YeahSiam Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I've just had an eye-opener of a discussion with my lady. It started with a little gossip about one of her friends who's just finished with her boyfriend after 18 months. My girl says her friend will find a new guy in no time because she's so hot. She's right. The girl is smokin. Anyhoo, while discussing their break up, I suggested that the guy, a falang, would be able to to find another girl in no time too because he's quite well-off but my lady said "Maybe hooker but not like my friend". I asked why she would say such a thing. She said "You guys think its just money but is only like that with hookers. Most Thai ladies like a man to look good and have nice body". Is this really the case? Is it just the working girls that are willing to turn a blind eye to the pear shape so many of us are in? Do hot Thai women really want hot men? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post SoiBiker Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 You're joking, right? Of course looks matter. And not just with Thai women, either. 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lust Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 This was an eye opener? Lol. Try and keep up man 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
namdocmai Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Money talks in Thailand. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post I Like Thai Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 If your lady's Hot friend went out with him already, does this then mean she was a hooker at the time. According to your lady's logic, this has to be the case. 22 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeahSiam Posted October 11, 2014 Author Share Posted October 11, 2014 This was an eye opener? Lol. Try and keep up man Well yeah in a way because if her friend liked hot guys, why was she with a man who was anything but? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post benalibina Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 The question however is......what did ur gfs comments, made you think about yourself. Looks or money ? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post gk10002000 Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 I think it is fair to say that Thai's do in general try to, and do appreciate others that keep their appearance up. How the girls manage to shower and wash and do their hair and dress in the little apartment rooms they share with one or two others constantly amazes me. Look at them in the airports when traveling and compare to some of the backpack foreign slobs that arrive. Gosh, how can that look make a good impression? 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ClutchClark Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 If your lady's Hot friend went out with him already, does this then mean she was a hooker at the time. According to your lady's logic, this has to be the case. Young naive women place looks above money, they quickly wizen up and all future "prospects" are based on income first. This is a universal truth. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeahSiam Posted October 11, 2014 Author Share Posted October 11, 2014 The question however is......what did ur gfs comments, made you think about yourself. Looks or money ? Hehehehe I score OK on both so I win a stay of execution........for now 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 If your lady's Hot friend went out with him already, does this then mean she was a hooker at the time. According to your lady's logic, this has to be the case. Young naive women place looks above money, they quickly wizen up and all future "prospects" are based on income first. This is a universal truth. Selfconsciousness and honesty are good traits of a person. Well done ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Cypress Hill Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 God, this is gonna run some. Take cover 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 The question however is......what did ur gfs comments, made you think about yourself. Looks or money ? Hehehehe I score OK on both so I win a stay of execution........for now For now........yes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeverSure Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 What me worry? I'm hansum ma'. (Helps to have a couple of thousand baht notes hanging out of the shirt pocket.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Godfree2 Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 I've just had an eye-opener of a discussion with my lady. It started with a little gossip about one of her friends who's just finished with her boyfriend after 18 months. My girl says her friend will find a new guy in no time because she's so hot. She's right. The girl is smokin. Anyhoo, while discussing their break up, I suggested that the guy, a falang, would be able to to find another girl in no time too because he's quite well-off but my lady said "Maybe hooker but not like my friend". I asked why she would say such a thing. She said "You guys think its just money but is only like that with hookers. Most Thai ladies like a man to look good and have nice body". Is this really the case? Is it just the working girls that are willing to turn a blind eye to the pear shape so many of us are in? Do hot Thai women really want hot men? Looks do matter, but not as much as you might think. Assuming you are not the Hunchback of Notre Dame or George Clooney (who just got married), looks are about 15-25% of the total equation. The only truly tough break for your friend would be if he was a short man (by Western standards). Women prefer tall men like men prefer larger breasts. With Asians still generally smaller than their Western counterparts, your friend could be "too short" in SoCal but in the acceptable range for most Thai girls. So what are the other factors? Confidence (the most important and at least 50% of the attractive equation) Style -- if your friend can take it a step up from the Farangs running around wearing Hawaiian shirts and flip-flops, he will make a better first impression. Science has shown that we (men and women) form opinions about one another within the first few seconds of an encounter. This is why clothing and color has placed such an important part of human history, especially in Asia. If your friend is getting complimented on his attire, he is doing it right. Fitness. A man should look and act like a man. Even an uglier man with some muscles is going to stand out against an average beanpole. Money. This one is more of a factor in Asia than