upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Hi I'm a 52 year old male British national married to my Thai wife in a Amphoe in Bangkok. We live in the T.lam Nanrong Non Din Deang area in Burriram. I have an extension to stay based in retirement. Recently I found out the land I bought for 400,000 baht and the house I built for 1 million and 600 thousand baht is actually Sop Por Gor and is owned by someone my wife knows. Fortunately my Isuza I bought for 1,000000 baht is solely in my name. Since then we have started to have many problems!!! One of which resulted in me going home after eating something which made me very ill almost pschcotic for nearly 5 days. My wife previously worked in a Bar in Hua Hin, Bintabat road. I'm sure some of the members may be aware of the street. Any I was recently taken by my wife to the wattana psychiatric hospital witch is About 90 minutes drive from Non Din Deang. Needless to say when I saw it was a psychiatric hospital I immediatley left and told my wife to drive me home. Now I hear many locals saying I'm crazy already, I believe a medical certificate may have been forged as my wife has a doctor friend, and now I'm very concerned about my safety. Has any other member experienced anything like this? PS I don't drink !!!! Or take any drugs as I'm an offshore inspector and recently renewed my survival ticket in Bangkok with a clean bill of health. Drug free with no health problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post casualbiker Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 (edited) If this is real.. run. Run fast. She is setting you up for the fall! Arrange a holiday for your wife and while she's gone move your stuff out! The house is gone anyway, probably member of the family or Thai husband. Edited November 1, 2014 by casualbiker 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes everything is true!!! I just want to create a paper trail if the worst happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casualbiker Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Run. Just run. Move and forget her. If you can get stuff out of the house better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 yeah same happened to me....I think youll be her 8th victim if I check back thru the TV postings! Last bloke ended up in a meat mincer when she used to work at the abattoir just before she became a bar girl. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Wow. You married a dick head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post krisb Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 If this is true, and you have every receipt for building, you are free to bulldoze the place then drive off into the sunset in your Isuzu. 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Can Thailand become more unbelievable? Actually, heck, sure it can! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 Please try to get this post read by as many people as possible!!! I really hope anyone who has experience anything like this will get in touch. PLEASE THANK YOU Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesquite Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes, run. BTW, what does "Sop Por Gor" mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 It means the land cannot be bought or sold. It has not yet been upgraded into a land title allowing homes to be built. Everywhere in non din deang is the same. The land has been measured and has a certificate in someone else's name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AhFarangJa Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes, run. BTW, what does "Sop Por Gor" mean? I believe ( though please correct me if someone knows better) that Sop Por Gor is a title deed that is issued by the land reform committee for land given to poor farmers. It cannot be bought, pledged, sold, or even used as collateral for a bank loan. Also it can only transfer to the owners heirs. So basically I think the op is screwed, and I agree ....get out while you can, good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post slipperylobster Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 (edited) Careful. I have only been in Thailand 4 years, but have 18 years straight in the Philippines. One guy (retired C.I.D) would tell me about this gang of older, bar girls who formed a Coven (witches). They would drug their husbands by mixing psychotic inducing drugs into their food and drinks. I went to one man's house and he was visibly shaken by events. He was so into alcohol, that I figured that was solely the cause. He ended up dying. His wife was a *****, and several other ladies would hang around all day, singing ditties that made no sense, and running in circles around the house. Totally insane. When I first settled in, strange events started happening. Suffice it to say that I finally realized that my girlfriend was drugging me. She was slipping dangerous drugs into my beer. My girl happened to be involved with the wife of my friend, and at one time, stayed quite a while there at his house, without my knowledge. Stranger stuff, that I will not write here about, started happening. Confirmation that I was being slowly drugged (to the point of being incapacitated) was my immediate return to "normalcy" as soon as I moved away from the situation. These girls were taking boyfriends in the bar, then drugging them slowly, so that they would gain control of the money that was coming in. The money was pooled between them. A very scary situation.....like a living death... Edited November 1, 2014 by slipperylobster 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 (edited) seeing as your an offshore guy, one assumes you have a slush fund stashed away for a rainy day ?...hope so, if everything you have written is true and your not a bored troll cos its Sunday, get into your Isuzu and leave, go and find a hotel somewhere out the way, where you cant be found, better losing around THB 2.0 million, than your life, as without stating the obvious you are being set up for a fall Edited November 1, 2014 by Soutpeel 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AhFarangJa Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Slipperylobster, that is one scary story. Glad you got out intact. Would likely make a good movie! Soutpeel, sorry to be pedantic, but today is Saturday, slip of the pen I know, ( sorry, I am getting my coat now ) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 Everything you describe has been happening at wife's parents house (ban yai ) for well over 6 weeks now. I also have numerous things I do not want to discuss here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slipperylobster Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 seeing as your an offshore guy, one assumes you have a slush fund stashed away for a rainy day ?...hope so, if everything you have written is true and your not a bored troll cos its Sunday, get into your Isuzu and leave, go and find a hotel somewhere out the way, where you cant be found, better losing around THB 2.0 million, than your life, as without stating the obvious you are being set up for a fall You will most likely discover a "relief:" as soon as you do. It might even be a little voice inside you telling you it is time. Too people have stayed in their "situations" and paid the ultimate price. Leaving brings a whole new perspective. Take the car, leave it far away, with a friend, for a few months. Do not leave a trail. