Drinking from 8 AM to 9 PM is alcoholism, as well as not remembering what you ordered for others. Do you think this is the first time this person started at 8AM drinking? I've been around people who's lives were ruined by drinking, and they're paying the price now. I have nothing against getting buzzed, and have done it many times in my life, with a few different substances, but moderation means you have the will power to stop before you get drunk and out of hand, either physically, or mentally like he did. Drinking booze doesn't make you a man. How you treat others around you does.