8 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

Yeah, but you get what you pay for.

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6 hours ago, Lamkyong said:

even then you will have to ask  if you are brave/stupid enough  i suggest if you are hoping to introduce a western type system here you are  on a  voyage to nowhere 

Haha.. my gf was checking her lottery numbers yesterday.. I jokingly said..if you win we go for holiday... she looked at me as if I am one very stupid ferang!!.. 

 

My wife often pays, sometimes I do, sometimes we split. Be upfront about that and tell her. If she leaves, you just dodged a bullet.

 

An old sage once told me, "regardless of your socialstatus, you are never entitled to someone else's hard-earned money".

Will you be expecting her to buy the condoms and KY too ?

12 minutes ago, SiamBeast said:

My wife often pays, sometimes I do, sometimes we split. Be upfront about that and tell her. If she leaves, you just dodged a bullet.

 

An old sage once told me, "regardless of your socialstatus, you are never entitled to someone else's hard-earned money".

Same here... We take turns. Luckily my wife had been brought up in an excellent way - her mindset is light years ahead of average Thai women. Keep thanking her mom to have done a great job!

Next time your out to dinner tell her you forgot your wallet, don;t go to an expensive place, maybe 200 baht for dinner, 300 max, when the bill comes, reach for your wallet, oh shit, I must have left my wallet on the table at home, see what she says, how she reacts, and if she goes to pay, let her, her facial expressions should show how she feels, have a spare 1,000 in your pocket in case she says she hasn't got any money with her, if that's the case flick her as fast as you found her, if she pays, reimburse her, never been a cheap Charlie, but then again, have never let a female take me to places either, I pay, I decide, if she leads me to expensive places, I take her to where I want to eat, simple, you want expensive, you can pay for both ! 

How about NEVER.....does NEVER work for you???  

You picked a winner....make sure you buy

the car, motorbike and condo in HER name!!

Oh, and gold too...if you,love Her.....

Do you offer to pay when you are getting your leg over?

The troll is back and you're all falling for it.  He is starting topics that you are supposed to react on . Probably working as a freelancer for TV.

 

 

 

looollll
pathetic !!!!!!!
you guys need to get a woman not a piece of trash

5 hours ago, transam said:

You ain't in the West.......Plus your West birds might have been fat and ugly or felt sorry for you.........

What you not seen a fat and ugly thai bird , I see lots now because of  fast food in thailand.

are u willing to wait until 2024???

2 hours ago, JHolmesJr said:

I would feel quite uncomfortable expecting a woman to pay. specially if the meal is affordable.

 

Helps you get laid later as well.

 

I once met a nice lady at Bamboo. She was very demure until i paid for her tequila after that she started grinding her ample bottom against me.

well worth the price of a shot.

You lost me at 'ample bottom'.    

No thanks.

10 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

Yes until they get the hook set.

Does your Mama know you are on this site?

5 hours ago, colinneil said:

When is my Thai gf going to offer to pay for dinner????       

You for real????   

Wakey wakey, this is Thailand, farang pay end of.

and he's lucky he's not paying for uninvited family and friends. OTOH maybe that's about to happen soon.

You forgot the part about the venue where you met? ?

When money becomes a measure of the health of a relationship, it is doomed to fail. 

Is she a bar girl?    

9 hours ago, Langsuan Man said:

Like mine:

 

When she wins the lottery 

How are you guys choosing your girlfriends?  Shouldn't you know these things before you claim her to be your girlfriend?  Once a week my girlfriend goes to the market with her own money and buys food to cook for me or me and my friends.  And that is after working all day.  Yesterday she did win 2000 baht in the lottery and she sent me a message to say that she was taking me out.  Today when I had problems with my motorbike she came right over to help me take care of it.  Make wiser choices.

Pay half in cyber space is pretty difficult. 

Your mind is a wonderfully full satellite problem is it confuses you as to where you really are and tends to catch you out in your numerous posts. However they are amusing.

1 hour ago, DSJPC said:

are u willing to wait until 2024???

Unless DT screws up badly. I think Ivank

will be our first woman President.

 

Let your gf ask for the bill,  when it arrives don't look at it.

Fold your arms and stare at her or some other direction.

 

cheapskatesam

You aint in kansas any more Dorothy. You really cannot be serious.This beautiful, wonderful,Thai creature, who lets you sleep with her, goes through all the motions of enjoying sex with you? Why on earth should she have to pay even harsip for you having he pleasure of her company.Listen mate,girls over here pay SFA.get used to it.And the kicker is, that youve only been with her a month??? did you expect her to start shelling out dosh in the case of a 30 day relationship.Relationships with Thai ladies take time to bear fruit. My Mrs and i worked  together for 7  years, in the bar trade. We were partners in every thing. But i still paid for our nights out and meals,and the odd dress or shoes. That what men do, its what is expected of us. married now for 5 years,she helps out with stuff. She will buy shopping,and cleaning stuff, and she will occasionally treat me to a meal, or a night out in KK, or when we go on holiday.

And you want all this after a month?

Sorry my misguided friend, you've a lot to learn.

 

6 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

cheapskatesam

You aint in kansas any more Dorothy. You really cannot be serious.This beautiful, wonderful,Thai creature, who lets you sleep with her, goes through all the motions of enjoying sex with you? Why on earth should she have to pay even harsip for you having he pleasure of her company.Listen mate,girls over here pay SFA.get used to it.And the kicker is, that youve only been with her a month??? did you expect her to start shelling out dosh in the case of a 30 day relationship.Relationships with Thai ladies take time to bear fruit. My Mrs and i worked  together for 7  years, in the bar trade. We were partners in every thing. But i still paid for our nights out and meals,and the odd dress or shoes. That what men do, its what is expected of us. married now for 5 years,she helps out with stuff. She will buy shopping,and cleaning stuff, and she will occasionally treat me to a meal, or a night out in KK, or when we go on holiday.

And you want all this after a month?

Sorry my misguided friend, you've a lot to learn.

 

You mean a lot to read up on for his next work of fiction. Mind you have just supped him with a lot.

Try this when you and her finish eating tell her you want to go to rest room then don't come back, let's see what will happen.

You are a man.  Yes?  Therefor you should pay.    

12 hours ago, cheapskatesam said:

Never had this experience in the west.. girls always offered to pay or go half.. 

Stop having sex with her for awhile... then you don't owe her anything. If you really need sex you can probably find it cheaper elsewhere anyway.

 

As a confirmed Cheap Charlie, you'd be a damned fool to take her on an all expenses paid shopping trip to Singapore. There's nothing much to do there but shop and everything will cost you much more.

 

Failing that, why don't you tell her you'd appreciate it if she paid for something once in a while. How do you think she can afford her car and condo? Obviously by getting suckers like you to pay for everything. 

 

 

11 hours ago, Lamkyong said:

thats two new words i have learnt today   click bait and fire sale    wow what a fast moving world

And here is another new word for you. Look it up yourself if you have that ability. It describes Thailand 4.0.

Coddiwomple