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 Everything you describe has been happening at wife's parents house (ban yai ) for well over 6 weeks now. I also have numerous things I do not want to discuss here. Why are you hanging around ?.....grab your important sh*t from the house and just leave, if you want any further stuff from the house get a lawyer to arrange pick up 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post neverdie Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 Everything you describe has been happening at wife's parents house (ban yai ) for well over 6 weeks now. I also have numerous things I do not want to discuss here. Why are you hanging around ?.....grab your important sh*t from the house and just leave, if you want any further stuff from the house get a lawyer to arrange pick up Don't wait another minute. Passport, papers, basic clothes, wallet, car keys and hit the road JACK, don't come back no more, no more. It's so easy to hit the road in LOS, rooms, food, everywhere. Leave today or we might be reading about you in the news tomorrow. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AhFarangJa Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 Op, please, please do as the posters are telling you, I for one do not want to read of another Farang suicide..nor I guess does anyone else here. one other question not asked yet, is do you require any help? Unfortunately I am not in L.o.s. at the moment but help is always closer than you think. Remember you do not have to face this alone. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes I would like help I'm 6 hours away from Bangkok. The local people in the village are already having heated discussions. I spoke to the local police 2 weeks ago but they haven't really helped. I'm not sure I can leave safely. I do not want an accident on the road Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casualbiker Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes I would like help I'm 6 hours away from Bangkok. The local people in the village are already having heated discussions. I spoke to the local police 2 weeks ago but they haven't really helped. I'm not sure I can leave safely. I do not want an accident on the road Jesus mate. If you think it's that bad leave now! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes I would like help I'm 6 hours away from Bangkok. The local people in the village are already having heated discussions. I spoke to the local police 2 weeks ago but they haven't really helped. I'm not sure I can leave safely. I do not want an accident on the road Not getting help from the BiB, well there is a surprise.. Mate, from one offshore guy to another, pack your offshore bag with all your essential shit, you know what you need, and get out of there, get onto a main road somewhere drive and head to BKK or somewhere else where cant be found, stop F*kcing about, "you don't want an accident on the road"..!!!! if you stay where you are you are certainly going to get into an "accident"at some point in the not too distant future... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AhFarangJa Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 can you not just jump a bus out of town? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 I'm frightened I will be driven off the road or have an accident. I'm planning to leave in the early hours if there isn't anybody about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casualbiker Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 I'm frightened I will be driven off the road or have an accident. I'm planning to leave in the early hours if there isn't anybody about Ummm not being funny but maybe with this paranoia you are crazy .. but as long as your not telling the villagers your leaving for good .. early hours is good! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slipperylobster Posted November 1, 2014 Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes I would like help I'm 6 hours away from Bangkok. The local people in the village are already having heated discussions. I spoke to the local police 2 weeks ago but they haven't really helped. I'm not sure I can leave safely. I do not want an accident on the road If you cannot physically drive, then hopefully there is another farang nearby that can get the car out. I believe just the keys and a letter from you authorizing him to drive the vehicle, would be enough. Best you get the vehicle out of the neighborhood, then have the friend drive it to where you are going. Perhaps meet up at a 7/11 store, with you just driving out for a quick snack there. Once you leave, it will become very hard to get the vehicle. Do this today, if possible. You are now in enemy territory. Prisoners of war have the best chance of escaping within the first few hours of capture. Consider your first post as the time you were "captured". Strategy dictates that you can only work matters from a position of strength. Get to a safe place, call a friend, avoid confrontation. The vehicle must be taken out wisely, and without notice. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upcountrydude Posted November 1, 2014 Author Share Posted November 1, 2014 I can assure you I am not paranoid I went home to england for two weeks and felt much better. I retired on the 25th and spent 6 days in Hua Hin with my wife her 2 daughters and her sister. I was assured everything was now ok at home and there wouldn't be any more problems. This is not a troll post I have been a member of Thaivisaexpress for nearly 2 years but have never posted anything previously Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 Yes I would like help I'm 6 hours away from Bangkok. The local people in the village are already having heated discussions. I spoke to the local police 2 weeks ago but they haven't really helped. I'm not sure I can leave safely. I do not want an accident on the road If you cannot physically drive, then hopefully there is another farang nearby that can get the car out. I believe just the keys and a letter from you authorizing him to drive the vehicle, would be enough. Best you get the vehicle out of the neighborhood, then have the friend drive it to where you are going. Perhaps meet up at a 7/11 store, with you just driving out for a quick snack there. Once you leave, it will become very hard to get the vehicle. Do this today, if possible. You are now in enemy territory. Prisoners of war have the best chance of escaping within the first few hours of capture. Consider your first post as the time you were "captured". Strategy dictates that you can only work matters from a position of strength. Get to a safe place, call a friend, avoid confrontation. The vehicle must be taken out wisely, and without notice. OP when are you due offshore again ?..... why don't you just tell the family you have been called back to work for an emergency job, happens all the time, get your offshore bag packed, and make out your going back offshore, let them drop you off at the airport with their best wishes, buy an ticket to BKK and disappear, in the interim if you have people you know in the area ie other farangs etc, might be wise to email a copy of your PP and any other details you feel relevant to them, if you don't know anyone, maybe you can send to one of the members here with a phone number... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Seastallion Posted November 1, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted November 1, 2014 I'm frightened I will be driven off the road or have an accident. I'm planning to leave in the early hours if there isn't anybody about Upcountrydude, I really think you should PM some moderators or other members that you trust here with your real name, phone number and address. If anything did happen to you, there will be the testimony of this thread to take to the police or British authorities. As it is, if we read in the news tomorrow of a foreigner coming to some unfortunate situation, we would not know it was you and that there are suspicious circumstances. A poster asked if you want help...he's right, there are some very helpful chaps around. Unfortunately, I'm in the deep south, so could not do much with regards to going to authorities otherwise I would offer to be your confidant. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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