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Seriously, you just posted this?
I'm sure you monthly supply of Detol, mouthwash, antiseptic wipes, condoms, douches, Valtrex, doctors visits and antibiotics are worth it.
You need to get over your inferiority complex and raise your standards.
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I am surprised that there are posters that share the same "flawed character" gene as FunFon.
Trying to somehow blame the Landlord, or saying that FF behavior is acceptable is reprehensible.
Life is fair...and he is about to find out just how fair it is. I hope it hurts.
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5% per month is not unusual.
Extortionate, but not unusual.
Don't get involved. This is very normal for Thai's...and don't even consider paying it back on her behalf.
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If the landlady hasn't been paying her tax on the rental income (common in Thailand), reporting the unpaid rent to a government agency may not be worth her while. The tax man can ask for back taxes over many years.
She many not have the option of reporting your debt.
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That's a good point, and one more in favour of my approaching her early on playing it straight out to negotiate her letting me exit more or less gracefully.
But others are telling me via PM that's a stupid idea and I should do my best to just disappear when all my ducks are lined up, even if I have to pay another month's rent before leaving.
Thanks very much for your thoughtful and constructive input.
Note (again and again for those who insist on thinking the worst) none of this has anything to do with running out on the debt itself, just the practical strategies required to enable me to be able to pay it off - and obviously get back to being self-sufficient supporting my family properly - as soon as possible.
Any sympathy I had for you is now gone.
The fact that you even acknowledged the taxation issue as a negotiating tool shows me that you really have no respect for a Thai landlady that has extended credit for you and your family. You owe her. Pay her.
The solution is not complex. Get home. Get 3 jobs. Live in your Mum's spare room and eat noodles until you have paid everyone back, including your ex-Thai wife who is literally mortgaging the rice farm for you to fly home.
You made bad decisions and seem to want to continue that trend. Your questions project your intent.
Say what you want, but I think you will get home and stiff everyone. That's just the vibe I get from you.
I truly feel sad for your kids and your ex-wife. They deserve better...put it right.
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Owing the government money, and owing a private person (or company) money are two entirely different subjects.
Perhaps, but the question was more to do with technology and the ability to stop a person leaving, and my example was to show that it is possible.
...but I have also had experience of a person trying to skip out on a sizeable payment. It took my lawyers only one phone call to get him in the immigration system, and the person was able to confirm that he was. He paid, but it did take 2 weeks before he was removed again. So, I never tested the system fully, but my belief is that it works.
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I was caught leaving Thailand on a business trip without paying company VAT a few years back.
My accountant was at fault as he had no paid the VAT on income above 1.8million baht and had not informed me of my requirements.
Bottom line, I was caught at immigration, taken by Officers to a back room, informed of the issue and told that I cannot leave the country and because it was late at night on a Friday, could not leave the airport. I was in the airport lockup for the weekend. No big deal.
On the Monday it was explained that I was Blacklisted from leaving Thailand, had to deposit 1million baht as guarantee for the VAT and had to wait on an official Government audit to clear everything up. I was allowed to leave on business, but required special permission and documents - that was a hassle, but doable. It took 1 year.
So, I believe that if the landlady has sufficient evidence (contracts) then she could stop you leaving the country until payment of the debt.
My advice would be to settle the debts and not risk the detention and costs that will come with that. She may be all smiles to your face and then straight to the police after you tell her...unless you do it from transit in Korea.
I will not comment on situation...because it would get ugly.
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OP, you state that this attack wasn't to do with jealous boyfriends etc., but you're are certain it was premeditated attack within a crowd of thousands.
Do you bear scars of permanent disfigurement? If it was a strong acid you would have obvious scars whether you were quickly hosed down or not.
You further state that this was an attack simply because you were farang. How can you be certain?
The OP has nothing to back up his story.
Also, prefers to continue to post negativity throughout the board.
Wooloomooloo and DLock, best move on, major troll in da house.
Agree...never happened.
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The first swallow of Spring
The first snow of Winter
The first death of Songkran.
And so the new season begins.
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What's happening to Thai Visa?
It seems like every second post is some Newbie getting into trouble with Thai girls.
Marcoose, your buddy is fine. He's clearly green and projects a certain naivety that the girl has picked up on and is trying to exploit, which considering she is only 18, she has learnt well from all the other whores and gold diggers.
Tell this girl to beat it and move on. By her past actions, she will probably escalate the situation by screaming and threatening, but it will pass.
Seriously, you guys need to smarten up and harden up.
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I've had my share of close calls on that road with cars on the wrong side or tourists looking the wrong way.
And that intersection with Chiang Moi Rd is basically a game of chicken.
It's always been that way, probably because of the road layout or poor city planning.
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nice friends she has, trying to hook up with you behind her back.
you can judge a girl by the company she keeps
Agree.
In fact, I like the quote "Show me your friends, and I'll show you your future".
It has served me well in judging people.
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"I intend to ensure continuity as per the instructions of Army chief General Prayuth Chan-ocha. My predecessor Lt-General Udom did a good job in the 4th Army Region over the past two years."
Translation - "I will follow flawed orders and continue the failure of the last guy. I one have 1 year. How bad could I f%@k it up?"
