Anyone been to one of these?

All the young women I talk to if they are not at work they are in their rooms "lie on bed" watching TV and on their phones.

Is this the norm?

Normally they come to your loom, because their loom doesn't have aircon and a fridge full of sa-pie.

Yes with one girl I spent some time with she was happy to come to my loom. But, although I never asked to go, I had the feeling her loom was strictly out of bounds.

Yes with one girl I spent some time with she was happy to come to my loom. But, although I never asked to go, I had the feeling her loom was strictly out of bounds.

They're normally too ashamed of the dumps they live in.

Not to mention, don't want all their neighbors to think they're hookers, cos they hang out with foreigners.

And they might be sharing a loom with their Thai bf/husband, he won't want you there.

I have visited a couple of looms....but interestingly the gal and i were always the only ones there...never saw anyone, not even a neighbour. None of them had cooking facilities....but they were clean.

I have visited a couple of looms....but interestingly the gal and i were always the only ones there...never saw anyone, not even a neighbour. None of them had cooking facilities....but they were clean.

Any man items around that were left in haste?

I have visited a couple of looms....but interestingly the gal and i were always the only ones there...never saw anyone, not even a neighbour. None of them had cooking facilities....but they were clean.

Any man items around that were left in haste?

Yessss....but i made sure it was left behind in a disposable latex package.

Many, many girls do not have a Room of their Own. Indeed many Thais find it nearly impossible to sleep alone. So you will find rooms with sometimes as many as 10 in a room. Some Mama Sans will provide the room. Yes there is then the problem of "brothers" ie. husbands and boy friends, let alone babies. They will also tend to congregate in apartment blocks with other girls they work with and girls from the same Province.

If you spend 8 hours or so a night on high heels wrapped around a pole or propping up a bar you don't have much energy for anything else. The Malls are popular because they have air-con. Life in a bar is by no means all bad as you have plenty of friends, though most bars do not treat the girls well. A customer is a bonus.Never mind all the myths about endless farangs dishing out 10s of thousands of Baht. Life is pretty tight.

Those are not myths.

I've no idea about Thai girls' 'looms', but over the last month (?) there have been a few days when its been so hot that I've turned the aircon on and been stuck indoors either on the computer or watching TV - so I sympathise with them!

When I travelled from BKK to Ubon I spent a few nights with my GF in her sister's room. We had nice time together all 3...

When we planed to travel to Chiang Mai she said we would live in her brother's room... I canceled the trip

Usually is what they say. Just a small room. Enough for a bed and a wardrobe. No cooking area whatsoever. Often no windows, certainly no air con. A combined toilet washroom with a dunk bucket for washing

A loom is not a room by western standards [emoji3]

are you talking about "my loom me"?

Some are not ashamed to take you to their loom .I have been to many looms when i lived a few years in Jomtien/Pattaya .