Maybe she could have been ok. I would not have been worried about the policeman brother; there are benefits there, plus if she turned out to be a keeper, there are more benefits. She works as a nurse in a government hospital so she is paid by the government. Married to her, you get free Hospital care that includes everything, operations, CT scans, X-rays, Biopsies if needed, free dental, and free massages at all government hospitals in Thailand.