The poisonous Brother in Law

[KC 71]

All my music heroes are dead or nearly. Where are the new ones to take over- nowhere to be found. Music was destroyed by drugs, big business and greed. 'nuff said.

It hit me hard- Glens passing
The first song i remember as a kid was 'Rhinestone Cowboy'


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[madusa]

6 hours ago, KC 71 said:

Its a head butt


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Oh, ok it's a head butt, must be a slang invented recently?

[sandrabbit]

1 hour ago, madusa said:

Oh, ok it's a head butt, must be a slang invented recently?

no it's a very old saying.

[The Dark Lord]

On 08/08/2017 at 5:20 AM, totally thaied up said:

I had just one LINE message too much, and it was what broke the camels back as well.

 

They are within themselves, their own worst enemy with hate, scorn and a refractory sense of jealousy. No matter what, to her and now within her social circle, there will always be another woman.

 

It is just how they work.

 

I blocked, changed my number and started again and profoundly deep inside; it hurt like ****. Don't weaken now. Better times await. You have left her a nice house and a car she can sell.

 

I do not know many Thais in my village that has a million baht in the bank or could sell such items and if they did, they would consider themselves very wealthy.

 

Best of luck TDL.

Hi TTU and all the thread bros young and old, new and established. Thanks for all your support, humour, candid observations, amusing anecdotes and sharing. All of that has been a massive help in my struggle ( Mien Kampf ?) along the road to re cover. One of the more recent posts (above)  states how profoundly deep it hurts but does not explore the highly confusing scenario where our western values clash against common sense as well as being ably fuelled by the concern for her wellbeing. What a tumultuous battle of emotions  is threshing its way through my emotional spectrum. And at present no matter how many injections of common sense I get from my carers, I cannot suppress it.

 

time will heal those wounds. 

 

Currently angling for a pretty good good position in the John Lewis groupso fingers crossed there. 

 

Found an absolute ute star of a GP who expresses genuine concern for the decline in my overall wellbeing and is working on that step by step. The psychological recovery will have to be tackled later. 

 

Got my 5 string Jazz sorted out ( the neck was bent like a 400 meters ataletic track and the action like a set if UK overhead power lines.)  applied for a position with a Pink Floyd tribute band an though the rejection cut deep, the fact that they responded made me feel wanted. 

 

Just spent a weekend in Norfolk with mum, big sis and her hubby at a place called the gin palace. No need to go into more detail there methinks. 

 

Still a long ling way to go to completely recover from living in the LoS bubble but deffo making progress. 

 

Thanks you guys for everything 

just to show you what you are missing;)

 

 

 

 

[owl sees all]

Big war this morning.

 

I think Thai wives try to hide things away rather than come clean when they think they are in the wrong; maybe to avoid confrontation. Who knows?!

 

The wife wanted to go to the little market on the Mcycle. It's only 2K away. No prob's there but she then said "no benzine." That's strange, I thought, only two days before I put 3 litres in. "Where is the petrol dear?" "I don't know!" I sensed a change in the voice. "Someone has used the bike and gone a fair way on it. It must have been you yesterday. It's OK, I'll put some in" "I don't know who use bike!, why you keep ask me? You want trouble?!"  "Well I reckon the bike has done over 60Km and and you didn't know? How did the bike go anywhere without the key? You have the key!"

To cut a long story short, it turned out that the wife's niece; 'May' - 14 years old and with two friends - had (supposedly) gone into town (20Km away). And disappeared for about 4/5 hours while I had been attending to the cat sanctuary at the farm. I wasn't best pleased when I found out. She (the wife) had given them not only the key but the OK to go to town. Been found out telling porkies again.  Not one has a crash hat (the girls not the cats) and the Mcycle is just a village run-around without any MoT or the like.

 

WW3 battle #201 started.

 

Don't get me wrong guys; lots of times she has asked me for the use of the Mcycle. I've not refused for local trips BUT I have said NO for big road journeys. I thought me and Mrs Owl had a agreement on this. Perhaps I got it wrong again!!

