smotherb Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 You don't want a bargirl but then you say "The one thing that scares my though is the girls that bring there friends along on the dates. Is there a good way to deal with this BS?" And that means that you don't want a traditional girl - and maybe I have been here too long [on this planet] - what does that mean, you are trying to improve your game? You want normal ladies and to make promises to them that you won't keep but in exchange for what? I think you need to take some time and figure out what you want before wasting other people's time… They are only chaperones; quite common for nice girls to use. Don't worry, sometimes it doubles your chances. Show them both a good time, but ask her not to bring the chaperone for a second meeting. If she does, make some excuse to get away and leave them. She will call if she is interested; after all, she knew you asked her not to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lukecan Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) The legendary canarysun is following the thread, I'm very curious about what he has to say Edited August 30, 2015 by Lukecan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Headgame Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Truly joining a Thai dating site before visiting Thailand is the proverbial bringing coal to Birmingham. If you want to step up your game then just being here will at least be in real time. Not at the driving range but actually on the course. Go for it. Lots of fun. I'm glad you said you weren't looking for love. Now that's another topic for after your visit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theonetrueaussie Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Don't ev en bother with dating sites, half of the pictures are them done up and touched up, when you meet them they rarely look as good as their pics. Dating in thailand is super easy just walk into any store, see someone you like and ask them out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangmick Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Ignore the photos. My wife will take a dozen selfies every time we go out. After playing around with the editing programme, one will become her next profile picture on facebook/google+. Technology turns her from a good looking 36 year old to a beautiful 20 year old! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lukecan Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Selfies can be meddled with, I always ask a girl for a full body picture, that one is impossible to edit. If her body looks good, then its all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamboy3394 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 There is a new Thai dating site name Misspattayaholiday it is free to bee a member there , have limited message sending for the girls in 1 day, you can get new message every day you login if you want keep bee a free member and not paying :-) hope you are lucky to find you love ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atyclb Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Like walking onto a beach and asking, how do I get some sand. The problem isnt getting one, its which one, then the right one. I love bringing a 'cherry' to Bangkok or Pattaya and stopping in a bar full of girls - then tell them: "Remember they are all for sale, including the waitresses, cashiers, dancers, hell, even the mamasans." then look at their expression................also tell them that some of the girls are not hookers, they are there to Dance, and dance in four or five clubs a night, rake in 1500 to 3000 baht a day doing this. I know a Senior Uni studnt, have known her since she was 10, selling flowers on Soi 4 - she dances, then goes home to her husband and kids. can you share your secret to networking and rubbing elbows with the elite ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Use the dating site to look over the prospects...multiply the number on the site by 1000 and you have an idea of how many young women are available and ready to welcome a foreign visitor... Do not fall in love with the first woman who shows you interest... Enjoy your stay...see as much of the country as you can...there will be women waiting everywhere to entertain you... Good Luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotpoom Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) Pattaya is a walking dating site...why purchase it on internet when all you have to do is step outside your door and your right in the middle of it. You might say "they are just selling sex". Truth is, that's what most of them are doing on these sites anyway. The only difference is they are asking for more money , as usual, on the internet. Like booking a hotel room, doing it in person you get a far better rate. Edited August 30, 2015 by dotpoom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeHere Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 I've had really super great luck on the dating sites Thai Friendly and (now named) Thai Cupid... I find it much better than trying to meet girls in the wild because you can filter through what you want first such as age range, English ability, even height, weight, religion, eye color and even further depending on how picky you are... For me, it was so much than trying to meet a girl in a bar, and a f#ck of lot cheaper! It depends, although, if you want to meet a girl in a bar here, there's no need whatsoever for joining a dating site... and as already mentioned, they will find you quick enough! I stay away from the generic Asian dating sites because I found that these are completely overrun by desperate Filipinas who are mostly scammers and just trying to get sponsors or even quick cash. Before I married, I met many lovely ladies through online dating; dated some, banged others, still friends with many even though we've moved on... a few were not as expected, but that's life. I met my wife of 4 years now on Thai Friendly, best move I ever made! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) The dating sites are all the same, You can shag any of the girls within 1 hour of physically meeting them. Every single one of them. That's just the way it is. Edited August 30, 2015 by MaeJoMTB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterphil Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Save your money and don't go on stupid dating sites. Go straight to Pattaya and rent a different girl everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muzarella Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 All depends for how long you will be here and where......but..you do not need to pay for dating site. Thai Friendly, Tagged, POF, are free..also Hi5... If you start few months before coming, and chat with video on skype, facebook or messenger you may save time here courting and seducing, and you may know better what you are getting...Some women post fake pictures, or just the face...and you get the surprise here. Also..a woman with car and living alone is the best catch, to tour you around..and...may save you hotel cost in some cases. Do not meet woman that lives in places that you are not interested in visit, or live away from the attractions without own transportation. Wasting time during a short vacation is not a good idea....... and...if you do not care about the cost...you may be better meeting a nice and beautiful bar girl willing to escort you in your vacation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKnave Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Interesting how many of the usual suspects have experience with these dating sites. Came for the culture, eh? The OP wants to improve his game, and thinks Thailand might be a good place to do it. Then he gets all sick and nervous about a Thai girl bringing a friend on a first date, which is quintessentially a Thai custom. After he 'improves his game', where is he going to play it? Certainly not in Thailand... All-in-all, a fairly elaborate self-deception, if you ask me. Just rent a kind-hearted hooker, who will pretend she likes you for a while. Replace as needed... If the OP had said he was looking for a good wife, he might have gotten a useful response or two. But this guy is fundamentally dishonest. The whole thread reeks of pathos. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fabricus Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) The dating sites are all the same, You can shag any of the girls within 1 hour of physically meeting them. Every single one of them. That's just the way it is. Why do you feel the need to write such drivel? Do you think that projecting your misery onto others will somehow make your own mediocre circumstances more palatable? You strike me as a sad and rather lonely little man. Edited August 30, 2015 by Fabricus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duanebigsby Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Just Google " whores are us" I'm sure something will catch. (Or you will catch) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fabricus Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 I've had really super great luck on the dating sites Thai Friendly and (now named) Thai Cupid... I find it much better than trying to meet girls in the wild because you can filter through what you want first such as age range, English ability, even height, weight, religion, eye color and even further depending on how picky you are... Before I married, I met many lovely ladies through online dating; dated some, banged others, still friends with many even though we've moved on... a few were not as expected, but that's life. I met my wife of 4 years now on Thai Friendly, best move I ever made! Good for you. Good luck to you and your wife. And thank you for sharing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Docno Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Apps like Tango and Tagged also work reasonably well - and they're free! You can specify a particular city in advance and find girls living there. If you both express a mutual 'interest' in each other, then you can start a conversation and see where things lead. Of course, early on you will want to know what they do for a living and what their expectations are. But they have done well by me in the past (wings are clipped now). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechnikaIII Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Yeah, so you get yourself a girl who has Line (most do) .. then when you're with her, she's still on Line. You check into the hotel, imagining you have her all to yourself, that precious private time together, ... which never really happens, because the moment she slips her shoes off, she's on the bed with TV control in one hand, and chatting on with the other. ... Have fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennypowers Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 A friend of mine met a nice lady on Thai Cupid; educated and looking for a genuine relationship. He said he'd try TF but said it was very hit and miss and he was apprehensive about taking the women seriously. So I'd say TC and TLL are your more serious dating sites for relationships and TF is more for hookups; at least that was his general feeling about it. There's a solid review of the top 6 here that runs through the benefits and what you're likely to expect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgemandm Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 I'm thinking about buying Thaicupid or Thaifriendly. Does anybody here use them and if so what plans do you recommend for someone visiting on vacation? 1 month? longer? Hi mate take it from me it is the only way to meet a good thai off the web the best one for me is Thaifriedly I have meet a lot of woman on it , my mates have as well do , not take on a thai from the bars most are no good at all a lot of man meet them in the bars and get <deleted>?k over not saying all woman on the web are good but are a lot better then a hooker from a bar I think bar moles are just shit hop you find what you are after ps think with your big head not your smell head Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HLover Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Bar moles and his smell head...priceless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lukecan Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 The dating sites are all the same, You can shag any of the girls within 1 hour of physically meeting them. Every single one of them. That's just the way it is. Why do you feel the need to write such drivel? Do you think that projecting your misery onto others will somehow make your own mediocre circumstances more palatable? You strike me as a sad and rather lonely little man. Drivel? He is 100% spot on. I've bedded all the girls I've met from the TF the same day, there was only one exception tho, I bailed as soon I saw she was a fattie. Edited her pictures real good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Friendly Stranger Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Some good advice. Try plenty of fish too, as I believe there's more on there than the others. Tagged.com can be used too for hook ups. Of course, this is if you're not into getting FL or BG. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fang37 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 It is easy to rule out bar-girls BUT why not examine why/how they got there? Of their own choice? Not many. My intuition says that if you meet her early before her head is ruined, she may well be OK. Keep an open mind is my suggestion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oxo1947 Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 (edited) "also tell them that some of the girls are not hookers, they are there to Dance, and dance in four or five clubs a night, rake in 1500 to 3000 baht a day doing this. I know a Senior Uni studnt, have known her since she was 10, selling flowers on Soi 4 - she dances, then goes home to her husband and kids---Tunnelrat69 ------------------------------------------------- She gets 90,000 baht a month for holding onto a pole and moving no more then 4 steps in each direction---she is married has children and still goes to university.......(probably studying nucular physic's).....and she done all this from being a little flower girl.....(with no shoes perhaps--??) ***note to myself----please stop answering these fantasy posts----it only encourages them----the name alone should have alerted me----Tunnelrat69.....The one thing that I miss from moving away from Pattaya to Issan is all the Navy seals, SAS, Tunnel rats--& special forces that litter the bars down there----my father came to visit me for a month some years back, I asked him what he thought of the place---he said that after being there he had came to the realisation that he had been the only lorry driver in the whole of the British army. Edited August 31, 2015 by oxo1947 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussieroaming Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Old fool..that about sums up your post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linzz Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 If you want to find honest women, go to where there is a high concentration of honest women - i.e. their place of work (no, not a-go-go's). With no social security to speak of, everyone needs income in Thailand, so a woman without a job must be up to something somewhere. Hotel bars & restaurants are a good start (4+ stars), as are cafes or other places where motivation and diligence are key - you don't want to end up with a lazy "can't". Yes many will already be spoken for, a good number don't even fancy farang, but there will usually be at least one who is willing and available. Become a regular, then ask her out. Too easy Another good one is a coffee shop/restaurant in a big hospital. If you hang out there within a short time, guarantee you'll be approached by a nurse - they make great partners, I know, I married one 14 years ago. And she still thinks you are a doctor! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linzz Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Ignore the photos. My wife will take a dozen selfies every time we go out. After playing around with the editing programme, one will become her next profile picture on facebook/google+. Technology turns her from a good looking 36 year old to a beautiful 20 year old! Opposite for me, she had whited her face so much in the pics I was pleased she wasn't a ghost when I met her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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