I have recently ended a relationship with a good Thai girl, she never asked for money, was smart, well educated and has a great job in the telecommunications industry. I ended the relationship for one reason...I met a another girl...who became my gik...and the sex with her was just mind blowing. I have now moved house and the gik has moved in also. But therein lies the problem. At my age, late forties, mad sex is great two or three times a week, however the new gik is smashing me to bits every night. I don't have any erectile issues....but fatigue, sleep deprevation and a bad back are killing me.

Any tips for coping with a live in nympho who is half your age?

buy her an electrical/battery appliance

When I was working offshore I went the electrical appliance route to keep my girl happy when i was away.

Eventually I had to take it off her as the dental bills were kiling me.

I'll get my coat.

You need an Iron Man suit like Tony Stark's.

You need an Iron Man suit like Tony Stark's.

Yes maybe science can find a solution...clone myself perhaps...

Thanks for the humour, but actually this isn't a pub talk post. There is that saying "be careful of what you wish for". Well I now have it. And just 8 days later I am burnt to a crisp. The only saving grace is that she heads off to work each morning and I get the day time to recover. I am crazy about her...too crazy in fact...I feel like I have won the lottery every time she smiles at me...but I am fearful that I am just too long in the tooth to keep up.

It's a horrible feeling when you just want her so much but the body is fried. Youth is wasted on the young.

Edited September 9, 201411 yr by Bulldozer Dawn

Som nam na.

try thinking with your big head instead of letting your little head rule what you do. Understandable when you are younger and inexperienced with life in general but when older men do it it is an ego trip at best, the smart ones are those that have relationships built on love and trust in each other, not on the sex or the fact the girl is young enough to be their daughter. Too many farangs let their d*ck do all the thinking for them, pretty pathetic really, all the smart ones did that when they were at an age that allowed them to be able to actually fulfil the deeds, you have made your bed, accept it or buy her a toy that doesnt suffer from old age.

Tell her you have a headache.

Yep...go back to the "good" one.....

Sounds like the frying pan wasn't hot enough for you - now you're on fire.....also sounds like you better stand up and deliver or she'll have a gik or two of her own. Where did you meet this "new" girl....one can only imagine.....

Wait.....your phone's ringing - better answer it - it's Karma calling.....

Many good guys on here dying/hoping/waiting/looking to find a good one and treat them right and you go blow off a good one and hurt her so it will be a long time if not forever before she trusts a farang again....nice job.....

Edited September 9, 201411 yr by pgrahmm

I hope the post is a troll.

I just find it so sad when I see anyone leaving a decent girl for a "great sex".

It is your loss long term.

OP, you should contact member name whereyoustay. He has vast experience and expertise on the subject

No problem -- have fun while it lasts. Good girls are maybe over-rated and boring just by reading the boring stuff all the guys who claim to have the good girls seem to always write.

I could tag-team on Tuesdays and Thursdays.

Blimey, wish I had found a bird like that when I was in my forties.......... ..........

If you can't handle it OP, hand her over to one of the other 40+ on here and let me see if I can fulfill her needs for you.

Interesting how you guys are telling me I have made a mistake. My good Thai girl was...well...good. I never had any problems with her but the sex was only ok. Yes...I changed girlfriends becase of the great sex. My new girl has a job, but no degree, and she is (so far) a pleasure to have in my home, she is loving and cleans my place every moring. I was comfortable in my old relationship...but not happy. Now I am very happy. And yes much of that happiness comes from the great sex. But why have the moral police posters arrived already. When you have worked hard all your life...why is it wrong to make choices that make you happy. Perhaps those choices and petulant and churlish, but they were made on the basis of seeking joy.

I have the same problem with my gik. Maybe we can introduce them to each other, let them go at it while you and I go lawn bowling. Later, over bowls of warm oatmeal, we can watch the video they made and exchange high fives.

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Interesting how you guys are telling me I have made a mistake. My good Thai girl was...well...good. I never had any problems with her but the sex was only ok. Yes...I changed girlfriends becase of the great sex. My new girl has a job, but no degree, and she is (so far) a pleasure to have in my home, she is loving and cleans my place every moring. I was comfortable in my old relationship...but not happy. Now I am very happy. And yes much of that happiness comes from the great sex. But why have the moral police posters arrived already. When you have worked hard all your life...why is it wrong to make choices that make you happy. Perhaps those choices and petulant and churlish, but they were made on the basis of seeking joy.

it's called envy,,, let it slide.

Interestingly, somebody did a study of the biggest regrets elderly men had : overwhelming reply was 'should have shagged more gals"

My best advice is to marry her, that usually put a stop to the active sex life!

wondering how many more posts it will last till this ends either closed or in the Pub...

Let me see if I have this straight?

You just dumped "a good Thai girl, who never asked for money, was smart, well educated and has a great job in the telecommunications industry," and now you're on TVF asking for advice because your new girl wants to have mad sex more often than you can keep up?

It's hard not to believe that your primary motive in posting this wasn't to gloat and brag about your exploits.

Please consider whether a good therapist might serve you better than a good vibrator.

Edited September 9, 201411 yr by Gecko123

OP, tell her to start without you.

