Metapod

on the other hand i think the only people who meet your qualifications are SEX tourists. NHL and speak english...................................lol.

there is an ice hockey league with thai and foreign players in bangkok.

you would be better off NOT making friends with the people on here.

just read some of the threads on the front page from these fossils.

best bet is to just get involved in some activities you like here and meet people with common interests. You said you like NHL? Head over to Central Rama9. There is a group of canadians that plays ice hockey there.

I also play Badminton and have made friends with people I play with also.

unless you want to hug a beer with some jaded and ignorant sexpat geriatrics, steer clear of this lot. just look at their replies in your thread. just a bunch of bitter <deleted> with nothing better to do than spread misery online.

I love the way these fossils try and convince themselves that it is normal to financially support someone in exchange for sex and/or a relationship.

"cmon guys! everyone pays eventually! its no different than im 60 and paying a third world hooker half my age a monthly wage to stay with me. its normal bro"

got to keep the 'dream' alive.

Why would you want to take her to Pattaya its renowned for one thing, take your girl somewhere nice , not that rat infested sewer where without doubt many will think she is a hooker too, is that what you want ?

DONT DO IT find somewhere nicer than that shi*hole

his "girlfriend" is a hooker, so they will fit in just fine in pattaya.

depends on your budget

To some of the younger guys on here: When I first started traveling to PRChina 25+ years ago, there was no internet, no cell phone, no ATMs -- everything I did had to be by telex and I carried with me a short wave radio else California could've tumbled into the sea and I would n't know about it.

So the ease with which some come here today or go back and forth to home country, manage their finances while in Thailand, et al is a pretty recent thing. When I first started learning Chinese pre-Nixon's trip to China it was considered a classical language with no practical reason to learn it.

"back in my day we had to walk 20km up hill to get to school"

Your post is irrelevant to the topic?

It is relevant to your comment 'Majority of young guys are getting play back home and here, probably a lot more here as you know Thailand is an easy place to play around.' You couldn't until recently be back home and here and Thailand was not until recently an easy place to play around --if you wanted to play around in Thailand you had to pretty much cut yourself off from the rest of the world.

Again, this has no relevance on the topic.

Are you suffering from dementia or attempting to derail the thread?

I buy mine at Huay Kwang market. Opposite side of the road of the Elephant shrine thing.

To some of the younger guys on here: When I first started traveling to PRChina 25+ years ago, there was no internet, no cell phone, no ATMs -- everything I did had to be by telex and I carried with me a short wave radio else California could've tumbled into the sea and I would n't know about it.

So the ease with which some come here today or go back and forth to home country, manage their finances while in Thailand, et al is a pretty recent thing. When I first started learning Chinese pre-Nixon's trip to China it was considered a classical language with no practical reason to learn it.

"back in my day we had to walk 20km up hill to get to school"

Your post is irrelevant to the topic?

You won't see any girl anywhere in the world with a pin-up picture of John Goodman on her wall.

Maybe not, but I bet that John Goodman has no trouble getting dates with young, attractive women. Something about being wealthy and famous attracts them.

Thanks for proving his point.

All it proves is that men with money can get young, attractive women. Is that a secret? As far as young Western guys in Thailand go, if they were so amazingly handsome and charming, they would be cleaning up back home and would not have to be over here bottom feeding with the rest of us.

You realize you are affirming HardenSoul's and my point here? lol.

On the topic of young guys. You got beta males and losers at every age group.

Majority of young guys are getting play back home and here, probably a lot more here as you know Thailand is an easy place to play around. As for bottom feeding? lol.. I know a lot of the girls I hang with or have picked up would not even entertain the thought of some obese foreigner the age of their dad. We didn't have to move here to get laid like you. Sorry to burst your bubble.

Oh God, mate. Seriously??!! That's a weak argument . . . even coming from you.

Right up there with the "It's true, darling; size doesn't matter" some men have heard all their lives.

You won't see any girl anywhere in the world with a pin-up picture of John Goodman on her wall.

Saying that most women don't appreciate and desire men with good looks and/or well-kept bodies just proves just how deluded you truly are.

It is not important to women how men look and that is why there are not thousands of women's magazines with photos of men.

Unbelievable...

You are so detached from reality it blows my mind.

Flame? Awww. Cat got your tongue? So you tell me why there are thousands upon thousands of magazines and billion dollar industries that promote men looking at women without clothes on and almost none promoting men without clothes on for women?

I didn't flame you. I made no comment about you at all. I only asked a civil question.

Flame? Really?

Never heard of Adam Levine? Twilight? Justin Bieber? Any other prominent young male media star? What do they all have in common? What is the demographic of their audience?