 

If I do survive 'til tomorrow I might even pray to something. But I've been told to expect a very painful end.

 

Anyway; what's for sure is that I'm in the dog (in my case the cat) house again.

 

 

 

 

Edited August 13, 2017 by owl sees all

[oldhippy]

So recognizable: getting angry when caught lying.

[roo860]

Big war this morning.
 
I think Thai wives try to hide things away rather than come clean when they think they are in the wrong; maybe to avoid confrontation. Who knows?!
 
The wife wanted to go to the little market on the Mcycle. It's only 2K away. No prob's there but she then said "no benzine." That's strange, I thought, only two days before I put 3 litres in. "Where is the petrol dear?" "I don't know!" I sensed a change in the voice. "Someone has used the bike and gone a fair way on it. It must have been you yesterday. It's OK, I'll put some in" "I don't know who use bike!, why you keep ask me? You want trouble?!"  "Well I reckon the bike has done over 60Km and and you didn't know? How did the bike go anywhere without the key? You have the key!"

To cut a long story short, it turned out that the wife's niece; 'May' - 14 years old and with two friends - had (supposedly) gone into town (20Km away). And disappeared for about 4/5 hours while I had been attending to the cat sanctuary at the farm. I wasn't best pleased when I found out. She (the wife) had given them not only the key but the OK to go to town. Been found out telling porkies again.  Not one has a crash hat (the girls not the cats) and the Mcycle is just a village run-around without any MoT or the like.
 
WW3 battle #201 started.
 
Don't get me wrong guys; lots of times she has asked me for the use of the Mcycle. I've not refused for local trips BUT I have said NO for big road journeys. I thought me and Mrs Owl had a agreement on this. Perhaps I got it wrong again!!
 
If I do survive 'til tomorrow I might even pray to something. But I've been told to expect a very painful end.
 
Anyway; what's for sure is that I'm in the dog (in my case the cat) house again.
 
 

 
 

Black tights suit you.

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[owl sees all]

Daughter on the left. Mrs Owl on the left.

 

[totally thaied up]

4 hours ago, The Dark Lord said:

One of the more recent posts (above)  states how profoundly deep it hurts but does not explore the highly confusing scenario where our western values clash against common sense as well as being ably fuelled by the concern for her wellbeing. What a tumultuous battle of emotions  is threshing its way through my emotional spectrum. And at present no matter how many injections of common sense I get from my carers, I cannot suppress it.

TDL

 

I am still in counselling. It has been a long time gone, still and I am getting help to this very day. It slowly passes, but I am still to this day, this hour, this second, worry and care about this person well-being as well. My current wife hates it, but she has been into the sessions and saw's what damage has been done, and that has helped her. Good people have feelings, we have careful souls, and I am a soft touch, so it hurts more.

 

All I have learnt from my sessions now is that she was responsible for much; so was I just as well in some cases to blame but in the end, you do learn to suppress it as time heals everything. My counsellor told me many Thai ladies stay with drunken, poor Thai husbands because that is the best they could get, yet they still care greatly for them till death. He told me in it all depends on the person we get and those words helped me greatly.

 

I hope that helps in some way. You are not alone.

 

BTW; I am sitting in an Internet Cafe. I wanted some time out for myself. It is just so full of beautiful women and I as I look across at such perfection, a part of me still says, even with all the vexes and problems I have encountered in this country, life, even at times so painful needs to be lived. I am far past my youth but I can see lots of laughter and happiness here, and I do hope, things for all of us in Thailand can find some sense of contentment. 

Edited August 13, 2017 by totally thaied up

[George FmplesdaCosteedback]

9 hours ago, owl sees all said:

Big war this morning.

 

I think Thai wives try to hide things away rather than come clean when they think they are in the wrong; maybe to avoid confrontation. Who knows?!

 

The wife wanted to go to the little market on the Mcycle. It's only 2K away. No prob's there but she then said "no benzine." That's strange, I thought, only two days before I put 3 litres in. "Where is the petrol dear?" "I don't know!" I sensed a change in the voice. "Someone has used the bike and gone a fair way on it. It must have been you yesterday. It's OK, I'll put some in" "I don't know who use bike!, why you keep ask me? You want trouble?!"  "Well I reckon the bike has done over 60Km and and you didn't know? How did the bike go anywhere without the key? You have the key!"

