Got some news the other day that all my wifes postings of the crap I buy her and places I take her, made my mates wife jealous. Anyone have any experience with that happening? What would you do/say?

No, only of food she buys................

Places we've been maybe yes, things I have bought her.....no. Sounds like your missus likes to show off 'things' she has, a quality that I would find off putting....sorry.

E.g. We went to Rome and Paris, took them out shopping and they posted a pic of the stores they went to. I equate that to tourism post, I don't think that's to far from normal posting for a girl.

She always puts in her FB her most precious possession...............ME

That's their problem if they get jealous.

I don't see no harm in what your wife posts on her Facebook account.

No.

If you are talking about your wife posting piccies of you together at restaurants...eating having a good time, then thats nice. If you are talking about her posting piccies of the latest gold necklace in high definition......then, up to you, but that would seem a little crass and shallow to me.

Stop buying her stuff.........next.

it's all about the food, purses & shoes.

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No, only of food she buys................

With mine, its only the food she eats.

Big, big facebook page.........................

Many retail web sites will have an easy to click icon to do so (as free advertising) - expect she is just automatically clicking facebook icon when she sees it.

If a problem you might explain that it is a potential invitation for would be robbers to target her with such an open listing of possessions.

What is Facebook?

Edited October 19, 201411 yr by neverdie

I defriended her.

I defriended her.

Are you Chineese? Did you mean, 'Defend her'?

I'd say nothing over something so trivial as her showing her friends how good her partner treats her.

Does it seriously bother you that much??

I defriended her.

Are you Chineese? Did you mean, 'Defend her'?

No

I find it ludicrous that thai women have to put up pics of themselves and all their latest "presents" etc so that they look like they are something more than they really are. All it does for me is show how insincere and pathetically minded they are, mind you these are the same women that have to start playing with their faces whenever they see a reflection of it. The real women in Thailand dont need to do this sh*t because they have a bit of class and dont need to show off to anyone, they have standards. Sorry but to me the only women that do this are pretty low class, uneducated with no values what so ever, they are also the ones that will likely dump their farang other half as soon as they find someone with more money (or he spends all his)or are scamming him behind his back, dont even know why men would even associate with this type of female unless it is a similar thing for the guys, "look at my women", hahahaha, what a joke, as they say, you get what you deserve. Strange but I always thought that two people were together for each other, you know, love, not what they can score and use as bragging rights .

I find it ludicrous that thai women have to put up pics of themselves and all their latest "presents" etc so that they look like they are something more than they really are. All it does for me is show how insincere and pathetically minded they are, mind you these are the same women that have to start playing with their faces whenever they see a reflection of it. The real women in Thailand dont need to do this sh*t because they have a bit of class and dont need to show off to anyone, they have standards. Sorry but to me the only women that do this are pretty low class, uneducated with no values what so ever, they are also the ones that will likely dump their farang other half as soon as they find someone with more money (or he spends all his)or are scamming him behind his back, dont even know why men would even associate with this type of female unless it is a similar thing for the guys, "look at my women", hahahaha, what a joke, as they say, you get what you deserve. Strange but I always thought that two people were together for each other, you know, love, not what they can score and use as bragging rights .

Hope you feel better now........A barrel of laughs you are...........

She posts pics of us, places we travel to, the resorts, food served,family with us

....never "things" or trinkets...although beautiful she's stylishly conservative and not showy or show-offy

For a lot of folks... Facebook is for 'face.' Just like the receipt porn trend back home a few years back.

My girlfriend posts a lot of things on Facebook which I don't like. Its not just things I buy her. When we get into arguments and fights she posts on FB. When she feels sad about me she posts on FB to her friends. It's in Thai so I can't read it, but I know it's about me.

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Facebook is evil..

I find it ludicrous that thai women have to put up pics of themselves and all their latest "presents" etc so that they look like they are something more than they really are. All it does for me is show how insincere and pathetically minded they are, mind you these are the same women that have to start playing with their faces whenever they see a reflection of it. The real women in Thailand dont need to do this sh*t because they have a bit of class and dont need to show off to anyone, they have standards. Sorry but to me the only women that do this are pretty low class, uneducated with no values what so ever, they are also the ones that will likely dump their farang other half as soon as they find someone with more money (or he spends all his)or are scamming him behind his back, dont even know why men would even associate with this type of female unless it is a similar thing for the guys, "look at my women", hahahaha, what a joke, as they say, you get what you deserve. Strange but I always thought that two people were together for each other, you know, love, not what they can score and use as bragging rights .

What a load of crap.

No.

A friend though allows his wife to make a running storyboard of where they go on trips.

They got robbed while away on holiday for 2 weeks. I do wonder if one is enjoying ur holiday so much, who do you have to share every minute with someone else?

I find it ludicrous that thai women have to put up pics of themselves and all their latest "presents" etc so that they look like they are something more than they really are. All it does for me is show how insincere and pathetically minded they are, mind you these are the same women that have to start playing with their faces whenever they see a reflection of it. The real women in Thailand dont need to do this sh*t because they have a bit of class and dont need to show off to anyone, they have standards. Sorry but to me the only women that do this are pretty low class, uneducated with no values what so ever, they are also the ones that will likely dump their farang other half as soon as they find someone with more money (or he spends all his)or are scamming him behind his back, dont even know why men would even associate with this type of female unless it is a similar thing for the guys, "look at my women", hahahaha, what a joke, as they say, you get what you deserve. Strange but I always thought that two people were together for each other, you know, love, not what they can score and use as bragging rights .

Twaddle.

mine nah but she always on facebook/line posting crud about the funnier side of red, yellow shirts,government,army etc.

She must have at least 1 thousand contacts which is amazing seeing as i only have less than a handfull.

No.

A friend though allows his wife to make a running storyboard of where they go on trips.

They got robbed while away on holiday for 2 weeks. I do wonder if one is enjoying ur holiday so much, who do you have to share every minute with someone else?

The GPS pic app is a gift to thieves....pics taken at home tell them where you live....pics on vacations/evenings tell them how far away you are from your belongings....

What do you think they talk about when they're together? The same stuff they're posting on Facebook.

I found that some of my friends became more interesting to talk with once they got a smart phone and I could look at photos of the stuff they talked about rather than just listen to them talk about it. No, not just things they (or their husbands) had bought, but place they'd been, restaurants they'd visited, their pets, grandkids, etc.

Edited October 19, 201411 yr by NancyL

I find it ludicrous that thai women have to put up pics of themselves and all their latest "presents" etc so that they look like they are something more than they really are. All it does for me is show how insincere and pathetically minded they are, mind you these are the same women that have to start playing with their faces whenever they see a reflection of it. The real women in Thailand dont need to do this sh*t because they have a bit of class and dont need to show off to anyone, they have standards. Sorry but to me the only women that do this are pretty low class, uneducated with no values what so ever, they are also the ones that will likely dump their farang other half as soon as they find someone with more money (or he spends all his)or are scamming him behind his back, dont even know why men would even associate with this type of female unless it is a similar thing for the guys, "look at my women", hahahaha, what a joke, as they say, you get what you deserve. Strange but I always thought that two people were together for each other, you know, love, not what they can score and use as bragging rights alt=blink.png> .

I wouldn't have put it like that but I get where you're coming from.

Many gents here will disagree with you because they themselves have bought lots of trinkets and gifts for their women and

not always because they actually wanted to but because they felt that they might lose them otherwise and in many cases, their fears would be justified

Some Thai women equate gifts and jealousy with love.

If your not giving her lots o' gifts and if your not visibly jealous when another man talks to her

then you don't love her

If I had a woman who thought like that, I'd lose her in a hurry