Can't get rid of crazy bar girl please help..

[samran]

You should re title this thread 'My life as a doormat'.

[MJP]

Could have been the OP's dress code.......... alt=whistling.gif>

Heheh.. to be honest I'm far from being rich and always tell everyone that I'm a student with a limited budget. Just happened to be a good offseason deal for qute a nice and big hotel on Agoda..

I don't dress like the typical tourist with a Singha tank top, shorts and flip flops. I usually wear a shirt and long jeans

Not the first time this has happened in Thailand .

Look for another Hotel and change your sim.

I can imagine.. that's the first good advice.

You don't pay for sex. You pay them to leave. Bargirls 101.

Aye, very true.

Wasn't it Nigel Mansell who famously quoted something like that?

'I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to F off in the morning'. Now that's a real man.

Charlie Sheen I think.

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[Tywais]

'Cookierun or something' You've blown your cover!

I had actually heard of this game before on this forum isn't it something that all Thai girls play all the time?

The shoe will drop when she approaches you with a 200,000 baht phone tab.

[mcfish]

Thats shocking! You really paid 200bht for a bowl of noodles?

[transam]

Thats shocking! You really paid 200bht for a bowl of noodles?

Some pay more for a beer.................

[Shurup]

Sounds like a hilltribe girl, not taking a shower won't make a difference.

Try to pay her to <deleted> off, change the hotel and sim, if all fails, buy a bus ticket (one ticket!!) and tell her you have to leave city.

[arthurwait]

Hotel doesn't have security ?

Oh <deleted> if this is real she is a drug addicted prostitute who will leach off you until you pay. Pay her to go that's how it works. Bar girls lie, this one is a drug addict who needs money,she was never giving you it for free.

Either throw her out yourself or get hotel security too or you can keep putting up with this until her dealer and loan shark and their mates turn up.

[MrWorldwide]

Even in Pattaya I only pay 40 baht for a bowl of noodles and the cheap charlies on this board slam me for spending too much and pushing up prices down at Coconut Bar. I know fellas - if you can't grow it in your backyard it should never cost more than 20 baht, right ? 40 baht is for suckers and two-week millionaires.

[losworld]

Hotel doesn't have security ?

Oh <deleted> if this is real she is a drug addicted prostitute who will leach off you until you pay. Pay her to go that's how it works. Bar girls lie, this one is a drug addict who needs money,she was never giving you it for free.

Either throw her out yourself or get hotel security too or you can keep putting up with this until her dealer and loan shark and their mates turn up.

Yes my guess the odd behavior could be the result of yaba or something. If I was the poster I would be very nice to her and take her motorbike to do her nails, hair, etc. then sneak away to get some food go to hotel check out change hotel not answer calls or change sim. Ohterwise she could go nuts and make a scene plus you could get big trouble if she is carrying any yaba etc. Oh yeah give her 500 baht to do nails, etc. and she can keep the change give her enough to go away.

Edited July 5, 2014 by losworld

[Cypress Hill]

It's amazing what bad decisions are made when you think you will be getting a freebie.

However there are often consequences as the op has found out.

It's amazing how something so many men take for granted - sex with attractive, willing and equally-interested women who don't present you with a bill - is regarded as some kind of mythical Grail that very few men can attain without ending up broke and destitute.

I only started hearing this "you pay for it one way or another" when I arrived here 5 years ago.

Still, I suppose when you hear some posters publicly air their fantasies about their newly-acquired teenage stepdaughters' backside in skin tight jeans, you can understand why so many foreign men in Thailand have failed so spectacularly with women.

[transam]

It's amazing what bad decisions are made when you think you will be getting a freebie.

However there are often consequences as the op has found out.

It's amazing how something so many men take for granted - sex with attractive, willing and equally-interested women who don't present you with a bill - is regarded as some kind of mythical Grail that very few men can attain without ending up broke and destitute.

I only started hearing this "you pay for it one way or another" when I arrived here 5 years ago.

Still, I suppose when you hear some posters publicly air their fantasies about their newly-acquired teenage stepdaughters' backside in skin tight jeans, you can understand why so many foreign men in Thailand have failed so spectacularly with women.

Many here, including me, have failed with women in any part of the world, not just LOS......

[jacky54]

Tell her you are gay and HIV+ or try insulting her family.