in most Western nations. Of course, you will find gold diggers in every culture and for them money is 100% of the equation. Still, trying to buy her cheap street food and Tiger beers will only get you so far with a certain calibre of women. This is tricky because you shouldn't be buying gifts (watches, handbags, etc...) but you can't be cheap, either. In the West, many men find that they have the most success when they are completely broke, often during their college years, when they are banging co-eds on their urine-stained couches surrounded by empty budweiser cans.Is what your wife/Thai lady said true about her chances versus his? Yes, your wife is 100% correct. Any women outside of the Middle East can "get it" quicker than a man. All she has to do is check her ThaiFriendly, Tinder, OKCupid, ThaiCupid, etc... messages and maybe sending a suggestive semi-nude photo (which is hopefully not uploaded to the iCloud) for some guy to show up and give her some lovin' This is a product of Modern Feminism which aims to liberate womens' sexuality while limiting and constricting the sexual nature of men as much as possible. If some construction workers whistle at a girl in mini-dress, they are misoginistic, racist, whoremongering losers while if she has six margaritas and spends the night with a backpacker brah from a stag party, its liberating. By the way, some of these girls sign up for these Dating Apps every now and then just for the validation -- to see if they can still "get it." Other times, they throw in their Instragram or Facebook Page ID so that thirsty guys will "Like" or "Follow" them (which sometimes generates ad revenue for them). Your wife is also wrong Men dig beauty, chicks dig power. Of course a woman is going to tell you that all women want a man with a six-pack because, all things equal, they do. However, what she herself probably doesn't realize is how little that factor plays into the whole equations (again, assuming you are not morbidly obese). So while a man wants to date her attractive friend, it is for her beauty and not because of her Master's Degree, rental properties, fluency in four languages, has seen the Eiffel Tower, etc... On the flip side, these sorts of things will intrigue a woman. A sharply-dressed Farang who speaks conversational Thai and French, used to live in Paris, owns a surfshop and likes to DJ on weekends is not going to need a nice body to meet Thai women in the 7-9/10 range. That said, you should try to rid yourself of your pearshape for your own health. That's right, you should do it for YOU not HER. You are the prize and your health will most likely outlast any of your relationships. If it doesn't, well, then you're dead! 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Beetlejuice Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 (edited) To the OP: Your lady friend is absolutely right. Most middle to upper class Thai women would not consider having a relationship with a farang, unless the farang was extremely high status society wise, meaning, a prominent business man, a well known celebrity of some kind or a man of high status. The rest will usually only manage to get hooked up with the dregs of Thai society, the types we frequently see when out and about with Thai women that look like women of ill repute on their days off or the Thai middle age women that have the appearance of a retired bar girl. As regards having money, it all depends on what one would consider as being well off? Unless being extremely affluent, then it will more likely be a case of the farangs on mediocre budgets only being financially desirable to those of the underclasses of Thai society, who are more desperate, but as regarding being a viable proposition to Thai women of a more upmarket level, I think their chances are slim indeed as Thai society as a whole looks down on Thai women that are involved with farangs, even those who are considered as hansum man. Edited October 11, 2014 by Beetlejuice 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Godfree2 Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 To the OP: Your lady friend is absolutely right. Most middle to upper class Thai women would not consider having a relationship with a farang, unless the farang was extremely high status society wise, meaning, a prominent business man, a well known celebrity of some kind or a man of high status. The rest will usually only manage to get hooked up with the dregs of Thai society, the types we frequently see when out and about with Thai women that look like women of ill repute on their days off or the Thai middle age women that have the appearance of a retired bar girl. I generally agree with this statement. In fact, it is true around the world. Most Farang are dealing with a very small slice of the Thai pie, namely, bar girls or English teacher / English language groupies. This is still a minority of Thai society. Nevertheless, it is truly just a "Numbers Game." If a Farang focuses on self-improvement in all aspects of his life and religiously approaches and makes contact with Thai girls day and night, from Koh San Rd to the Thai suburbs whether or not he believes he "has a shot," he will be rewarded with an insane amount of LoSo, Mid-So and HiSo Thai punnany. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind and when a HiSo Thai girl sneaks over to your hotel or invites you out to the estate while hubby is away meeting the politicians, you too will believe. Now, getting a HiSo to tell her family that she is seeing a Farang -- totally different story. But the idea that they simply aren't interested/don't want to be bothered/are madly in love with their Thai men is bullocks. A parallel to this would be black guys in Scandinavia (I'm thinking of Sweden in particular). Now, Scandinavians are very progressive and of course, will trip over each other to tell you how terrible racism is and how they accept all people in their country. And it is true, although not widely known, that a black man (especially from the US or UK) could absolutely clean up in a town like Stockholm, Oslo or Helsinki. They are exotic and women want to see if "the grass is greener." But getting blondy to introduce you to daddy Hans? Fat chance! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drgoon Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Women prefer tall men like men prefer larger breasts. Only you guys who never got over breast feeding 555. I prefer small breasts, my wife is 34A, never going to be sagging around her belly button. However, I do very much like a pert little ass which she does have, what does that say about me Of course looks come into the equation. It is only part of what makes a partner attractive. I think women all over the world generally want the same thing, love, security and someone who will treat them well. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godfree2 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Of course looks come into the equation. It is only part of what makes a partner attractive. I think women all over the world generally want the same thing, love, security and someone who will treat them well. All you have to do is go to the Marriage and Divorce section of this forum to see that this is not true. Plenty a Western Beta Male has given love, security and good treatment only to have his kids and house taken and be threatened with death should he return. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farang000999 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Your "girl" sounds very crass and not very logical. (assuming she actually exists.. my guess is that the entire anecdote is a work of fiction) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAJIC Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 If your lady's Hot friend went out with him already, does this then mean she was a hooker at the time. According to your lady's logic, this has to be the case. Young naive women place looks above money, they quickly wizen up and all future "prospects" are based on income first. This is a universal truth. Looks don't last,depth of feeling and caring does! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 That said, you should try to rid yourself of your pearshape for your own health. That's right, you should do it for YOU not HER. You are the prize and your health will most likely outlast any of your relationships. If it doesn't, well, then you're dead! Welcome back Godfree2 . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClutchClark Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 If your lady's Hot friend went out with him already, does this then mean she was a hooker at the time. According to your lady's logic, this has to be the case. Young naive women place looks above money, they quickly wizen up and all future "prospects" are based on income first. This is a universal truth. Looks don't last,depth of feeling and caring does! Depth of feeling? Yah shore, you betcha. Thats it. ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post umbanda Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 (edited) Do you want an eye opener? OK....... In pursue of my Thai love, years ago, I found a beautiful and independent middle age woman on the Internet looking for "serious relationship" like myself. I fell in love at first sight when we met.. I am a lot older, no fit at all, and without money. No chance. Anyway, we become just platonic friends, also because we were living 3 hours driving away of each other. But, I really was in love, and one of the reasons was because she was sweet, sounds sincere and decent, and she is really very beautiful and fit. My doubts? Why she met me in first place? To make me fell in love? Was she for real? How I got over it? I posted a new profile on the same dating site, with a picture of a handsome younger and rich blue eyes guy looking just for fun and traveling high class. She responded, ready to travel with the guy anywhere even before meeting in person. She now is "happily" married with an older, fat farang...... That site with the handsome "play boy" brought me also a lot more surprises, and was very useful in find the truth about so many Thai women looking for "serious relationships"....some I met before...some teachers at my job too....married women...and more...more than I can imagine in my wildest dreams....And I like to dream. That's is why I am married again...for a while now, and very happy..but.... always ready for surprises. After so many years and scars.....I become a "realistic dreamer".... Edited October 11, 2014 by umbanda 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post neverdie Posted October 11, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2014 The question however is......what did ur gfs comments, made you think about yourself. Looks or money ? Hehehehe I score OK on both so I win a stay of execution........for now For now........yes. I'm ugly & poor but I've never had a problem getting hot broads, I suspect my massive penis and good personality have something to do with it ? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geronimo Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 In a country where "image: is everything, of course looks matter. Just look at the TV commercials. Beauty products are big here. Guess you haven't got much to do today! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 (edited) The Thai women are very image conscious...from the villages to the urban areas they are brought up in a beauty rewarded society....Add to the the TV ads & movie stars to further acclimate and enhance that....... Look at the slobs you see walking around Pattaya, Nana, Loi Kroh - people we would not want to be seen with let alone a self respecting Thai woman. BG's are obviously not self respecting women - they are really aware - and accept their place in society and get/judge/take/accept their men accordingly.... Thai women - like all women want a man they can be proud of in all situations...just like we like to have our gals admired they like their men to also be admired....It's not all looks, it's manners, caring, sharing, loving that build an entire persona....but looks, along with dress, cleanliness, grooming, hygene probably carry a good 85% of it......Thai's are very good about noticing subleties and forming opinions from there..... Edited October 12, 2014 by pgrahmm 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I have been playing around with Thai lady for 6 years now and I am not fit like I once was but I can pick up a thai I just need 1,000 thai bht and I am in be her a pro or a teacher the thai lady all she like is that you have money and can take care of her not all but about 99% do so your thai lady is way of the make mate are you new to thailand I think you are if you believe your thai like I have said all a long you no when a thai lady is lies she opens her month and I am good with that to because I lie now like a thai lady I have lean here the hard way but I have plenty of money and I am not going to give it all to a thai I will give her what I think is ok not what she what's me to like a thai would it is up to you . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 This should bring out the mysoginists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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