once you get in your 40s not easy picking them up for free, in Thailand you could but no point unless looking for a relationship, don't forget guys often pay girls so they leave
for a start it's not the same woman so they can't press my buttons and money comes out. I spend money in 7 Eleven also, maybe I'm an ATM for them in your book?
Another thing is those farang that are fluent in thai of which there are few, many claim to be fluent but aren't really, anyway they are total bores, won't miss an opportunity to try and teach other people words although no one is really interested