To cut a long story short, it turned out that the wife's niece; 'May' - 14 years old and with two friends - had (supposedly) gone into town (20Km away). And disappeared for about 4/5 hours while I had been attending to the cat sanctuary at the farm. I wasn't best pleased when I found out. She (the wife) had given them not only the key but the OK to go to town. Been found out telling porkies again.  Not one has a crash hat (the girls not the cats) and the Mcycle is just a village run-around without any MoT or the like.

 

WW3 battle #201 started.

 

Don't get me wrong guys; lots of times she has asked me for the use of the Mcycle. I've not refused for local trips BUT I have said NO for big road journeys. I thought me and Mrs Owl had a agreement on this. Perhaps I got it wrong again!!

 

If I do survive 'til tomorrow I might even pray to something. But I've been told to expect a very painful end.

 

Anyway; what's for sure is that I'm in the dog (in my case the cat) house again.

 

 

 

 

I fear your wisdom has deserted you at the moment.

Deceit,  deception and "white lies" is the name of the game.

As a cat lover you should be aware of Siamese ways.

Best of luck,

G

 

 

[The Dark Lord]

21 hours ago, owl sees all said:

Big war this morning.

 

I think Thai wives try to hide things away rather than come clean when they think they are in the wrong; maybe to avoid confrontation. Who knows?!

 

The wife wanted to go to the little market on the Mcycle. It's only 2K away. No prob's there but she then said "no benzine." That's strange, I thought, only two days before I put 3 litres in. "Where is the petrol dear?" "I don't know!" I sensed a change in the voice. "Someone has used the bike and gone a fair way on it. It must have been you yesterday. It's OK, I'll put some in" "I don't know who use bike!, why you keep ask me? You want trouble?!"  "Well I reckon the bike has done over 60Km and and you didn't know? How did the bike go anywhere without the key? You have the key!"

To cut a long story short, it turned out that the wife's niece; 'May' - 14 years old and with two friends - had (supposedly) gone into town (20Km away). And disappeared for about 4/5 hours while I had been attending to the cat sanctuary at the farm. I wasn't best pleased when I found out. She (the wife) had given them not only the key but the OK to go to town. Been found out telling porkies again.  Not one has a crash hat (the girls not the cats) and the Mcycle is just a village run-around without any MoT or the like.

 

WW3 battle #201 started.

 

Don't get me wrong guys; lots of times she has asked me for the use of the Mcycle. I've not refused for local trips BUT I have said NO for big road journeys. I thought me and Mrs Owl had a agreement on this. Perhaps I got it wrong again!!

 

If I do survive 'til tomorrow I might even pray to something. But I've been told to expect a very painful end.

 

Anyway; what's for sure is that I'm in the dog (in my case the cat) house again.

 

 

 

 

Good day oh wise one, 

 

i just love the photos, shows generosity of heart. Rarely met in many parts of this globe. 

 

Doesnt the constant battle to get to get to the truth get to you though? To me,and maybe I am a bit sensitive, the lying demonstrates a lack of respect ( in a sort of ' oh fuckhim he is farang no worries")  and a definite case of family ( blood) first gets right under my skin.  Add to all that deceit and duplicity the anger directed at you when you finally get to the truth and  it must make you ask yourself if it is really worth it.

 

 Certainly for me now I have got out of the bubble and can look at it from the outside, it is odd. 

 

Please be careful old friend, don't let it drag you under like it did me. 

 

 

[The Dark Lord]

18 hours ago, totally thaied up said:

TDL

 

I am still in counselling. It has been a long time gone, still and I am getting help to this very day. It slowly passes, but I am still to this day, this hour, this second, worry and care about this person well-being as well. My current wife hates it, but she has been into the sessions and saw's what damage has been done, and that has helped her. Good people have feelings, we have careful souls, and I am a soft touch, so it hurts more.

