Why have all my Thai girlfriends been so amicable then?

[ppmacready]

I only have praise for Thai girls!

If an uneducated peasant girl, can get a 5 or 10 million baht house bought and paid for in 2-5 years by any means necessary.

Good Luck to her.

It took me 30 years!

I have lived here nearly 18 years.

I've never had a serious problem with any Thai girl.

Except maybe trying to get rid of them!

I generally have felt that I'm taking care of another child, not dealing with someone who is supposed to be an adult, educationally and emotionally.

I've always lived with them 24-7

The longest relationship I had was 7 very, very happy years.

Anything I have put in their name I have intended for them, and I have never expected or demanded it back.

I've agreed 'pocket money' for them, where applicable.

I've never lied to them about the relationship.

And never promised them anything I would not deliver.

I've always been firm and fair.

I've never been physically attacked by any.girl.

After studying Thai culture, I immediately understood it was a marvellous male chauvinist culture, designed by men for men.

So how can you lose?

Its virtually impossible!

Your holding ALL the cards!

I understood I was nothing special, but a worth while opportunity for certain types of women. Probably no longer acceptable to Thai men.

I believe bar girls can make very good partners, especially if you have a high libido.

The problem is finding a 'special' bar girl.

My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6.

And its a lot more fun looking for her there, than in a mall for a poor shop assistant.

The only PROMISE I give is, If I'm happy, I guarantee you will be happy.

And if your not, please leave.

The bottom line I feel, is if you can’t thrive and prosper in Thailand with women, you don’t understand how the game works. And could be next in line to be the village idiot.

Edited June 21, 2014 by CharlieH
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[marko kok prong]

How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

[David48]

If the take out message from the OP is that 'he loves Thai Girls'

I have to concur ... I love Thai Girls

... and two little 1/2 Thai boys ...

.

[Carib]

[ppmacready]

How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

As always, we can see lots of thought goes into your replies.

And you read it to the end. Seriously, well done!

You were obviously a high achiever at school.

And you have another post notched up, 1776

But you didn't answer the question.

[marko kok prong]

How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

As always, we can see lots of thought goes into your replies.

And you read it to the end. Seriously, well done!

You were obviously a high achiever at school.

And you have another post notched up, 1776

But you didn't answer the question.

But i think i did.

[mrtoad]

OP has More repeats than truevisions

[ppmacready]

If the take out message from the OP is that 'he loves Thai Girls'

I have to concur ... I love Thai Girls

... and two little 1/2 Thai boys ...

.

I 'adore' Thai girls they are my 'reason to live'.

I treat them as Princess's' whilst they tow the line.

And to be honest, Ive always been treated like a 'king'.

They have made the past 18 years in Thailand, a bachelors dream come true.

Although I had a pretty good crack in the UK living with 2 women!

Although I do advise if you really want a married life, get a girl from Fillys and bring her here.

There culture because of there religion, is far more conducive to making it work long term.

See the difference on comments on the Thai and Filipino forums.

Clearly there is a difference and its by a huge percentage, when it comes to long term successful relationships.

Being successful in Thailand is more about ,if you have retained your sense of humour , your sanity and most of your wealth.

[ppmacready]

How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

As always, we can see lots of thought goes into your replies.

And you read it to the end. Seriously, well done!

You were obviously a high achiever at school.

And you have another post notched up, 1776

But you didn't answer the question.

But i think i did.

Good.

As I tell my daughter its all about being a 'can' kind of person.

Not I 'can't'.

You tried.

Well done.

[Costas2008]

OP, you are a good catch.

Good in paying the girls, good in caring about them, good in being truthful to them.

This is what Thai girls, and girls all over the world need, and you are a good provider.

The only thing, be aware that someday a girl, more clever than you, will take you to the cleaners, as they did with many others.

Hope that never happens to you.

[Carib]

OP has More repeats than truevisions

It is all about feeling insecure really, the bigger the stories the more insecure one feels.

[chrisinth]

i was actually believing this was going to be a good thread reading the OP.

Up until the line:

"My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6".

Looks like just another windup.............................

[ppmacready]

OP, you are a good catch.

Good in paying the girls, good in caring about them, good in being truthful to them.

This is what Thai girls, and girls all over the world need, and you are a good provider.

The only thing, be aware that someday a girl, more clever than you, will take you to the cleaners, as they did with many others.

Hope that never happens to you.

Thank you for your kind words.

Its a chauvinistic culture designed by men for me.

How can you lose?

I never hope.

I plan.

Most guys don't plan ahead.

That's why they don't have private medical insurance or a private pension plan.

Bare in mind if your the same age and share the same culture,a relationship only has a 50% chance of working out anyway.

A 25 year age gap, her dubious occupation, cultural differences, an enforced educationally backward understanding of how the real world works.

Your chances of it working longer than 5 years are very low giving it 'your' very best shot.( I'm including buying a house in 'her' name!)

Holding a relationship together is hard work. Something the Thais are not well known for.

If you have a successful happy relationship for 10 years in Thailand with any women, any age, from any occupation.

I'd politely suggest you have had a fair crack of the whip and you should of have had your moneys worth!

​A plan in case the relationship fails is practical and prudent.

I'm asked often,how I managed to retire so young in Thailand.

​My answer is I've never paid for a divorce.