Usually wears them down a bit............................

Yeah right, ok, I see.

Moved to pub.

For a few posters suggesting it's an envy.

I just find it ironic that you complain about Western "materialistic" girls yet here in Thailand you are acting like schmucks.

Humans are made differently and some are more sexual than others. Maybe she was overworked or stressed? Maybe if actually had a job here too or ever worse, got sick you would understand the point.

I think dragging another human being into a relationship then complaining about sex while seeing another woman on the side reeks of moral bankruptcy.

BTW, I fully agree that sex gives the man a healthy life, happiness and all that. I just don't think you should waste other people's time for your own selfish reasons.

Like I said.... western women probably figured that out much faster. This is why you are here.

Interesting how you guys are telling me I have made a mistake. My good Thai girl was...well...good. I never had any problems with her but the sex was only ok. Yes...I changed girlfriends becase of the great sex. My new girl has a job, but no degree, and she is (so far) a pleasure to have in my home, she is loving and cleans my place every moring. I was comfortable in my old relationship...but not happy. Now I am very happy. And yes much of that happiness comes from the great sex. But why have the moral police posters arrived already. When you have worked hard all your life...why is it wrong to make choices that make you happy. Perhaps those choices and petulant and churlish, but they were made on the basis of seeking joy.

OP: the only purpose I see in your post is bragging about how handsum you are and how you manage to get this nympho girl into your bed... and to cover your bragging you invent a story about not being able to cope with her... this is pure Kindergarten level bullshit and of course deserves no other replies than

- buy her a TGAU

- let her have a vibrator

- hand them over to somebody without erectile disfunctions

- let her have a secondary lover while you are at work

- etc etc...

Kindergarten bullshit

For a few posters suggesting it's an envy.

I just find it ironic that you complain about Western "materialistic" girls yet here in Thailand you are acting like schmucks.

Humans are made differently and some are more sexual than others. Maybe she was overworked or stressed? Maybe if actually had a job here too or ever worse, got sick you would understand the point.

I think dragging another human being into a relationship then complaining about sex while seeing another woman on the side reeks of moral bankruptcy.

BTW, I fully agree that sex gives the man a healthy life, happiness and all that. I just don't think you should waste other people's time for your own selfish reasons.

Like I said.... western women probably figured that out much faster. This is why you are here.

I didn't waste the good girls time. I ended the relationship, she is now free to move on and find a "good man". We are still friends, I helped her move and set up a new home..and now I am focussing on having as much mad sex as possible. What is wrong with that...making choices to keep one's own self happy. I chose great sex over a comfortable and predictable suburban life. Was that a stupid choice, perhaps. Will the sex cool with the new girl...certainly. But I am old enough and wise enough to know that if I didn't make my recent choices, I would have had many regrets in the future. Perhaps I will have new regrets nonetheless, however the good Budha tells us that all permanence is illusion anyway.

Edited September 9, 201411 yr by Bulldozer Dawn

Interesting how you guys are telling me I have made a mistake. My good Thai girl was...well...good. I never had any problems with her but the sex was only ok. Yes...I changed girlfriends becase of the great sex. My new girl has a job, but no degree, and she is (so far) a pleasure to have in my home, she is loving and cleans my place every moring. I was comfortable in my old relationship...but not happy. Now I am very happy. And yes much of that happiness comes from the great sex. But why have the moral police posters arrived already. When you have worked hard all your life...why is it wrong to make choices that make you happy. Perhaps those choices and petulant and churlish, but they were made on the basis of seeking joy.

OP: the only purpose I see in your post is bragging about how handsum you are and how you manage to get this nympho girl into your bed... and to cover your bragging you invent a story about not being able to cope with her... this is pure Kindergarten level bullshit and of course deserves no other replies than

- buy her a TGAU

- let her have a vibrator

- hand them over to somebody without erectile disfunctions

- let her have a secondary lover while you are at work

- etc etc...

Kindergarten bullshit

BulldozerDawn:

Your post has little to do with Thailand or Thai women. Sex drive incompatability is a universal problem; solutions/suggestions on how to manage abound on Google. Only motive I can think of for posting here was to feed your ego.

I didn't waste the good girls time. I ended the relationship, she is now free to move on and find a "good man". We are still friends, I helped her move and set up a new home..and now I am focussing on having as much mad sex as possible. What is wrong with that...making choices to keep one's own self happy. I chose great sex over a comfortable and predictable suburban life. Was that a stupid choice, perhaps. Will the sex cool with the new girl...certainly. But I am old enough and wise enough to know that if I didn't make my recent choices, I would have had many regrets in the future. Perhaps I will have new regrets nonetheless, however the good Budha tells us that all permanence is illusion anyway.

No, you are not, otherwise you would not be bragging around here...

Not bragging at all. In fact if you read my OP it is a plea for help...

Not bragging at all. In fact if you read my OP it is a plea for help...

Put a pic of your GF both here in TV and in craigslist... and if she IS as hot as you say, you will have enough guys lining up to "help" you...

Kindergarten level (Edit to add)... even low level for TV Pub section...

Edited September 9, 201411 yr by Swiss1960