 

All I have learnt from my sessions now is that she was responsible for much; so was I just as well in some cases to blame but in the end, you do learn to suppress it as time heals everything. My counsellor told me many Thai ladies stay with drunken, poor Thai husbands because that is the best they could get, yet they still care greatly for them till death. He told me in it all depends on the person we get and those words helped me greatly.

 

I hope that helps in some way. You are not alone.

 

BTW; I am sitting in an Internet Cafe. I wanted some time out for myself. It is just so full of beautiful women and I as I look across at such perfection, a part of me still says, even with all the vexes and problems I have encountered in this country, life, even at times so painful needs to be lived. I am far past my youth but I can see lots of laughter and happiness here, and I do hope, things for all of us in Thailand can find some sense of contentment. 

Hi TTU old chum, 

 

indeed your words were the words of hope hope that I had missed either due to being self absorbed or illiterate as for sure my thread bros have been fantastically supportive throughout. 

 

I had to read your post post several times again possibly due to the two old favourites self absorbed or illiteracy but it hit right on the nail. Yes there are times when we may be wrong and there are definitely times  when what is considered as acceptable behaviour in LoS causes strife. I can see absolutely no rationale behind putting blood before husband then lying about it. There is no cultural upside and all I can see is zero respect and taking the piss out of the farang. If it is more important to be seen to support the indig blood line than it is being supportive of the one you chose to spend your life with and, in many cases, the one who certainly lifted you up a few social levels with the sudden affluence then accept the consequences of that action. 

 

I was offered psyciatric help in Thailand after suffering scary hallucinations during an expensive stay at Khorat Memorial hospital being wrongly treated for a seriously misdiagnosed condition, however I declined it. 

 

My reasoning at the time was that in all in all likelihood the psychiatrist would end up asking questions via my wife and receiving responses in the same manner. The result of my wife's translation of my answers would dictate if I became an involuntary guest at an unnamed secure facility nearby Don Meuang airport or not.

 

a bit too flimsy for me!

 

if you don't mind me asking are you receiving help from an indig psychiatrist or a farang one?

 

Cheers 

[The Dark Lord]

21 hours ago, oldhippy said:

So recognizable: getting angry when caught lying.

And that's what so <deleted> wrong about it. They lie, they get angry when found out but it's you who gets the shit. 

 

Argh think next time around I will be a non practising homosexual. Life would be a darn sight easier.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, The Dark Lord said:

And that's what so <deleted> wrong about it. They lie, they get angry when found out but it's you who gets the shit. 

 

Argh think next time around I will be a non practising homosexual. Life would be a darn sight easier.

Nah, Next time around I'm getting castrated before I get old enough to think girls are cool. I'll save myself a lifetime of pain.

[thaibeachlovers]

On ‎8‎/‎13‎/‎2017 at 5:52 PM, owl sees all said:

Big war this morning.

 

I think Thai wives try to hide things away rather than come clean when they think they are in the wrong; maybe to avoid confrontation. Who knows?!

 

 

My wife was NEVER in the wrong. It was ( and still is ) all my fault.

However, it's difficult to stay cool when one has been subject to 4 hours of back seat driving!

[The Dark Lord]

4 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

My wife was NEVER in the wrong. It was ( and still is ) all my fault.

However, it's difficult to stay cool when one has been subject to 4 hours of back seat driving!

You know what chaps, buy a two seater car, that stops back seat driving but sadly unless you own a maclaren you will always be open to driving advice from the seat behind the space where the steering wheel goes in most third world countries.........(the left side) 

 

 

[owl sees all]

The wife's brother got drunk and started getting rowdy (still lives with mum at 33). When I arrived back from the farm at 6-30 this evening the mother was at our house. The wife told me the story about the excess low cow drinking and that she will stay 'til tomorrow. And guess what; the mother being here has transformed Mrs Owl from a hissing, snarling witch into a normal person; nice even!!

 

Strange life sometimes.

 

I've made my bed and anyway I've a lovely daughter, a pond full of Koi carp and 32 (tonight's count) cats to look after.