I watch as the guy works out how long he could live in Thailand on his wife's share of the settlement and then it dawns on him!

'Ave a great weekend.

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[ppmacready]

i was actually believing this was going to be a good thread reading the OP.

Up until the line:

"My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6".

Looks like just another windup.............................

No windup.

We all have 'lucky' friends who have married working girls and its worked. ( so far!)

I believe they were 'lucky'.

I'm sure they are not staying together just to 'prove me ' wrong.

I would add my friends who have made a success of this type of relationship are not the 'doormat' types.

[Soutpeel]

OP has More repeats than truevisions

Reincarnation of WUS, or Scottbkk

[Gringogazzer]

How's your village doing,since you left then?Regarding your last line.

As always, we can see lots of thought goes into your replies.

And you read it to the end. Seriously, well done!

You were obviously a high achiever at school.

And you have another post notched up, 1776

But you didn't answer the question.

What is the question???

All I read (twice) is a pamphlet on how to be a sugar daddy.

We're all leant on because we bring the bulk of the money to the relationship. But I read on here that many have working partners & are the sole income.

My question is, when does a leaflet become a pamphlet????

[snottgoblin]

Tales from The Bridge

Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app

[benalibina]

I wonder after reading your OP, why you ask a question in the threadtitle.

[Globalist]

"If an uneducated peasant girl, can get a 5 or 10 million baht house bought and paid for in 2-5 years by any means necessary. Good Luck to her."

It's often implied on TV that uneducated peasant girls are remarkably smart, but couldn't it just as well be the case that the "farang" in question is remarkably stupid..?

(General comment, not directed to the OP)

Edited June 21, 2014 by Globalist

[choochoo]

i was actually believing this was going to be a good thread reading the OP.

Up until the line:

"My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6".

Looks like just another windup.............................

SpeciAL bargirls................lol.

Also one doesnt need high libido to deal with bargirls. Bargirls are not in it for the sexx.................lol.

[cgphuket]

Agree completely with OP. Never any drama and never lost a baht in over a dozen relationships (ranging from a few months to several years). The people who complain about gold diggers or getting screwed over either didn't know what they were getting into, or tried to play games with people way more qualified than them. I think most of us get what we deserve...but your mileage may vary.

[wow64]

Come on champ same story

Sent from my c64

[ppmacready]

"If an uneducated peasant girl, can get a 5 or 10 million baht house bought and paid for in 2-5 years by any means necessary. Good Luck to her."

It's often implied on TV that uneducated peasant girls are remarkably smart, but couldn't it just as well be the case that the "farang" in question is remarkably stupid..?

(General comment, not directed to the OP)

I totally agree with you.

The guy crying in his beer, that she took the house and car made his own bed!

[benalibina]

"If an uneducated peasant girl, can get a 5 or 10 million baht house bought and paid for in 2-5 years by any means necessary. Good Luck to her."

It's often implied on TV that uneducated peasant girls are remarkably smart, but couldn't it just as well be the case that the "farang" in question is remarkably stupid..?

(General comment, not directed to the OP)

I totally agree with you.

The guy crying in his beer, that she took the house and car made his own bed!

Simplistic statement.

[ppmacready]

i was actually believing this was going to be a good thread reading the OP.

Up until the line:

"My friends have had a great deal of luck in Soi 6".

Looks like just another windup.............................

SpeciAL bargirls................lol.

Also one doesnt need high libido to deal with bargirls. Bargirls are not in it for the sexx.................lol.

My friends who get their girlfriends from soi 6, without exception, 'ALWAYS' tell me the girl is 'special'!

I agree you only need a 'brain' with a C+ level of education to adequately deal with a Thai girl.

Generally I have found working girls 'do' have a higher libido than 'normal' girls.( Which is an ingredient I need in a relationship to make it work.)

A trait which helped many choose this profession.

Some working girls do enjoy their work, contrary to popular belief on this site.

I'm amazed that the good looking young guys that come here are prepared to 'pay' for it!

I assume the culture in the west is slowly changing and the guys understand one way or another,they have to pay for it anyway!

Certainly I would of preferred to have spent my youth here, instead of Ibiza and Corfu.

[JLCrab]

With apologies to Dennis Wilson, Billy Preston, Joe Cocker, etc.

I am so beautiful

To me

I am so beautiful

To me

Can't you see

I'm everything I hope for

I'm everything I need

I am so beautiful to me

I am so beautiful to me

Edited June 21, 2014 by JLCrab

[benalibina]

With apologies to Dennis Wilson, Billy Preston, Joe Cocker, etc.

I am so beautiful

To me

I am so beautiful

To me

Can't you see

I'm everything I hope for

I'm everything I need

I am so beautiful to me

I am so beautiful to me

Carly Simon...rings a bell.......you're so vain....

[Carib]

I am so great....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIL8RM_IWNY

Edited June 21, 2014 by Carib

[TheFishman1]

Wow living here and finding poor girl that needs money what a nice guy. His last comment about SoI 6 pity full

[chrisinth]

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Wow living here and finding poor girl that needs money what a nice guy. His last comment about SoI 6 pity full

Still, it could be Soi 6 in Nakhon Werdafukisdat as he wasn't specific about location.

They may be into knitting, have bridge clubs and that in the afternoons instead of the activities in Soi Yotsak..........................