Yes good point. I always do my 90 day reports in person so that I now know all the staffs first names and have built up friendly relations.
My hope is that although they have to abide by the rules as do I , they will at least be sympathetic and hopefully give me a short extension of some sort. Should my wife die before me , my own plan is to leave Thailand ASAP with as many convertable assets as possible. The house and land can go to my son in law and his wife and kids....lovely deserving family.