Edited August 14, 2017 by owl sees all

[Rc2702]

1 hour ago, The Dark Lord said:

You know what chaps, buy a two seater car, that stops back seat driving but sadly unless you own a maclaren you will always be open to driving advice from the seat behind the space where the steering wheel goes in most third world countries.........(the left side) 

 

 

I hate that. My Mrs is a good driver touch wood but plant her never drove mom in the back and all hell broke loose once. I told the Mrs to drive to a salvage yard I pointed at the cars I told her to explain to her mom and all family to keep her mouth shut 100% of the time whilst she is driving or soon enough we will be back here it the car will at least . It worked and if it does not I would just turn the volume up on the radio. I'm pretty blunt to be honest but no point messing around.

[oldhippy]

45 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

The wife's brother got drunk and started getting rowdy (still lives with mum at 33). When I arrived back from the farm at 6-30 this evening the mother was at our house. The wife told me the story about the excess low cow drinking and that she will stay 'til tomorrow. And guess what; the mother being here has transformed Mrs Owl from a hissing, snarling witch into a normal person; nice even!!

 

Strange life sometimes.

 

I've made my bed and anyway I've a lovely daughter, a pond full of Koi carp and 32 (tonight's count) cats to look after.

Maybe you should regularly buy your wife's brother a bottle of low cow....

 

[totally thaied up]

4 hours ago, The Dark Lord said:

you don't mind me asking are you receiving help from an indig psychiatrist or a farang one?

I am just wiping the blood out of my mind. Just watched a Thai guy get smashed to pieces in front of me on his motorcycle. Not a chance of survival at the speed he was travelling past me.

 

I am seeing a Thai Psychiatrist; he has 25 years of experience in America and came from in fact from the finest Medical School know to man. He has both the Thai side and farang side sorted out very well.  His English is just like mine. To top this off, I have Skype sessions in Australia twice monthly to close friend who went to my school with me and is a psychologist. 

 

4 hours ago, The Dark Lord said:

I can see absolutely no rationale behind putting blood before husband then lying about it. There is no cultural upside and all I can see is zero respect and taking the piss out of the farang. If it is more important to be seen to support the indig blood line than it is being supportive of the one you chose to spend your life with and, in many cases, the one who certainly lifted you up a few social levels with the sudden affluence then accept the consequences of that action. 

It is the social level and the raising of the affluence that I do not understand and frankly, I hate it. I am low-so and admit it. Still, everyone around me see's it so different. My current wife knows what I am worth and the funny part is, with all her lands and the such, the family are much more wealthy than me. Still, because she married a farang, people in the village who never spoke to her are sucking up her arse in such blindly obvious ways, and God love her, she is not taking it. Then the farang/Thai social factor in our area because I am not a drinker, interested in socialising and spending up large, just white-washed me from the whole scene of things. My wife and I are just too low-so and boy, are we reminded of it.

 

My wife's family is very old now. Most of the village has respected them and do not ask me for much.  Her brother, God bless his works like a trooper. This time I have been lucky, but I do understand one thing. I never will understand the blood line and the 'Ktay yu' (gratefulness) toward the family and at moments notice if the wife is called to something by them, she will be given a choice from me.

 

It has not happened yet, but I hope and I mean, I REALLY hope if that time comes, that she has the rational to listen to me first as her husband and take on board what I have to say or do and then look to the family. I am well past the stage of 'taking the piss from the farang'. To date that has not happened but in my previous relation it did.

 

I hope that clears some things up. We are all a complicated mob. We make mistakes. We are human, but one thing we can do is learn.

 

On 13/08/2017 at 5:52 PM, owl sees all said:

To cut a long story short, it turned out that the wife's niece; 'May' - 14 years old and with two friends - had (supposedly) gone into town (20Km away). And disappeared for about 4/5 hours while I had been attending to the cat sanctuary at the farm. I wasn't best pleased when I found out. She (the wife) had given them not only the key but the OK to go to town. Been found out telling porkies again.  Not one has a crash hat (the girls not the cats) and the Mcycle is just a village run-around without any MoT or the like.