Are you really this stupid? (thats a flame)

Why don't you join us back in the real world?

Oh God, mate. Seriously??!! That's a weak argument . . . even coming from you.

Right up there with the "It's true, darling; size doesn't matter" some men have heard all their lives.

You won't see any girl anywhere in the world with a pin-up picture of John Goodman on her wall.

Saying that most women don't appreciate and desire men with good looks and/or well-kept bodies just proves just how deluded you truly are.

It is not important to women how men look and that is why there are not thousands of women's magazines with photos of men.

Unbelievable...

You are so detached from reality it blows my mind.

The old delusional men who say women do not objectify guys have no idea at all.

You should see the stuff 18-21 year old girls are spamming on my facebook everyday. They even take photos of random guys at the beach and guys walking around the street then drool over it with their friends.

Why do you think Twilight is so popular? What about Adam Levine?

Of cause no one has ever objectified you, so of cause this doesn't exist in your alternate reality of life..

You won't see any girl anywhere in the world with a pin-up picture of John Goodman on her wall.

Maybe not, but I bet that John Goodman has no trouble getting dates with young, attractive women. Something about being wealthy and famous attracts them.

Thanks for proving his point.

Stop being an idiot.

You might be able to get a younger woman back home if you maybe lost some weight, changed your attitude towards women and, in doing so, brought a better overall package to the table.

I realise everyone's different but when I see old, fat, bald guys with much younger, small, slim Thai birds, I wonder what kind of person the man must be to not give a monkey's that the girl almost certainly finds his physique revolting.

Maybe I'm in a minority - I'm sure I'm not - but sex is a two-way thing (unless you're in a three or foursome) and the best mutual sex - in the context of the fairly disposable relationships that often occur between farangs and Thais - usually happens when both are genuinely, physically attracted to each other. I get a kick out of knowing the girl I'm with is aroused by my physique so I take care of myself.

Can the typical small, slim Thai girl say - hand on heart - that she doesn't feel like throwing up every time her 110+ kg walrus climbs aboard and is sweating like a turkey at Thanksgiving within three thrusts?

Doesn't she just endure the torture for the money?

I'm not trying to be nasty but you don't know much about women. One thing you can be sure of, is; what you find ugly some women will not.

Women and men are just wired differently.

Most people in Bangkok that are aroused by a male physique are not women.

Wut?

You have got to be kidding me here. lol.

I think I will show a few girls this thread tomorrow night for a good laugh.

I'm with you. Who cares what other people you never say hello to think about what you do?

I don't mind to admit that i'm a bit fat and i'm older now but only 50. when I was a kid I thought 40 was old but now i'm 50 I don't feel very old.

In Australia I cant get a woman who is young or even a woman who looks much good at all. I got my own house, own business, good car and I'm not a bad bloke but no women here will hardly look at me. Maybe some who are fatter even than me and I'm 110 kilo

First time I came to thailand I couldn't beleve all these guys my age and older than me with their hot young girlfriend. Really I thought I was dreaming

Now I have a girlfriend for 2 years and she is 30 and smoking hot. I stay in Thailand for 6 months sometime and I'm happy whenever I go there.

Just be happy and forget about all those people who are jealous

Another delusional old fool.

"no girl would even look at me in australia, now i have a smoking hot girl half my age!!" lol

I've got no problem with people doing what they want, but don't delude yourself and others about the reality of the situation. That is when I start to roll my eyes.

I also have to laugh at the insinuation that I am jealous? You realize I am in my 20s in BKK? You need to get your head out of the clouds.

You are a young bloke metpod just in your twenties. I thought i knew everything back then like you. I dont mind saying I served some time back then and thought i was a tough guy and everyone else was a fool. I was just young and I didnt have the experience to know better like i do now.

I worked hard and made a business and made some money. I was married once to an aussie woman for 10 years but that was 15 years back now.

I know i'm fat and not such a great catch for aussie women. I know that these young birds in thailand like me becasue i look after them with money and a place to stay. So what?

How am i delusional? I just want to be happy and I am. It is what it is and suits us both fine. You seem very angry for a young bloke and i know how that feels. Its okay mate, maybe when you are my age you will be happy like me

Well your second post is a completely different outlook to your first one. Like I said, I have no problem if both people are happy and doing what they want to do. The part that rustles my jimmies is when people get on their soapbox and delude themselves and try to convince others to enter their faux-reality.

Your first post was delusional because parroted the same stuff as the other guy. Then you labelled the others like me who are speaking the hard truth to him as "jealous", when I can promise you, I am anything but that.

I'm young but hardly naive. Just calling it how it is.

