Harry Palmer

...whilst thailand continues to attract the so-called 'sex-pat' or 'sex-tourist', your typical prostitute will never run a business of her own, or even do the home laundry or dishes. anything that requires self-discipline and real work is not something they're going to do. they will sit around and watch TV all day until it's time to go to the go-go bar or pickup joint to get screw*d - 'make money on their backs'...

...their main purpose in life the appears to be to serve working men by providing sexual entertainment, to bring skilled foreign men and tourist money into thailand, and to bring their money into the countryside...

I think girls from good backgrounds have these problems as well, right Harry?

that's true to a certain extent... the pitfalls are not strictly limited to bargirls, thai ladies vary as much as mainstream ladies do in most countries. however most mainstream thai ladies are faithful, and money's usually not a big issue, but there are other things to consider... i'm of the opinion that mainstream thai girls are not available in a sex-for-money arrangement...

i've heard countless arguments from guys who have taken on a prostitute as a ladyfriend or wife and who defend them. in the vast majority of these cases, the relationship doesn't last much longer. few have lasted. the guy is then reminded 'i told you so!...

i wondered where fatso had go to... yeah like i'm gonna listen to you... my threads are of interest.. hence the response thus far... stop posting pics of your gay boyfriends (in yer dreams) wearing leather costumes you sick homosexual... you are just the sort that thailand could well do without...

Your campaign could destroy the economies of hundreds of Issan villages if you keep this up.

heng... i dealt with the issan issue in a previous thread...

The Economics of Growing Rice

I think the question we need to ask Harry is this....

Are these experiences you have had yourself while in a relationship with an ex BG, or is this just what you've read from the postings of disgruntled ex husbands/BF on forums... or maybe what someone has told you BG's are like... do you have any original first hand experience...??

What are your qualifications for making these generalised comments about ex BG's.. ?

totster

hang on a minute... your first comment in my thread was to...

Y A W N ... ZZZzzzzzzzzzzz

now you got all interested... as you've seen it's gonna be a HP blockbuster

i don't have any first hand experience cos i have made a point of only ever mingling with ladies from good backgrounds...

...it's merely one respected posters (mine) opinion based upon years of observing these things...

live in an apartment building populated with prostitutes... wake up late... lazy... watch TV for a few hours... eat noodle packs... play cards and gamble with friends... work in go-go or freelance bars... gets a customer... sometimes more than one per nite... etc.

naked gun

so many of em' talk about 'saving' bargirls. i reckon they should save em' selves first 'rich' foreigner comes in and sees these "poor" girls being 'exploited'.. so they get on their white horse and try to change the world...

…thinking of making your bargirl into a girlfriend or wife, then you should think it through in advance and have realistic and reasonable expectations…

…attributes such as femininity, compliance & sex may be enough for you to begin with. however, once the initial glow of the relationship starts to fade, it can become a bad situation for both parties…

…remember that the majority of ladies who take any interest in farangs are prostitutes from isaan, a relatively poor region. they aren't shy to be seen with a farang, even an overweight drunken slob, like many of you! and in terms of class, there's only one way: up. they have little to lose. they have financial motivation. they have few more interesting alternatives other than perhaps milking the buffalo or planting rice…

some of the problems associated with ex-prostitutes…

lazy, unfaithful, irresponsible, dishonest & money-consuming…

…generally it’s better not to consider a girl for friendship or marriage if she's been in the business for more than three months, unless, of course, you don't mind dealing with the aforementioned highlighted problems...

'sword of truth & trusty shield of fair play'

you followed my advice then... good chap

...nor ventured onto Bkktonight recently.

a snap of djpat as he got thru typing that last response

1. I love to fish. I have fished in Udorn and Khon Kaen are there good fishing holes in Korat?

http://www.anglingthailand.com/

you may receive a more informed response if you post your requirement in the teachers forum... no guarantees as most of em' are drunken leches... but give it a go

Zorro... The Gay Blade

dark star

AMITY

kayo ... me being the moderator of this particular thread, i feel duty bound to query your post... i did a quick google & couldn't find AMITY? please provide some evidence for your outrageous selection

in the meantime back to 'a'

all the presidents men...

henry V (a former king of england)

Hey, at least most temples are still sanitary.

uhmmmm. but are they.... what about the recent gay monk revelations?

little women

for unbiased reporting, the latest world affairs news & a nice pair of female breasts

... The Sun Newspaper

on reflection i have the following advice for nebiew entering the kingdom...

...DO NOT take dark clothes unless you want to cook in them. TAKE LIGHT COLOURED CLOTHES. khaki is your best colour as it shows the dirt least of all of the light colours. don't arrive in your big game outfit with pith helmet unless you want to be the laughing stock of the locals... pith hat and elephant gun will have to be left back home in the cupboard!!!

...wear long sleeves and trousers with shoes and socks at night as mosquitoes like a juicy ankle and they come to feed out mostly at dawn and dusk...

...if you would like to bring small gifts, t-shirts & caps (with logos) and/or ball point pens are always welcome by the natives. also welcome are school supplies such as notebook paper, notepads, coloring pencils, etc. for the isaan children...

i have a dream... & it is the mission of the H.P.L.F to see that it does come to pass & the duty of every responsible law abiding & respectable farang in the kingdon to support our efforts...

You're gay.

we in the H.P.L.F don't discriminate against gay people...

in fact some of my best friends are katoeys, as you will find out when my book is published next spring... they (katoeys) are pehaps the saddest of all sex workers in thailand...

Ask Singapore-they tried this approach didn't work! Now look at them..rated the best spot in the world.

comparing singapore to thailand is like comparing a delicate ladies g-string with a pair of your skiddy old white tesco-lotus y-fronts...

You think that could ever happen Mr Palmer?

they said man could never fly... but we did...

they said man could never land on the moon... and they were probably right (conspiracy theories )...

they said that men couldn't wear ladies underwear without ridicule from friends & family... but we do...

i have a dream... & it is the mission of the H.P.L.F to see that it does come to pass & the duty of every responsible law abiding & respectable farang in the kingdon to support our efforts...

less opportunity for licentious behavior=less sex tourists & sex-pats...

less sex tourists & sex-pats=better international reputation for the los...

better international reputation for the los=more farang family oriented holidays...

more farang family oriented holidays=a less salacious tourist industry with greater revenues, more pleaseant place for thais & farangs to live & work...

While this may be true I have spoken to a couple of girls in a notorious freelance establishment in Suk who easily make 30-40,000 a month. They  take a minimum of 1 customer a day. One particularly attractive young lady has taken 5 in a day.

I guess she can sleep in the next morning.

I would hope they save for a rainy day but I've been assured they don't it all goes on the family. Shame that.

i should point out that sibling poolcleaner is one of the H.P.L.F's senior christian missionaries working with our saffron-robed holy men colleagues in looking out for the welfare of thailand's women (both the fallen & those who are about to fall)...

god bless him...

H.P.L.F mission statement...

"discourage farang males from visiting the nearest red-light district once the sun has set... "

how i hear you cry!... we are planning a serious of evening pub trivia quizzes at a location near you...