I had this happen in my previous relationship. The young brother of 12 years old took my old bike 40km into town. On the way home, he had an accident on a driveway. I was not home, but he got cut up real bad. No helmet. I found out, and we drove out to our home. My old bike was bashed up. He was in bandages. Everyone just was glad he was alive but did not give a flying ***** he drove an 80km round trip. I took the keys to the bike and said, no one at home now had access to the motorcycle.

 

Boy for the next three months while I kept the keys, I was the biggest a8hole the world had ever seen in the family. After he healed, my partner went out home and gave him a beating he would never forget. Just double standards.

 

I cannot understand anything. I was the a8hole, and my partner was the head honcho and the saint.

Edited August 14, 2017 by totally thaied up

[Been there done that]

27 minutes ago, totally thaied up said:

I am just wiping the blood out of my mind. Just watched a Thai guy get smashed to pieces in front of me on his motorcycle. Not a chance of survival at the speed he was travelling past me.

 

I am seeing a Thai Psychiatrist; he has 25 years of experience in America and came from in fact from the finest Medical School know to man. He has both the Thai side and farang side sorted out very well.  His English is just like mine. To top this off, I have Skype sessions in Australia twice monthly to close friend who went to my school with me and is a psychologist. 

 

It is the social level and the raising of the affluence that I do not understand and frankly, I hate it. I am low-so and admit it. Still, everyone around me see's it so different. My current wife knows what I am worth and the funny part is, with all her lands and the such, the family are much more wealthy than me. Still, because she married a farang, people in the village who never spoke to her are sucking up her arse in such blindly obvious ways, and God love her, she is not taking it. Then the farang/Thai social factor in our area because I am not a drinker, interested in socialising and spending up large, just white-washed me from the whole scene of things. My wife and I are just too low-so and boy, are we reminded of it.

 

My wife's family is very old now. Most of the village has respected them and do not ask me for much.  Her brother, God bless his works like a trooper. This time I have been lucky, but I do understand one thing. I never will understand the blood line and the 'Ktay yu' (gratefulness) toward the family and at moments notice if the wife is called to something by them, she will be given a choice from me.

 

It has not happened yet, but I hope and I mean, I REALLY hope if that time comes, that she has the rational to listen to me first as her husband and take on board what I have to say or do and then look to the family. I am well past the stage of 'taking the piss from the farang'. To date that has not happened but in my previous relation it did.

 

I hope that clears some things up. We are all a complicated mob. We make mistakes. We are human, but one thing we can do is learn.

 

I had this happen in my previous relationship. The young brother of 12 years old took my old bike 40km into town. On the way home, he had an accident on a driveway. I was not home, but he got cut up real bad. No helmet. I found out, and we drove out to our home. My old bike was bashed up. He was in bandages. Everyone just was glad he was alive but did not give a flying ***** he drove an 80km round trip. I took the keys to the bike and said, no one at home now had access to the motorcycle.

 

Boy for the next three months while I kept the keys, I was the biggest a8hole the world had ever seen in the family. After he healed, my partner went out home and gave him a beating he would never forget. Just double standards.

 

I cannot understand anything. I was the a8hole, and my partner was the head honcho and the saint.

I do. You are only farang. Even you must understand that.

[Rc2702]

1 hour ago, owl sees all said:

The wife's brother got drunk and started getting rowdy (still lives with mum at 33). When I arrived back from the farm at 6-30 this evening the mother was at our house. The wife told me the story about the excess low cow drinking and that she will stay 'til tomorrow. And guess what; the mother being here has transformed Mrs Owl from a hissing, snarling witch into a normal person; nice even!!

 

Strange life sometimes.

 

I've made my bed and anyway I've a lovely daughter, a pond full of Koi carp and 32 (tonight's count) cats to look after.

Fair play owl it's nice to see someone looking after the animals. Not a cat in sight in my Mrs families village I dare not wonder why. To be honest it's all good at present we had the rain to thank for not paying a visit I do miss the dogs mind you but they will be fine. 

