AlexDorneles Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Hello, I would like to go a background check on a women to know if she was previously or is currently married, plus address and any other information that might be available. Any one can recommend a service? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fish fingers Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Maybe email Stickman, if he's still actively involved in Stickman Bangkok (has he sold it?) He offers services like that BTW are you thinking of marrying a lady you dont trust? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Thongkorn Posted September 26, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 26, 2014 Try the Amphur if she will let you 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RBOP Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 There's a few Private Investigation services advertising these services in Thailand. Just Google it. Its not cheap. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Hi why do that if you can't trust her now then just go to the next mago on the tree and get a new mango look mate if you have to do things like that then she is no good you no when a thai woman lies she opens her mouth. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davidmann Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 If you need to do this best just walk away why waste your money 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post wolfmanjack Posted September 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 27, 2014 Maybe he is just thinking with his big head instead of his little head and doing his due diligence. There are a lot of women that can be very convincing because they actually believe their own lies. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post buck99 Posted September 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 27, 2014 Ronald Reagan wisely stated "We will trust but verify". I think that is smart in all aspects of life. I would never enter into any business deal with out doing some back ground checks and that especially includes marriage. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnlandy Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Ronald Reagan wisely stated "We will trust but verify". I think that is smart in all aspects of life. I would never enter into any business deal with out doing some back ground checks and that especially includes marriage. And especially here in the realm... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poweratradio Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Tell her you need prove and tell her if she wants you then she has to go with your to all the check points to make the confirmations or not. If she cries foul then tell her it is game over and let her watch you walk away. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimbolai Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 You have to be crazy to enter into any contractual obligation like marriage without due diligence. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brubakertx Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Better safe, than sorry! I heard soooo many horror stories in Thailand. Have to be careful! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerard052 Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Maybe he is just thinking with his big head instead of his little head and doing his due diligence. There are a lot of women that can be very convincing because they actually believe their own lies. I know I married one of them. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanthralak 1 Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Well I see many people are prepared to offer advice on what to do. However nobody, but one has offered any advice on where he can find a Private Dick to dig into her history and find if she is in fact single and with or without dependents. Most Thai ladies think one boyfriend isn't enough. These Thai ladies are very attractive, that's why, most of us Farang's have traveled half way around the world to be with them. We don't really want to believe our dearest and sweetest Tiirak could be telling a load of half truth's. When something feels that warm and silky next to you, when you wake up in the morning, its very easy to let the little head do all the thinking. A lot better than that lump of lard, you have woken up with, for the last 20+ years. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frank0424 Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 If you need to do this best just walk away why waste your money Exactly. You are basically saying you dont trust her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ripstanley Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Tell her you need prove and tell her if she wants you then she has to go with your to all the check points to make the confirmations or not. If she cries foul then tell her it is game over and let her watch you walk away. As long as you submit to the same scrutiny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poweratradio Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Tell her you need prove and tell her if she wants you then she has to go with your to all the check points to make the confirmations or not. If she cries foul then tell her it is game over and let her watch you walk away. As long as you submit to the same scrutiny. And that reason would be??? If your referring to myself???? I do not have these issues!!! Happily married 5 years to my Thai Princess ( New Cdn Citizen) and I'm a retired aviation lawyer who did my due diligence not only with her but with her family as well. Criminal record checks for all ...party. Police and monks in attendance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whaleboneman Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 Hi why do that if you can't trust her now then just go to the next mago on the tree and get a new mango look mate if you have to do things like that then she is no good you no when a thai woman lies she opens her mouth. When a Thai woman speaks the truth, she also opens her mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elliss Posted September 28, 2014 Share Posted September 28, 2014 (edited) Try the Amphur if she will let you I know a guy, had a local solicitor do a check on his darling at the local Amphur, It turned out the err, lady had a foreign husband . Not exspensive , imo money well spent , and should be a essential requirement. Tit Edited September 28, 2014 by elliss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shoeless1963 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 As someone else has suggested here, quite a few digs and jibes but very little in the way of supporting advice. For the OP, my guidance would be as follows... the law changed here in Thailand about five years (?) ago and now even if a lady has been married - or indeed still is! - she can use 'Miss' instead of 'Mrs' on her ID card. Nothing new there of course, that has been the case elsewhere (e.g. the UK) for decades. However - and here I do speak from personal experience - it can be hard to get proof even when in Thailand to track whether a lady (or for that matter a guy) has legally married in Thailand. I got caught by someone who claimed to be unmarried but she'd changed her name in Thailand three times - OK, again, that is legal and seemingly not uncommon - and the records didn't quite match up at Bang Rak (the amphur where we went). Turned out she'd had a Thai husband several years before. That should have warned me off... ...but the clincher you can't resolve is if she has married overseas. I ended up applying for a visa for said lady above and was somewhat surprised when it was rejected on the grounds that she was already married to a Kiwi in the UK! As the UK marriage was never registered back here in Thailand there was of course no record of it on her file on the computer system. It took me some effort to track the marriage down in the UK and two years to find the Kiwi gentleman concerned... and I strongly suspect there may be others (perhaps the US) but obviously at that point time to hit the road. Summary - and apologies if I overshared - is that there is no effective way of ensuring that the person concerned doesn't have an unregistered overseas marriage and we haven't even touched upon the subject of the tengan, or village ceremony, that seems to be standard in much of Eastern Thailand. Best you can do is check passport details for the former but as others have said, if you have concerns then you need to lay them out straight and the odds unfortunately are not in y(our) favour. Hope this helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil2 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Maybe he is just thinking with his big head instead of his little head and doing his due diligence. There are a lot of women that can be very convincing because they actually believe their own lies. And some girls switch IDs quite easily. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolfmanjack Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 Maybe he is just thinking with his big head instead of his little head and doing his due diligence. There are a lot of women that can be very convincing because they actually believe their own lies. I know I married one of them. I did too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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