I find having factory installed software to locate the vehicle an excellent feature of my EV. I’m able to see where my car is at, anytime I want. No need to call up the driver as to where they are. I also have zero concern that the CPC wants to know where my car is at any given point in time. Or that they know I listen to 80’s music while driving.
As for OTA software, such a great convenience, not having to bring the car into the workshop for major/minor improvements. I also need a phone signal to refuel my ICEV, to scan pay the exorbitant amounts they charge. As for minor repairs that can be easily done by any mechanic with just a few tools, I like that EVs don’t need minor repairs. Very few moving parts and all that…
And to answer your concerns about the spyware aspect, I have zero concern.