 

32 cats that's really great work.

 

 

[George FmplesdaCosteedback]

Try this, I think it sums things up wonderfully....

 

 

 

G

 

[sandrabbit]

12 hours ago, owl sees all said:

I've made my bed and anyway I've a lovely daughter, a pond full of Koi carp and 32 (tonight's count) cats to look after.

That must be fun having 32 cats and I bet you don't have a problem with birds stealing your koi carp ........

 

We gained a kitten last night, we were driving home when I spotted her curled up in the road scared - yet another dumped animal on the beach road. Going to get her checked by the vet this afternoon and I hope she's been weaned, poor thing was lucky not to be squashed. This is supposed to be a Buddhist country but it's a regular occurrence to have Bangkok & Chonburi number plates dumping their dogs here. 

 

 

[owl sees all]

1 hour ago, sandrabbit said:

That must be fun having 32 cats and I bet you don't have a problem with birds stealing your koi carp

Fun!!

 

The cats keep the rats away. No rats - no snakes.

 

They do take an interest in the Koi.

 

https://youtu.be/JMfrypNLLXU

 

Sometimes there are a dozen or so on the pier just observing.

 

 

 

 

[Get Real]

On 2017-07-01 at 5:26 PM, Rc2702 said:

set up a reform school whereby an intervention is performed to turn lazy good for nothing self pitying layabouts into volunteering to work for 6 months with no pay in a harsh labour style camp.

Good luck! Won´t work, because person won´t work just won´t work. Clear enough?

[The Dark Lord]

15 hours ago, Rc2702 said:

Fair play owl it's nice to see someone looking after the animals. Not a cat in sight in my Mrs families village I dare not wonder why. To be honest it's all good at present we had the rain to thank for not paying a visit I do miss the dogs mind you but they will be fine. 

 

32 cats that's really great work.

 

 

I fully concur Captain Kirk, old Wise one seems to have got his stuff ( avoid the deletion) well wired and for that I salute him!

 

life is never an easy path but if you can ride the ups and downs it is fulfilling. My problem is/was the ups were more than deleted by the downs after 17 years together. 

 

Made de a big mistake in that all our contacts were linked by the cloud so when I deleted my line app I was wrong in my assumption that I was uncontactable because being stupid I put my new UK mobile number in my contact details on my ipad.............

[The Dark Lord]

17 hours ago, totally thaied up said:

I hope that clears some things up. We are all a complicated mob. We make mistakes. We are human, but one thing we can do is learn.

Hi TTU, you seem to have landed on your feet this time, congrats. Your wisdom infers you are from Old Owl stock, he is a wise one too!

 

mine never criticised my driving and never ever tried to Lord it over others as she was married to a farang. We had shed loads of money when we first came over  ut lost it in a business deal gone ( horribly) wrong. She never criticised that, taking it on the chin and adjusting accordingly. Others however accused me openly of being "khee niou" for not spreading the perceived wealth. Despite the loss of face she never rose to those occasions. The only crack in our relationship was a very deep streak of jealousy and a great deal of insecurity. I am totally honest when I tell you that I never gave her any reason to have those feelings and I strongly suspect I was paying the price for the activities of the former husband who could not keep his "chap" zippered up and often beat her, so much so she was hospitalised numerous times. 

 

I don t beat women and certainly nowadays only bring out the love log to perform bathroom related activities. It has never appeared in a side show, ever. 

 

That begs the question"why am I being punished for the ex's transgressions?"

Edited August 15, 2017 by The Dark Lord

[LannaGuy]

16 hours ago, Been there done that said:

I do. You are only farang. Even you must understand that.

farang are below the pet dog and if you don't get that Thailand will get YOU

[LannaGuy]

22 hours ago, The Dark Lord said:

And that's what so <deleted> wrong about it. They lie, they get angry when found out but it's you who gets the shit. 

 

Argh think next time around I will be a non practising homosexual. Life would be a darn sight easier.

Just leave and provide for your daughter. What you've got now is not what most of us would call 'a life'.