Hate to break it to you, but most people who see you 2 together will think she's a prostitue. It's the image thailand has of old men with young girls.

Actually, most Thai people think that any Thai woman with a farang is a prostitute (or was one before she met you) - young and beautiful or old and ugly - so why worry about it? Go for the young, hot one if that is what rings your bell.

I'm with you. Who cares what other people you never say hello to think about what you do?

I don't mind to admit that i'm a bit fat and i'm older now but only 50. when I was a kid I thought 40 was old but now i'm 50 I don't feel very old.

In Australia I cant get a woman who is young or even a woman who looks much good at all. I got my own house, own business, good car and I'm not a bad bloke but no women here will hardly look at me. Maybe some who are fatter even than me and I'm 110 kilo

First time I came to thailand I couldn't beleve all these guys my age and older than me with their hot young girlfriend. Really I thought I was dreaming

Now I have a girlfriend for 2 years and she is 30 and smoking hot. I stay in Thailand for 6 months sometime and I'm happy whenever I go there.

Just be happy and forget about all those people who are jealous

Another delusional old fool.

"no girl would even look at me in australia, now i have a smoking hot girl half my age!!" lol

I've got no problem with people doing what they want, but don't delude yourself and others about the reality of the situation. That is when I start to roll my eyes.

I also have to laugh at the insinuation that I am jealous? You realize I am in my 20s in BKK? You need to get your head out of the clouds.

The problem about having a young Thai wife is that you generally have no common interests.

Sex is great, but it is not enough for a long term relationship

Money is a common interest. You have it she wants it!

Get real guys. Young beautiful office girls dont want farang 20 years her senoir for romance..................lol.

These guys are <deleted> clueless.

Bunch of old and ugly beta males who couldn't get action back home and now think they are playboys in their twilight years. The OP even admitted he is ugly and had no success with women back home. He even said he had ZERO confidence to even approach and talk to women.

Now he is trying to boast about his sexual escapades in Thailand with women half his age after he spent the first month here whoring it up in soi cowboy to boost his fragile ego?

The poor guy is delusional.

That is not a great deal of difference in age. You both happy keep it up. You are not old at 42. I have been married over 4 yrs, I am now 72 she is 44 we love each other so much, she says to me my age is just a number. Been together over 6 yrs. I used to have a cock on me like a Jerusalem Cat now like a Jerusalem Donkey.

We go every where together, I have never been to a bar on my own since together and never will. You keep it up Mate stuff other people.

Long happy life together.

Wrong

For a girl in their early 20s, that is almost the age of their parents...

Do not delude yourself.

You are 72 years old. Of cause being "old" is subjective between groups of people, and the age gap becomes more natural the older people get.To you this guy isn't old. But to thai girls in their 20s he is a dinosaur.

I am in my 20s so I have a better idea about this than you guys who are looking at it from the outside.

Do you honestly think a young bird is with you cos your a film star look-a-like ?

Young birds generally go with older farangs for one reason.

Of course she's not with me for my looks. I have no looks. And looks don't pay the bills anyways.

She's with me because we can communicate in Thai, I live here, I want a family, I am responsible, don't believe in beating a girl (perhaps thats how you keep yours in line?), treat her as well as I can and make her feel special. Much the same reasons anyone is in a relationship.

What is the one reason you're referring to? Money? Ah no….many girls here are offered large amounts of money for sex and turn it down. My girlfriend could earn far more in a bar than her regular office job. She enjoys visiting the bar for shooting pool and a few drinks but she loves the work she does in the office. If you think all girls dating older guys are money hungry, you're way off.

One day, ask a hot girl online to see all her emails of cash offers for sex. Its unbelievable (and pathetically sad). No girl wants to go to a movie alone, eat alone or have a family alone. Money doesn't change that. And in terms of a more physically attractive guy, maybe some girls want a guy who isn't offered phone numbers everyday and can appreciate what he has as he doesn't have so many choices as a young, better looking guy.

Your head is so far up your own ass that you actually believe the septic you're spewing.

Nothing against beta males enjoying success with the opposite in Thailand, just don't lie to yourself about the realities.

wonder how many people who were against people using eD visa to stay in Thailand will support a guy trying to abuse the visa here to buy and run a company.

Check around Soi Rangnam. I've found the places around there to be fairly pricey compared to other BTS areas nearby. There are cheap places about though. Specially if you don't mind being a short walk away towards Rajaprop.

6 month contract will be a sticker with a lot of places too. Usually they increase rent for a 6 month contract over a 12 month one, making the 9k budget a little more elusive.

This moron wants people to work for free.

As a web developer, I HATE people like you with a passion.