garet Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) I recently moved into a condo with round the clock security; one guy does the night shift and one guy does the day shift. It's good to have security, but the downside is the security guards see every woman who comes in and out to visit. I'm not bringing tarts to my room, but I have had quite a few female visitors, including friends. Every time I walk by the security sitting at the desk in front of the lift, I feel a little ashamed. I know I pay the rent and it's up to me to choose my visitors, but it's a bit uncomfortable. One of the security guards never smiles at me anymore. I do try to be friendly and buy them a bottle of beer now and then. Anyone else in a similar situation? Part of me says, I don't care what they think, I pay the rent and don't cause any problems, and another part of me thinks this makes me look bad and should not bring many people to visit here. Edited June 21, 2014 by garet 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 Ever heard the phrase "dont sh** on your own doorstep". 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerry123 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 would that be xxit or xxag ????? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanLaew Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) Did the OP feel similarly ashamed when he was taking women back to his hotel room? If yes, then stop doing it. If no, then there's your answer. Edited June 21, 2014 by NanLaew 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garet Posted June 21, 2014 Author Share Posted June 21, 2014 Ever heard the phrase "dont sh** on your own doorstep". Yes, I know the phrase well. So what's the answer, don't bring anyone back unless she's wife or girlfriend? I'm recently single, so don't have a gf yet. The people who visit me aren't tarts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricklev Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 Are they trollops? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garet Posted June 21, 2014 Author Share Posted June 21, 2014 Did the OP feel similarly ashamed when he was taking women back to his hotel room? If yes, then stop doing it. If no, then there's your answer. Well, with a hotel I don't usually care because it's only for a few days, but with the condo, I know the security guards and see them every day. In the end, I know that it's my room and it's up to me if I want to bring visitors back. Just being seen makes it a bit uncomfortable. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 Do you know the security guards family (wife sisters and so on)? If not .......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesquite Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 "One of the security guards never smiles at me anymore." Poor guy is sad. He's feels he no longer has the option to offer you his "sister" for some baht. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post daoyai Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 Yes, the famous "walk of shame" ..... everybody knows everything amongst the staff... they will gossip about you and you friends and if you never bring anyone, they will gossip about that too. Just the way it is. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garet Posted June 21, 2014 Author Share Posted June 21, 2014 Yes, the famous "walk of shame" ..... everybody knows everything amongst the staff... they will gossip about you and you friends and if you never bring anyone, they will gossip about that too. Just the way it is. Well said. I guess I just have to accept that frequent "walk of shame", and of course they will gossip, but that is human nature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 buying the security guard a beer If he drinks it on duty he should be fired..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris2004 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 Could be worse, they might be ladyboys. Who cares what they think it's your condo. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 "One of the security guards never smiles at me anymore." Poor guy is sad. He's feels he no longer has the option to offer you his "sister" for some baht. I didn't know Farangs could get jobs as security officers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATF Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 Just not the done thing old chap. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 I rented a service apartment at a hotel for years and the girls who visited me were definitely tarts. The only problem was they made the girls working the front desk (who were not tarts) very uncomfortable. But as it was also a businessman's hotel there were tarts in and out all the time. Some how the OP must think he is exceptional in that women enter and leave his rented condo. Answer to his vexation: No one really cares. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garet Posted June 21, 2014 Author Share Posted June 21, 2014 I rented a service apartment at a hotel for years and the girls who visited me were definitely tarts. The only problem was they made the girls working the front desk (who were not tarts) very uncomfortable. But as it was also a businessman's hotel there were tarts in and out all the time. Some how the OP must think he is exceptional in that women enter and leave his rented condo. Answer to his vexation: No one really cares. Yes, that's a good point, however there are only 3 farangs renting in this building and the other two are married. There are only about 40 rooms to the whole building, so I guess I stand out. But in the end, after a little gossip, you're right, nobody probably cares. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 I rented a service apartment at a hotel for years and the girls who visited me were definitely tarts. The only problem was they made the girls working the front desk (who were not tarts) very uncomfortable. But as it was also a businessman's hotel there were tarts in and out all the time. Some how the OP must think he is exceptional in that women enter and leave his rented condo. Answer to his vexation: No one really cares. Yes, that's a good point, however there are only 3 farangs renting in this building and the other two are married. There are only about 40 rooms to the whole building, so I guess I stand out. But in the end, after a little gossip, you're right, nobody probably cares. Most of the time I was the only farang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ya5702 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 It is not the Security Guards you should be concerned of too much. You should be concerned, and be considerate, of your fellow residents (Tenants/Owners) every time you bring a girlfriend to the condo. I live in a condo (Owner). Frankly, we as residents (Tenants/Owners) would frown upon any resident who brings "short-time" girlfriends home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hanno Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 It is not the Security Guards you should be concerned of too much. You should be concerned, and be considerate, of your fellow residents (Tenants/Owners) every time you bring a girlfriend to the condo. I live in a condo (Owner). Frankly, we as residents (Tenants/Owners) would frown upon any resident who brings "short-time" girlfriends home. And there I was thinking it is the 21st century. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kannot Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 I do my best to walk around looking like farang kee nok, this way I aint gonna get attacked for my stash in the bank, I really dont care what the Thais think if all they have to worry about is how I look and their stupid face fiasco. Next time bring 2-3 back at least give them something to really talk about. As for buying them beer..........your;e nuts they really dont care anything about you. Why not come in when they are asleep..............should be ok around 2-5.30am 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post infinity11 Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 just wait until someone starts telling the women about the other women then the fun really begins! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanLaew Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 I rented a service apartment at a hotel for years and the girls who visited me were definitely tarts. The only problem was they made the girls working the front desk (who were not tarts) very uncomfortable. But as it was also a businessman's hotel there were tarts in and out all the time. Some how the OP must think he is exceptional in that women enter and leave his rented condo. Answer to his vexation: No one really cares. Yup, although the front desk girls at my apartment weren't too bothered (although the solitary raging queen on their staff looked at me like I was dogshit). Funnily enough, they treated my gorgeous, regular out-call masseuse like she was the queen bee. However, one night when I brought back three girls... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanLaew Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 just wait until someone starts telling the women about the other women then the fun really begins! I recall a few months back someone posting on this very matter. He started dating a 'nice girl' (I guess) and after a few visits, someone on the condo staff bent her ear about his priors. So, regardless if the OP owns his condo, if he is in the market for a long-term relationship with a 'nice girl', he better start bonking the ho's in the hot-sheet palaces or ST rooms. I think the first responding post just about covered that! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
infinity11 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) there are many angles to the gossiping thing i recently decided it's great i am not gay and don't bring different guys home frequently that way if they were to gossip about me 'that guy brings lots of diff gal's home,' it feels perfectly natural and healthy (no gay bashing meant here) Edited June 21, 2014 by infinity11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post daoyai Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) It is not the Security Guards you should be concerned of too much. You should be concerned, and be considerate, of your fellow residents (Tenants/Owners) every time you bring a girlfriend to the condo. I live in a condo (Owner). Frankly, we as residents (Tenants/Owners) would frown upon any resident who brings "short-time" girlfriends home. Why do I get the feeling that your frown is more less permanent? A bit of perfumed eye candy on the lift or lobby gets a smile from me. Edited June 21, 2014 by daoyai 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GuestHouse Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 The OP has failed to recognise an opportunity to outsource some of his angst. He need not trouble himself at all whether the women he brings back are [as he puts it himself] 'tarts' or 'friends', respectable or not. The Thai security and condo staff can work that out for themselves with a near zero error between their conclusion and reality. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
infinity11 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) i thought i should tell everyone i bring gals home for english lessons like they would believe that i think we need a 'creative responses to gossiping thread for farnag guys in thailand' or how to nip this in the bud the truth is you never know exactly what is said to whom and why what a great world this would be if everyone minded their own business i do notice the gals that care and like me dont give a hoot what others say or at least it doesn't stop them DON'T GET ME STARTED --- OOOOPS TOO LATE Edited June 21, 2014 by infinity11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post krisb Posted June 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2014 Stop worrying so much. The guards are males, they understand. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) Just not the done thing old chap. What he says, respectable men don't take women back to their rooms at any time, day or night. A respectable Thai woman wouldn't visit a man's room alone either. Not to mention, If you took a Thai girl back to your room, and you didn't have her top off in about ten seconds, she would be wondering what was wrong with you too! Edited June 21, 2014 by AnotherOneAmerican 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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