back and head aches Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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