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I agree with VF.
This is how Alex saw the relationship. Whose to say it did or didn't happen, but this is how he processed it in his mind.
But it does seem like this girl (and her family) see this as a lot more than he does....and don't underestimate the families input in this "relationship".
Alex, you are 21, and this is the first Thai girl you have met. In fact, she took you prisoner from the moment you landed, therefore avoiding the risk that you would be captured by another girl.
Son, whilst the advice on TV can be brutal, consider it experience and wisdom and take note. I recommend you come back to Thailand a single man. Learn about Thailand. Make some mistakes. Have fun...but don't fall in "love" with the first girl you met online...
...but the last thing a Greenhorn wants to do is offer relationship advice on TV after 9 days.
Enjoy, Grasshopper.
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Given the severity and attention to detail in your story, I'm sure you took a few mobile phone pictures to check out the back of your head.
Why not post a few and silence the critics?
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Posters are so far being very nice to you on this rather loaded topic.
I suggest you go check where "she also works at a fitness centrum somewhere in Bangkok, not doing anything with her college degree for the moment". when she is working. Always worth knowing that she has a real job and where her money is really coming from.
As for the parents...way too soon. No reason for you to meet them or them to meet you. While she says it's not a big deal...it is.
Be wary young Jedi. The force has a dark side and the force seems strong with this one.
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For the love of God...make this topic a sticky.
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So, the whore goes the long game, you spoil her plans, and now she wants recompense?
Spend the 20k on improving your security, adding wifi cameras and lodging a Police report - give her a copy of the report and tell her to leave you alone.
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husbandbrother is a low-life POS that won't bother getting up his couch to do anything. She will replace his whiskey money in a day or 2.Seriously, the amount of guys on here afraid of their own shadow is astounding. These girls have learnt this behavior because of the "shadow puppet" fools that pay the money. Do you think a Thai guy would put up with this crap? Hell no.
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..so why remove the images on the OP's projects?
They sound interesting.
OP, if you could PM me Top's contact details. I have a project I need an Architect and Project Manager for. Thanks.
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Songkran is fun for one day of getting wet and then a few days holiday doing nothing...but stock up.
The Thais have fun and seem to stop playing water at about 7pm. It's the dumbass foreigners who start a few days early, end a few days late and keep throwing water long after 7pm.
Last year walking along Soi 11 to eat at Limoncello some drunk farang doused me with a bucket. I told him politely not to do it, but he did it anyway. All his friends were laughing and thought it was funny until I walked up and knocked him clean out. They stopped laughing.
Limoncello was closed. I was wet.
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So, the Thai Military is aware of a group of "unidentified armed forces" that are clearly armed and trained to kill 13 Myanmar soldiers without sustaining and injury? And they cannot identify them and need to ask the "Myanmar side" who they were? And tries to blame Thai Villagers?
Hmmmmmmm.....
Dear Yingluck,
You know that gas pipeline that you need for Thailand's electrical needs?
Well, consider it closed indefinitely.
Set your aircon to whatever you want. It wont work.
Regards
Myanmar Government.
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News Flash!PM asks public to set temperature at 26 degrees Celsius to help conserve energy
"Public asks PM for better electricity system"
"Public asks for better PM".
Fixed.
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What do your wife's family think about this? Are they leading the case or supporting you, or just watching from a distance?
Whilst I applaud anyone standing up to Thai's in situations like this, I am surprised that you are going to so much trouble for 2500 baht when you were not the victim or the building owner.
I know it's the principle of the matter, but my time is worth more than 2500. But I wish you luck.
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Really sad to hear about Api.
I did not know him, but from the video clip, he was a nice kid with good friends and a bright future.
Condolences to Api's Family and his Friends.
My thoughts are with you today.
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I got Blacklisted for non payment of VAT a few years back.
I was leaving the country and must have been on the computer system for non payment. I was led away by Immigration Officers to a special interview room and told that I had not paid tax. I remember asking how much it was and could I pay by credit card? Idiot.
They could not let me leave Thailand, but they did not know whether they could let me leave the airport as it was a late night flight, so I spent the night in the airport cells.
Was let out the next day, I had to deposit 1million baht as surety for the VAT and wait on an official audit. That audit took over a year to do which meant every time I left or came back I had to get a letter signed by Immigration and then processed through the Blacklist backroom at the airport (which took about 1 hour each time). Some officers knew how to process the documentation and passport, others didn't, but my passport was definitely flagged on the computer as every time I got the stink eye, the phone call and the Officer came to lead me away. Embarrassing.
Once the audit was complete a year later, the tax paid, I was finally given the all clear by Immigration and removed from the Blacklist.
So, lesson learned. My Accountant was at fault. Once you earn over 1.8million baht (if I recall correctly) you have to start paying VAT. I earned way more than that and did not pay VAT, hence my problem. Worth double checking your accountant and your statements.
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Wrong again.
The OP's post contained no names, no credibility and random assertions...that is called scaremongering, and the initial post served no purpose.
Had he waited until he could quote news articles, names and facts, it would have been credible and worthwhile, and helped people rather than scare anyone in the midst of a property deal.
It's called "jumping the gun".