[Cypress Hill]

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It's amazing what bad decisions are made when you think you will be getting a freebie.

However there are often consequences as the op has found out.

It's amazing how something so many men take for granted - sex with attractive, willing and equally-interested women who don't present you with a bill - is regarded as some kind of mythical Grail that very few men can attain without ending up broke and destitute.

I only started hearing this "you pay for it one way or another" when I arrived here 5 years ago.

Still, I suppose when you hear some posters publicly air their fantasies about their newly-acquired teenage stepdaughters' backside in skin tight jeans, you can understand why so many foreign men in Thailand have failed so spectacularly with women.

Many here, including me, have failed with women in any part of the world, not just LOS......

That was kinda my point

[MrWorldwide]

Tell her you are gay and HIV+ or try insulting her family.

Funny right up to the point where she says 'No problem - same-same me !' Not much laughter from that point on, methinks.

[MrWorldwide]

Tell her you are gay and HIV+ or try insulting her family.

Why does he need to be gay to be HIV+ ? Tad homophobic, are we ?

[soistranger]

My trick is goto test a rental moto out and go for an hour she wont wait

[arthurwait]

Tell her you are gay and HIV+ or try insulting her family.

Why does he need to be gay to be HIV+ ? Tad homophobic, are we ?

Not what he said.

[Pralaad]

OP , I think you only have 1 option , which is to pay her for sex and all the problems might go away

[arthurwait]

It's amazing what bad decisions are made when you think you will be getting a freebie.

However there are often consequences as the op has found out.

It's amazing how something so many men take for granted - sex with attractive, willing and equally-interested women who don't present you with a bill - is regarded as some kind of mythical Grail that very few men can attain without ending up broke and destitute.

I only started hearing this "you pay for it one way or another" when I arrived here 5 years ago.

Still, I suppose when you hear some posters publicly air their fantasies about their newly-acquired teenage stepdaughters' backside in skin tight jeans, you can understand why so many foreign men in Thailand have failed so spectacularly with women.

Think it's mostly to do with the fact that this girl is a prostitute, not a normal girl.

[GaoYuk]

Pay for her hair to be chemically straightend, minimum 4 hours in the salon then you quietly move to the other side of town..or province..and don't be a pussy!

[spidermike007]

Just man up, and get your life back, sounds like you have allowed your life to get away from you. You allow an insane youngster (the maturity of a 12 year old) to assume control of your life. Presumably you do not like anything about her, except the sex. All bar girls expect something. Nearly any woman expects something in return. All are looking for either front end deals, or back end deals. With the front end deals you know what to expect. A price has been specified. With the back end deals (she is not asking me to pay her for sex) you do not know what to expect. A car, a house, something is expected. Get some courage. Do the right thing. Free yourself of an insane, immature, petulant, spoiled, freak of a partner. Wake up. Decide to make your fellow men proud of you, rather than ashamed.

Spidermike

Chaiyaphum, Thailand

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[slipperylobster]

Your freebee is adding up...

[MJP]

Your freebee is adding up...

OP needs to admit to himself he's using prostitutes.

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[AnotherOneAmerican]

Did everyone else not notice ......... he knows her weight, 40Kg.

[MJP]

Did everyone else not notice ......... he knows her weight, 40Kg.

What does this mean old boy?

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[wprime]

It's time to change your number and go to another city.

[slipperylobster]

Did everyone else not notice ......... he knows her weight, 40Kg.

What does this mean old boy?

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For a girl in that line of work, that simply means it was a slow night.

Edited July 5, 2014 by slipperylobster

[ttthailand]

Two suggestions.

1. Pay her to leave as this is what is done to bar girls and is perhaps what she is really after.

2. Tell her your jealous girlfriend is coming soon.

[slipperylobster]

It also might help to tell her that you are so fed up with her antics, that you deemed it wise to seek advice from the Pros at TV. That ought to get her thinking either one of two things.

1. You are completely out of your mind.

2. 300 patrons of TV are going to storm in at any second, and escort her, unceremoniously, out of the door.

Edited July 5, 2014 by slipperylobster

[AnotherOneAmerican]

Did everyone else not notice ......... he knows her weight, 40Kg.

What does this mean old boy?

WhereuStay, recent forum troll, always had posts including the girls weight.