donna

sort of like asking where to buy a block of ice in the north pole!

same from me. i wish you all a very merry christmas and a safe, prosperous and fabulous new year.

to all of you, i hope that 2009 brings good health, good friends, and success.

hes a bit too pretty for my liking - and should back off the lip gloss. but i do see the attraction.

i have to agree with ladyheather here.

just because a man is attracted to men, it doesnt mean that he WANTS you.

llikewise, if a woman is attracted to men, it doesnt mean that she wants YOU.

sheesh. some of you ought to get a grip. (sounds like some of you may already have a firm grip)

you need to get up to THC near Thapae Gate. they do fabulous vegetarian dishes.

you cant miss it....its got the rasta colours outside, and lots of funky hemp clothing inside. the restaurant is on the top floor.

all department stores will carry rice cookers, some of them small enough for just 1-2 cups of cooked rice.

WOAH! stunning work there, cymruamtyth1 (god thats hard to type)

saki100, you should be able to get 1 year in advance with a special prescription from your doctor. this works out a heck of a lot cheaper too, and i dont think its anywhere near AUD20 a month.

if you explain to your doc that you will be away for some time, they will be able to write you this special prescription.

oh yeah, i forgot about the membership thing. well worth it though, hey. they also do a lovely facial using Jurlique products, which i love. give it a go.

yes, you are currently working under Thai law, and you should be entitled to severance pay, the same as anyone else working in Thailand.

off topic comments have been deleted. please keep it on topic folks.

jesus. what a horrid story. silly billy she is though. id have stopped as soon as i started to resemble Mr Moonface from the Magic Faraway Tree.

did he say 'farang kii nok'?

couldnt agree more mssabai.

when waxing 'down there' you dont want to feel as if they are putting a bed sheet on your bits and ripping it off. no sir-ee! give me someone who knows what they are doing any day.

perfection have been well trained and are by far the best bikini waxers i found in asia.

i dont know how you came to the conclusion that soi bangla is quiet! not the perfect choice for him i would say, especially if he does like to sleep sometimes.

i used to stay at a place called Jinnys whcih is up near Montes pub on Sainamyen road. nice little guesthouse with a pool.

samuijens, we are in rainy season now, and today is overcast with a breeze. its cooler than it has been in the past few days, which were absolutely sweltering.

the rain comes and goes, but at the moment its mainly at night, and the days are free to allow you to do as you please.

i wouldnt be stressing about the rain situation to be honest.

there are some great things for kids to do here. the Taman Safari Marine Park is great, and you can even stay there in african style rooms. pretty cool. another place which has loads of elephants is the Elephant Safari Park Lodge (completely different place to the other one). they have great rooms, really well treated animals and lots to do.

Waterbom park is great for kids, and kids at heart.

for the shoppers, homewares are really cheap here, especially if you go up to the Tegalalang area (close to ubud).

im sure you will have a great time here.

nah, purely a physical thing miggy.

personally i think hes a bit of orright. he'll do for the next few months when the country decide they are sick of him and roll in the next candidate.....

i found perfection spa to be very clean and professional, so they were the 'winners' of all my waxing needs in phuket. when waxing 'down there' i think its worth paying for a good job.

Sorry, but I always find that men and women who are attracted to people on the basis of race to be a bit shallow.

here here Garro. couldnt agree more with you on that one.

if youre still in pain, that indicates that SOMETHING is wrong. you should get yourself off to a chiropractor or physio as soon as you can. two weeks is a long time to be in pain, and the longer you leave these things the harder they are to fix.

stories like this disgust me.

this MAY have been caused by the surgery, or it may not. you may never really find out. but one thing for sure is that you must find out what the operation really was for. maybe in the stress of the whole situation you mis-heard what was really going on?

if your wife is passing 'bits' then it does look like she may be having an early miscarriage. this is not unusual, though. many women miscarriage in the early stages of pregnancy, and it just seems like a heavy period. they/we never realise its a miscarriage in many cases.

if your wife did indeed suffer a burst cyst, its a very painful and potentially dangerous situation, so surgery may not have been avoidable.

best you get back to the doctor and get the full story in a calm environment.

i wish you both the best of luck.

Dr Panya did an operation on my shoulder a few years back. (i dont recommend having shoulder surgery for fun for anyone). he does a lot of knee surgery in bangkok and i can highly recommend him. hes a decent man, a good doctor, and doesnt beat around the bush.

if the doctor said that only blood and a cyst were removed, then your wife could still be pregnant.

alternatively, she may be in the middle of a miscarriage, taking in to consideration that you said that she was bleeding now.

infidelity is still infidelity whether the other partner is same sex or not.

i agree with girlx and if you would say that your wife is bisexual. nothing wrong with that. but i dont see why people assume that the 'other woman' would necessarily want to be part of a threesome.

one does have to ask the question: if she cheated with a man, how would you feel? is the betrayal on the same level or would you end the marriage? would you allow her to see another man a couple of times a week?

(playing devils advocate here)